18 Ugly Truths About Modern Dating

[Raava]

Yep

Lot of the shyt on that list is only a problem if you entertain it

Another big problem with "modern dating" is a lot of people date strangers... ... all the chicks I knew before I dated = zero problems. Scumbags and slores tend to congregate as do generally good people... if u maintain a quality social circle shyt like this shouldn't be too big of an issue.

Those. Seriously. People show who they are, actions still speak louder than words regardless of what age we are in.

 

[JLova]

I really hope I don't have to go back into the dating world. People are just too damn narcissistic, flaky/unreliable and downright devious.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I really hope I don't have to go back into the dating world. People are just too damn narcissistic, flaky/unreliable and downright devious.

FLAKING with women in this generation is ridiculous. I'm not even talking chicks YOU sought out and gamed to, I'm talking women who came up to YOU to tell you that they found you attractive. How the fukk does THE CHICK make the initial approach and STILL flake?

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

2. Because we want to show how cavalier and blasé we can be to the other person, little psychological games like ‘Intentionally Take Hours Or Days To Text Back’ will happen. They aren’t fun.


Sometimes the phone battery dies! Or it was on silent, and then the battery dies

 

[concise]

Another big problem with "modern dating" is a lot of people date strangers... ... all the chicks I knew before I dated = zero problems. Scumbags and slores tend to congregate as do generally good people... if u maintain a quality social circle shyt like this shouldn't be too big of an issue.

Yeah, cuz no one you've known for a while will ever switch it up on you.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Yeah, cuz no one you've known for a while will ever switch it up on you.

Not always... you still have a better shot than with a total stranger

 

[semtex]

This dude always writes good shyt There was some other list he had that was piff too. Can't remember tho.

EDIT: here it is, i posted it a while back

http://thoughtcatalog.com/christopher-hudspeth/2014/01/7-dating-trends-that-should-stop-immediately/

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Yep

Lot of the shyt on that list is only a problem if you entertain it

Another big problem with "modern dating" is a lot of people date strangers... ... all the chicks I knew before I dated = zero problems. Scumbags and slores tend to congregate as do generally good people... if u maintain a quality social circle shyt like this shouldn't be too big of an issue.

OMG I talked about dating within quality social circles in the 'Women What Goes Through Your Head When a Guy Doesn't Approach You' (or something like that) thread and so many whiny bytch ass dudes acted like I was speaking Chinese. One dude even said that it was "impossible." Dudes were defending bothering random women on the street like their survival depended on it. Damn shame. Glad you have the same idea.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

This thread makes me regret not locking up this one chick who while crazy, was cute and could make me laugh and actually really gave a fukk about me.

 

[Turbulent]

most of the list is "true" but there is a simple solution to all of it. simply don't try to outsmart the game. whatever you bid in the game (time, money, emotion, body, energy, reputation, your security, etc) you bid it in order to maybe gain more. just remember that you never have to play and it's always your choice. and if you do choose to play, be at peace with the possibility that you might lose what you bid in. if you can't afford it, don't buy in.

the problem with us is that we always want to outsmart the game.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

most of the list is "true" but there is a simple solution to all of it. simply don't try to outsmart the game. whatever you bid in the game (time, money, emotion, body, energy, reputation, your security, etc) you bid it in order to maybe gain more. just remember that you never have to play and it's always your choice. and if you do choose to play, be at peace with the possibility that you might lose what you bid in. if you can't afford it, don't buy in.

the problem with us is that we always want to outsmart the game.

Breh, we have to play if we want p*ssy. Like it or not nature made US the hunters, unless you're strikingly good looking, rich, or have the GOAT personality/social circle then you're not gonna get laid by choosing not to play the game

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh, we have to play if we want p*ssy. Like it or not nature made US the hunters, unless you're strikingly good looking, rich, or have the GOAT personality/social circle then you're not gonna get laid by choosing not to play the game

its not worth winning if you cant win big

 

[MikelArteta]

#6


I don't even bother going after women anymore, I just focus on myself & my hobbies

strange thing in life all my great relationships were when i wasn't looking just focusing on myself and could care less.

when you focus on your hobbies, and continue to build

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

FLAKING with women in this generation is ridiculous. I'm not even talking chicks YOU sought out and gamed to, I'm talking women who came up to YOU to tell you that they found you attractive. How the fukk does THE CHICK make the initial approach and STILL flake?

I've experience this once or twice....shyt is bizarre......But they come back around sometimes......

 

[MikelArteta]

This thread makes me regret not locking up this one chick who while crazy, was cute and could make me laugh and actually really gave a fukk about me.