UCLA Study: Women want bad boys to knock them up, nice guys to raise the babies...

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I like your stance, but in my opinion, dudes don't even need to let the woman know. Me, I would simply get a home DNA test, swab the child and send the sample. Once I get the results, I know. No need to announce anything. If the child is mine, she's none the wiser and I feel safe in raising this child as my own. If the child is not mine, just like I didn't let her know about me purchasing a DNA test, I won't let her know that I took off work and had divorce papers drawn up. But she'll find out when she comes home to an empty house with divorce papers sitting in the middle of the barren living room.

Like you said, DNA testing should be done at the hospital before the child is released. Not only for the moral purpose of having the father know the child is his. But for medical purposes as well. How many children/adults suffer medical issues because they don't know their true family medical history. All because some THOT wanted to keep some semblance of dignity that isn't warranted in the first place.

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Im not up on paternity stuff like,that but by doing it at home wouldn't you still be on the hook for the kid since by then you've probably signed the papers as the dad already? That's why I think cats that want it done want it done right then and there.
 

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Im not up on paternity stuff like,that but by doing it at home wouldn't you still be on the hook for the kid since by then you've probably signed the papers as the dad already? That's why I think cats that want it done want it done right then and there.

Yup. See above @Thomas post 572.. Ftmp once you sign (most states) that's your baby no matter how many dna tests you take.
 

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Dudes get this confused alot. There's dudes who are the sh#t to other men(athletes,rappers, etc.) and then there's dudes who are the sh#t to women. In many cases, dudes are stronger in one area than the other, so they might have the adulation of men but be regular with women. And vice versa. A lot of athletes fall into this realm and many of their male fans think the world of them, but women are not moved by them very much. Do women pay attention to all the attention these guys get and work their way into their circle, yes. But that doesn't mean they actually LIKE these guys.

Many an "alpha" has been played by a dude who was low key regulating his chick. The term "alpha" is used out of context in many cases. Calling another man "alpha" on some "he's a bad ass" is :dame: to me.

The sweet spot is being able to be respected amongst men and desired by women equally, but very few men do this.

And this chick is right....paying for sex automatically places you in "LAME" status. Simply put. No matter how many TDs you throw, how high you can jump or how many KOs you turn out :manny:

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I don't know about bold. Maybe you trying not to go down the famous people baby momma way some seem to end up in so to save that or any rape charges you use pros? Maybe they are lame but buying p*ssy esp when you have a lot to potentially lose so you use people as just sex vessels where chances of bullshyt are reduced isn't by itself lame. Sounds like one of those I don't do it so if you do it you're wack type things. I've never payed for a prostitute either so before you think of asking that question cause I have this stance the answer is no just don't agree on that.

I do agree about alpha but I think that's just online and white dudes stuff. I've never heard that term used IRL by anybody. I don't know about the mainly online the "alpha" getting played by the regular dude stories either. Not saying it don't happen at all but online makes it seem like that shyt going on at astronomical rates which if there were ever studies on it I'd bet that isn't the case at all.
 

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Yup. See above @Thomas post 572.. Ftmp once you sign (most states) that's your baby no matter how many dna tests you take.
Thats what I was thinking so basically dude would be doing the test for gp in a sense. It would be great to know its your kid or not but financially you still on the hook for paying for it. I just think cats should talk about it beforehand so if the chick wants to feel like juicy she can bounce and its no ambush situation during an emotional time. I do know a chick through a friend of mine that were doing the do while pregnant just not before so nothing going to stop cheating just the timing of it and I guess that little part helps
 

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My girl and I do this already :patrice:

But what about your wife?
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Yall cats gotta stop doing this making up narratives shyt. Its soo weak. Where did I say YOU or anybody else couldn't do the first question? I'm just being honest and most people don't look at their parents as failures and jumpoffs esp when that means you are probably the same thing or worse. The only thing that is female is when cats make up narratives that aren't even said or implied.

This is another reason why stuff look funny regarding bold. Just like you I don't see dudes IRL on this stuff so it makes it look even worse coming online seeing dudes act like this. Like the guy above you talking about his parents could be suckers and jumpoffs and whats wrong with saying so if they are. Its nothing wrong with it if that's how you feel but being realistic who the fukk says that about their own parents outside of some fukked up situations? That's why its crazy to see cats possibly living/thinking like this IRL. I kinda feel bad for the chick they get with and or future kids cause they probably poison them too. I also agree for better or worse damn near every dude IRL I know wants a main woman not this GMB type stuff you see on here. Now all of them aren't the most faithful which I guess is another story but still lol.

What narrative did I make up? And I'm not supposed to acknowledge my parents failure because then I'd be forced to confront my own shortcomings? Isn't that good? So I'm supposed to remain mediocre because "don't you talk about my momma"

Bruh black men are the biggest mama's boys on earth that's not a good thing
 

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What narrative did I make up? And I'm not supposed to acknowledge my parents failure because then I'd be forced to confront my own shortcomings? Isn't that good? So I'm supposed to remain mediocre because "don't you talk about my momma"

Bruh black men are the biggest mama's boys on earth that's not a good thing
Ive already answered your questions. All of them seems you just want to go back and forth for no reason cause this quote is bringing nothing new that wasn't already addressed for the most part.

The last sentence is some online crock of shyt bro science.
 

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There are ways to protect yourself from fraudelent rape charges from consensual sex...

Giving birth and raising a child are completely life changing events.

I couldn't imagine that anyone would seek to do these things without the support of ONE partner through the entire process.

No woman in her right mind wants children outside of a stable relationship.

There is no appeal in the "bad boy," not sexual or otherwise. These men are not made for the long haul and neither are they leaders.

A real man is stable, strong, self determined and is also a leader.

Stable men are NOT jailbirds or selfish a$$holes...

Having a healthy relationship in REAL life will help many people to understand how these things are important.
 
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