This is why black fathers instilling pride in their sons is so important. Very cringe read.

[Guvnor]

He found a rare gem and they don't make them like her anymore. Salute to them both Black love y'all!

Sidenote:She did a lot to support him and that I respect but reading this again she went a little over board. If a woman does all this for you, there is a chance she may not respect you after awhile and look at you as a boy and not a man. Glad that didn't happen here but you never want to be too reliant on a woman's help and as a man you got to try your best to be independent. I think that's what OP is getting at here.

 

[Matt504]

He found a rare gem and they don't make them like her anymore. Salute to them both Black love y'all!

she's not the rare gem, he is.

 

[Guvnor]

she's not the rare gem, he is.

Why you say that? And pause...

Also re-read my post with the edit.

 

[Matt504]

Why you say that? And pause...

Also re-read my post with the edit.

She's not the rare gem because it's not uncommon by any stretch of the imagination to find Black women that are prepared and willing to support Black men they see potential in, the difference between this story and most is that most of those women don't see a return on their investment and I have strong opinions as to why this is but that's for another thread.

 

[Spliff]

This thread is somethin.

Let a thread pop off tomorrow detailing a six figure woman dating a broke, homeless aspiring rapper whose life is financed by said woman.

She would get DRAGGED, along with a few posters generalizing black women's "poor choice in men." shyt would turn into a whole exposé on black women dating struggles.

In here, though?

"What a black queen "

Thecoli.com

 

[krisdave]

There is literally nothing wrong with this. You continue to be a fakkit, OP. fukk right off with your negativity and loneliness spouting this nonsense like a bitter bytch.

WOW I

IM JUST

..................

 

[krisdave]

You really found nothing wrong with this?


You hate to see it.

I knew you were one of the smarter ones in here for a reason

 

[Matt504]

This thread is somethin.

Let a thread pop off tomorrow detailing a six figure woman dating a broke, homeless aspiring rapper whose life is financed by said woman.

She would get DRAGGED, along with a few posters generalizing black women's "poor choice in men." shyt would turn into a whole exposé on black women dating struggles.

In here, though?

"What a black queen "

Thecoli.com

"she skipped over all these brothers with their shyt together to date a homeless aspiring rapper, this is exactly what's wrong with Black women"

 

[semicko82]

Brehs aint being honest in this thread cuz they want a woman to take care of them. Imagine my sister paying a broke brehs rent and buying him a car. Is he disabled? Wtf?

He said "when we met, i was homeless sleeping on a friends couch and she knew"

I can't even blame breh, he was upfront about his situation. She pressed her cape and got into the stance asap



If this was reverse we would be clowning the breh for being a simp.

Female simps are honored tho

The elephant in the room

 

[Juven]

internet comments full of people judging people they don't know

 

[krisdave]

I KNEW IT

I had a feeling 90% of these musty, crusty, dusty, bummy nikkas on thecoli would agree with that hobosexual

I thought yall were MEN, the "bread winners", the "providers"? This fool just revealed to twitter hes marrying his mommy and you have a majority of black men agreeing with his sorry ass, everything in that thread was all she did for him aka he's only the focus here, ive seen women get clowned on here for less

 

[krisdave]

This thread is somethin.

Let a thread pop off tomorrow detailing a six figure woman dating a broke, homeless aspiring rapper whose life is financed by said woman.

She would get DRAGGED, along with a few posters generalizing black women's "poor choice in men." shyt would turn into a whole exposé on black women dating struggles.

In here, though?

"What a black queen "

Thecoli.com

Thats why i dont take these idiots seriously the cognitive dissonance is crazy

 

[theGoldmangod]

Now this is what you consider a black queen...She invested her time and resources into a man that had alot of potential to be something great and it payed off.

The issue with women today is that they don't have any patience to build with men and just want a finished product which is cool but when you build and grow with each other, it make they're relationship even stronger.

Respect to the both of them.

I have never understood this shyt in bold. Not just at you breh, but multiple nikkas have said this in this thread and others and the shyt has me puzzled

Why wouldn't you want the finished product, especially considering we know that the finished product is merely someone who is stable and has their shyt together to be an attractive mate? How is that shyt not normal, and why are we trying to de-normalize it for our women?

Better yet, since we're men, what is the equivalent of this expectation to build up from a man standpoint?

Getting with a fat chick and building her up in the gym till she's thin?

Getting with an ugly chick and investing in her surgery to fix her face?

Getting with a chick who is on "hard times", and moving her in, paying her bills and debt, buying her a car, and getting her a job?

Or better yet, getting with a chick who made a bad choice in life and had a kid or two and is a single mother, and wifing her and building a family with her as a single childless breh?

Help me understand how the building is supposed to work in reverse in the black community brehs Because I know for a fact TLR would never be in support of any of the above

 

[invalid]

She made that nikka. Point. Blank. Simple.

Ain’t no female bout to make me.

 

[Matt504]

I have never understood this shyt in bold. Not just at you breh, but multiple nikkas have said this in this thread and others and the shyt has me puzzled

Why wouldn't you want the finished product, especially considering we know that the finished product is merely someone who is stable and has their shyt together to be an attractive mate? How is that shyt not normal, and why are we trying to de-normalize it for our women?

Better yet, since we're men, what is the equivalent of this expectation to build up from a man standpoint?

Getting with a fat chick and building her up in the gym till she's thin?

Getting with an ugly chick and investing in her surgery to fix her face?

Getting with a chick who is on "hard times", and moving her in, paying her bills and debt, buying her a car, and getting her a job?

Or better yet, getting with a chick who made a bad choice in life and had a kid or two and is a single mother, and wifing her and building a family with her as a single childless breh?

Help me understand how the building is supposed to work in reverse in the black community brehs Because I know for a fact TLR would never be in support of any of the above

same nikkas praising her investment deathly afraid of buying a woman dinner because she MIGHT be using him for free food, meanwhile this woman purchased a nikka his VERY FIRST CAR and paid his rent for MONTHS.

fam, if this story was reversed, the nikka would be known as the biggest simp in Black history and shytted on in Rafters qualifying ways