1 in 8 divorces is caused by student loans

[JOHN.KOOL]

well i am marrying a woman who is in medical school and has about 180 thousand in debt right now but she will be a family practitioner and will have no problem paying it off so i'm still winning and styling on ya'll dudes as usual lol.

I read the bold and saw the 'You will be trolled' under your username. You a corny nikka lol

 

[ORDER_66]

Fam, no where in my comment did i say anything about a women who lied about debt. Im not talking about women who lie, I simply said money wouldn't be a factor FOR ME. Why you getting all crazy over my subjective opinion? This is how i feel fam. There is always gonna be bills to pay cuz, i'd rather be paying bills with a woman i love and who loves me regardless of our situation rather than be living a more comfortable life with a woman i love less, all the while knowing that if shyt went south for any reason she is gonna walk out on me most probably.

you have no idea how women are with finances... You keep saying love but women run up debts and have shopping sprees with secret credit cards... and the like... Love doesn't solve everything... what part of that do you not understand?

I just hope your not so blinded by love to see that women are not so pure when it comes to finances....Don't be a simp jeopardizing your financial future.

 

[EndDomination]

Correct me if im wrong but if you marry someone cause you love them, Like truly love them, i don't understand how debt can ever be a factor?

I understand that, i dont care how much i love someone i'd never put up with things such as cheating etc. love can't cure blatant disrespect for me. But if i loved a women i would marry her regardless of whether she was 100,000 dollars or pounds in debt. If i loved someone money would never ever be make or break for me. I dont understand how people can be like ' I love you but the money just aint enough, we gonna have to wrap this shyt up...'

It’s not the money in and of itself that causes the strife in a relationship, it’s the lack of access to things, that the debt causes.
As an adult, you want to be able to drive a nice reliable car, eventually live in a nice house or condo, travel and do fun things every once in a while that cost money, get married and have a child at some point.

Literally not being able to do those things, or to have to struggle immensely to do those things, can wear down anyone over time. Even moreso when the burden is uneven. One person with a lot more debt than the other quickly starts to make the relationship fiscally unequal, and that will build up resentment, trust me.

 

[Originalman]

Sallie mae a home wrecking stank ass hoe...

 

[Originalman]

Student loan debt can't be discharged with a bankrupcy. If you default on your loans it messes up your ability to buy with credit or get loans including car loans and mortgages.

Yep and your check can be garnished. So can your income check refund.

 

[Originalman]

There are financial investigators out there that will scour your loved one's financials... I've heard it being done before....

Just get there info and get a credit report...easy as pie.

 

[Bumblebreh]

you have no idea how women are with finances... You keep saying love but women run up debts and have shopping sprees with secret credit cards... and the like... Love doesn't solve everything... what part of that do you not understand?

I just hope your not so blinded by love to see that women are not so pure when it comes to finances....Don't be a simp jeopardizing your financial future.

And there the expectation of men being the main providers so when you marry the idea of having kids and taking out a mortgage can become a mandatory reality due to the social pressures.And people tend to be terrible when it comes to financial discipline and financial education.
Women tend to be absolved of financial responsibility and when you marry her,her debts become your debts.
And hence in why women are stressing to lock down a guy with a good paying secure job with benefits.

 

[Originalman]

I understand that, i dont care how much i love someone i'd never put up with things such as cheating etc. love can't cure blatant disrespect for me. But if i loved a women i would marry her regardless of whether she was 100,000 dollars or pounds in debt. If i loved someone money would never ever be make or break for me. I dont understand how people can be like ' I love you but the money just aint enough, we gonna have to wrap this shyt up...'

Breh when shyt fukks up relationships its because one or both partners cant/wont do the following.....don't have a plan of action to pay off the debt, can't seperate a want from a need, love material shyt and to keep up with the joneses, can't stay focus on the job at hand (to pay off the debt or are just plan selfish.

 

[Originalman]

It’s not the money in and of itself that causes the strife in a relationship, it’s the lack of access to things, that the debt causes.
As an adult, you want to be able to drive a nice reliable car, eventually live in a nice house or condo, travel and do fun things every once in a while that cost money, get married and have a child at some point.

Literally not being able to do those things, or to have to struggle immensely to do those things, can wear down anyone over time. Even moreso when the burden is uneven. One person with a lot more debt than the other quickly starts to make the relationship fiscally unequal, and that will build up resentment, trust me.

Yep which comes down to too many Americans can't seperate a want from a need. Or don't have the patients to wait to buy shyt when they can afford it. But hey thses last two generation that don't believe in paying their bills either.

shyt breh I am in business with a few kats and one of the businesses is selling cars. You would be amazed how many folks buy shyt with no intent of paying that shyt back then get mad when they shyt gets repoed.

 

[Kaypain]

I get married in 3 weeks and all I been hearing and seeing is just negative bullshyt

 

[Reece]

Do you live in a fukking fantasy world and shyt man??? Why do you keep mentioning this love shyt??? Love don't pay the fukking bills man... Debt is a heavy fukking burden... once you o-mingle accounts in the eyes of the law you responsible for it. shyt fukks up your credit, you gotta pay the bills heavily... Why the fukk you keep mentioning love for??? if she lying abut debt, who's to say she aint lying about something else?

If you love her it shouldn’t matter. Real love though. What happens if you marry her and she gets sick? That shyt can easily get up into the hundreds of thousands of dollars. What if you get sick? Should she leave you now because you broke, in debt and putting a major strain on the household’s finances? The way society talks about relationships nowadays is so noncommittal, self oriented and mercenary...then people wonder why they lonely and can’t find real relationships. People got it stuck in their heads that love doesn’t pay the bills. I guess old people who struggled their entire lives have regrets about that and wished they married someone with more money but guess what, people that married for money end up regretting their life too when they in that nice house with a muthafukka they hate and kids that hate them too. Word to Michael Corleone (watched Godfather yesterday ). That nikka died lonely and disliked by everyone. Appalonia was his real love but he ended up with a chick he ended up hating and vice versa. You should always choose real love if you find it.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Yep. Nikkas here taking about don't get involved with anyone with a high amount of debt, I'm like nikka it's gon happen anyway

Yep and on top of that we are an oppressed people which means any black queen you wife will likely have debt and a bad credit score. It is what it is. Rral men don't depend on their woman for their livelihood. If I can't support my lifestyle without her something wrong.

 

[Dolla$]

I get married in 3 weeks and all I been hearing and seeing is just negative bullshyt

Don’t let what you see on the coli affect what you got going on in your life

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

It’s not the money in and of itself that causes the strife in a relationship, it’s the lack of access to things, that the debt causes.
As an adult, you want to be able to drive a nice reliable car, eventually live in a nice house or condo, travel and do fun things every once in a while that cost money, get married and have a child at some point.

Literally not being able to do those things, or to have to struggle immensely to do those things, can wear down anyone over time. Even moreso when the burden is uneven. One person with a lot more debt than the other quickly starts to make the relationship fiscally unequal, and that will build up resentment, trust me.

If you grow to resent them for that, then you dont really love them.

 

[Supercoolmayo]

I get married in 3 weeks and all I been hearing and seeing is just negative bullshyt

Breh stay off the coli

These #gmb stories would get to anyone