You better find a passion black man

WesCrook

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Hobbies are very important in life, especially in relationships. If you can find a hobby you both share then you’re winning.
This is the key.

Hobbies, passions, purpose.

Man has to have a purpose. Unfortunately, when you bring a woman into your life, they expect to be your SOLE purpose.

Not all, but more than a few
 

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Word, mine is definitely writing, finding out how to monetize it is the hard part tho

At that point you livin life on easy mode :yeshrug:
 

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Big facts.

It's also interesting that people are talking about "rewards" when talking about passions. A passion is something you do because you enjoy it, not because you're expecting a reward lmao. It's insane that this cost/reward way of thinking has even influences how passions are perceived. Somethings are to be enjoyed for what they are.
 

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I see a lot of young men unfulfilled by dating and their jobs. Well you better find something to love. Some shyt that other people don't control that you can do and immerse yourself in it. Study it become obsessed with it in a sense. I'm telling you this will save you. It will save your life.



I know dudes will come in saying "My passion is getting money or p*ssy ect. "

All shyt someone else controls. That means they can control you. Some of ya'll will laugh at this and so what. But for those of you that follow this, you will be happier for it.


My passion is writing and then MMA.
Mine is writing too breh
Inbox me
 

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I know some brehs might not agree…but I think being a husband/father is part of my goal on this planet :hubie: I just gotta find the perfect woman fr.


I’m talkin on some spiritual shyt brehs idk I might be setting myself up for failure :lupe:


I found my real passion in life and I just think the perfect woman for me is gonna complement that idk brehs :hubie:
 

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I agree.

But you guys seem to not wanna point out that no matter how enjoyable your passion is, it still takes a lot of hard work to cultivate it

So? Let the "work" be hard, it's better than not starting and regretting not getting into x or y when you were 2.

You have a point on cultivation but it's too glass half full.
 

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That's the passion (the bolded). The rest is the CONSEQUENCES of that passion. You don't choose to fall in love; you just do.

You don't need to understand instrumentation to fall in love with jazz. It's passion, not reason... You don't need a reason.

It's not lazy talk, it's the very nature of a passion. I can decide to spend a lot of time to become a specialist in computers in order to make money. It does not make it a passion. A passion, by definition, has no reason.

If it's calculate, rationnal, it's not a passion. It's something else.


rep. excellent post.
 
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