This is why black fathers instilling pride in their sons is so important. Very cringe read.

[tuckgod]

shyt read like a movie.

I appreciate it, my g

 

[southern.girl]

I didn’t want to say this earlier because I wanted to see the reactions first. But her paying the bills will be a continuous pattern because he’s trying to make it as a rapper ( I’ll held this information back purposely). He’s a starting music producer right now but The businesses are still hers.

This dude better be the next Nas.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Op is mad no female ever helped him with his struggle...

 

[Neuromancer]

Okay this was a good one.

You dikk a chick down good enough she'll kill for you. Word to Charles Manson.

 

[Neuromancer]

This dude better be the next Nas.

He better not be the next Jay Electronica.

 

[zerorequiem]

His woman MADE him. What was he doing in the meantime? Before he met her?

You got Google and YouTube at your disposal there is no way you not making moves.

 

[Guvnor]

She's not the rare gem because it's not uncommon by any stretch of the imagination to find Black women that are prepared and willing to support Black men they see potential in, the difference between this story and most is that most of those women don't see a return on their investment and I have strong opinions as to why this is but that's for another thread.

I disagree, there was a time where black woman would ride for there man and even to a fault like you are saying but these days with social media, times get a little hard and the women these days are out the door fast. It's rare she hung in there with him when you compare her to a lot of the woman now a days.

Your right however in saying that a lot of the women who do that do eventually get fed up and as you put it don't see a return on their investment but at the same time a man should never be in a position where a woman he wants to build a future with has to do that much for him in the first place. It will lead to him being looked down on and would cause the woman to get frustrated. It's one thing if times get hard her helping a little but for her to have to go above and beyond like this is rare these days but also not a good ideal period.

 

[Amused Mastery]

Why wouldn't you want the finished product, especially considering we know that the finished product is merely someone who is stable and has their shyt together to be an attractive mate? How is that shyt not normal, and why are we trying to de-normalize it for our women?

When I think of "finished product", it's some six figures six certs situation where your career/business is exploding and your life is popping on all cylinders. I think what women should be looking for is someone that's at least stable. If you've got a steady job, a car, and a place to live (even living at home is feasible depending on the situation like paying off debt) you're pretty much there.

The dude in this story was so far below even THAT standard. If you're broke to the point that you're crashing on your friend's couch and got no car, you don't need to be bringing someone else along.
The idea of a woman paying for my rent, car, and work equipment is so backwards...like as a man how do you justify that

 

[ColdSlither]

it's the equivalent of him saying, "thank you for investing in me and increasing my value, your reward is me, the thing of value you created"

And?

 

[Gold]

exactly and it's not shytting on dude to say this, it's just a matter of fact.

Facts, I just want people to be consistent.

If you have no problem with this, then thats fine. But if you have major issues with a man doing all this for a woman and you constantly say shyt like "what is she bringing to the table???" Then you better not be prasing this.

I personally think shes a simp, and im simply treating her the same way i treat male simps


Simps serve a very important purpose. She couldnt find the man of her dreams so she built one up like some legos. Plenty brehs do this all the time.

 

[Petty Crocker]

"isn't quite on her level"

fam, they couldn't be further apart.

1. he was homeeless.
2. she helped him pay his rent for MONTHS.
3. she purchased him his very first car
4. she gave him a laptop so he could work
5. she covered most of the costs for a date for a year
she built TWO businesses and let him run them

if you can't see what's wrong here, it's very telling.

Seeing it black and white is just
I keep trying to think of a response but Im just at a loss for words. Homeless. No car. Bought him a car. Paid his rent.
This isnt ride or die, this is insanity.

 

[GhettoTeK]

You really found nothing wrong with this?


You hate to see it.

What’s wrong with it breh?

 

[reserved_one]

I
have never understood this shyt in bold. Not just at you breh, but multiple nikkas have said this in this thread and others and the shyt has me puzzled

Why wouldn't you want the finished product, especially considering we know that the finished product is merely someone who is stable and has their shyt together to be an attractive mate? How is that shyt not normal, and why are we trying to de-normalize it for our women?

Better yet, since we're men, what is the equivalent of this expectation to build up from a man standpoint?

Getting with a fat chick and building her up in the gym till she's thin?

Getting with an ugly chick and investing in her surgery to fix her face?

Getting with a chick who is on "hard times", and moving her in, paying her bills and debt, buying her a car, and getting her a job?

Or better yet, getting with a chick who made a bad choice in life and had a kid or two and is a single mother, and wifing her and building a family with her as a single childless breh?

Help me understand how the building is supposed to work in reverse in the black community brehs Because I know for a fact TLR would never be in support of any of the above

Just because that person is a finished product doesn't mean they don't have flaws/baggage too. The finish product could be a devilish scumbag that treats you shyt.

You gotta understand breh....people fall on hard times all the time. You can be dealing with losing a job, battling a illness, homelessness whatever obstacle it is.

Nothing wrong with someone coming into your life that cares and wants to help you. It's not like breh put a gun to that woman's head and forced her to do that. She did all that for him because she was in love, saw his vision and work ethic.

Now if dude was a lazy bum that sat around smoking weed watching ESPN all day then it's different....I wouldn't support a sister putting up with that.

She handed the keys over to Breh once he got on his feet. He became #1 in the relationship even though he took a different path.

As long as that person is trying, fully determined and has vision....what's the big deal?

 

[Gold]

What’s wrong with it breh?

Would you date a girl sleeping on her frens couch?
Pay her rent?
Buy her a car?
Start 2 businesses and let her run them?

Somethings reserved for family only.

 

[godliness]

This dude is from Malawi??? Damn I wonder the cost of living is like there.