1 in 8 divorces is caused by student loans

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Correct me if im wrong but if you marry someone cause you love them, Like truly love them, i don't understand how debt can ever be a factor?

Go ahead witih that "love conquers all" bullshyt

You can love someone who doesn't come with a luxury car note. If you do, make sure they have the means to pay for it on their own

Money in general is the leading cause of divorce

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Go ahead witih that "love conquers all" bullshyt

You can love someone who doesn't come with a luxury car note. If you do, make sure they have the means to pay for it on their own

Money in general is the leading cause of divorce

Please show me exactly where i said 'love conquers all'? You nikkas really need to learn how to read properly and actually comprehend whats being said.....

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Please show me exactly where i said 'love conquers all'? You nikkas really need to learn how to read properly and actually comprehend whats being said.....

You said if you "really love somebody" debt shouldn't be a factor. fukk that. Someone bringing a mortgage they can't pay back into a relationship is not going to help it. There are plenty of equally lovable people who aren't saddled down with debt they can't pay back.

For the record my wife has student loans. One day out of the blue about 6 years ago she got a call. Apparently she had an outstanding loan she never paid on and they wanted to collect. She paid that shyt cash out of her account on the spot It was like $20K too from what I remember. So I never stressed that shyt because once I got to know her I knew she was good for it.

If you're going to commit to somebody for life it's hardly unreasonable to vet every aspect of their lives and pass if there's anything you can't deal with. Including student loans "Love" doesn't mean having to accept any and everything your partner brings into the equation

 

[Critical Distance]

Correct me if im wrong but if you marry someone cause you love them, Like truly love them, i don't understand how debt can ever be a factor?

A lot of people are terrible at managing debt and don't even marry people they love.

Combine this with unrealistic expectations and you have a recipe for disaster.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

A lot of people are terrible at managing debt and don't even marry people they love.

Combine this with unrealistic expectations and you have a recipe for disaster.

Exactly, people treat marriage as business arrangements, and marry because of convenience with alot of lust mixed in not because of actual Love.

In my post i said '...if you marry someone cause you love them, like truly love them,...' Im talking about the context of people marrying because of actual love being the reason and if that is the reason for you deciding to be married then i dont understand how debt could be a factor. Im insinuating exactly what you just said, people dont marry people they truly love and ultimately that is why all these other issues can cause a marriage to fail. All those people commenting and debating with me cannot comprehend words, they don't read properly.

 

[UpAndComing]

Correct me if im wrong but if you marry someone cause you love them, Like truly love them, i don't understand how debt can ever be a factor?

Keep watching Disney movies brehs

 

[UpAndComing]

I believe American's economy got a little better and we would have been in an economic Depression already if it wasnt for student loans. Thanks for helping the economy by majoring in Art brehs

 

[UpAndComing]

well i am marrying a woman who is in medical school and has about 180 thousand in debt right now but she will be a family practitioner and will have no problem paying it off so i'm still winning and styling on ya'll dudes as usual lol.

Thats alot of uncertainty still breh lol

 

[Eza]

No wonder these hoz be winning.. It's some simp minded ass nikkas wandering around, as evidenced by this thread...

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

You said if you "really love somebody" debt shouldn't be a factor. fukk that. Someone bringing a mortgage they can't pay back into a relationship is not going to help it. There are plenty of equally lovable people who aren't saddled down with debt they can't pay back.

For the record my wife has student loans. One day out of the blue about 6 years ago she got a call. Apparently she had an outstanding loan she never paid on and they wanted to collect. She paid that shyt cash out of her account on the spot It was like $20K too from what I remember. So I never stressed that shyt because once I got to know her I knew she was good for it.

If you're going to commit to somebody for life it's hardly unreasonable to vet every aspect of their lives and pass if there's anything you can't deal with. Including student loans "Love" doesn't mean having to accept any and everything your partner brings into the equation

I was gonna reply to this but i can't be asked man, repeating myself is long. All thread long i been repeating myself to nikkas..

Exactly, people treat marriage as business arrangements, and marry because of convenience with alot of lust mixed in not because of actual Love.

In my post i said '...if you marry someone cause you love them, like truly love them,...' Im talking about the context of people marrying because of actual love being the reason and if that is the reason for you deciding to be married then i dont understand how debt could be a factor. Im insinuating exactly what you just said, people dont marry people they truly love and ultimately that is why all these other issues can cause a marriage to fail. All those people commenting and debating with me cannot comprehend words, they don't read properly.

Read that from what me and critical distance were saying....

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Correct me if im wrong but if you marry someone cause you love them, Like truly love them, i don't understand how debt can ever be a factor?

Marriage is a business decision. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Keep watching Disney movies brehs

Marriage is a business decision. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

Im surrounded by retards........

 

[Reno89]

Not a good idea to marry a person with outrageous debt. That's a instant divorce in waiting.

Sistas are the most educated though

 

[Reno89]

Im surrounded by retards........

If everyone is crazy, you're the one that's insane

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

If everyone is crazy, you're the one that's insane

I'll embrace that tag of insane then, and wear it like a badge of honour...