30 + , single, no kids, debt free...

[Mowgli]

Give me your address first... And we have a deal

My address? For what?

 

[Easy-E]

Do you childless folks have any interest in having kids or feel any concern to having kids when you're "older"?

@Bless't

No. And I think I'm old enough to seriously feel that way.

I done had too many setbacks to commit to that lifestyle.

I need freedom.

 

[JamilALAmin]

Marriage ain't for everybody. Kids ain't for everybody. Some of us nikkas doing y'all a favor by staying out them pools. My life has been crazy enough without having to bring other souls into my universe. Even now that I'm older and more mature I feel like it would just be more shyt to worry about.

 

[Bless't]

Its a cluster fukk for selfish people to have kids. On one hand, you want to have kids and on ther other, youre to self absorbed to be a good parent and kids? They will try you and youll start to realize why people abandon their families. Be careful. Some people should never have children.

The most real thing you've ever posted.

 

[Bless't]

My address? For what?

Because I need to get gripped up.



You big dummy.

 

[FSP]

Suicide? what?? Why?

Are you still with the mother?

Because I wasn't feeling where I was going. Never had many friends or women in my life. Then I got addicted to hard drugs for a while and I dropped out of college so my fam turned on me too and shyt. It was like an abyss. Nothing to do, nowhere to go. Nobody to see. No money, no car, no job, no friends -- and then my family slowly started pulling away from me too. I was actually diagnosed with depression and adhd but my psychologists all dropped me because I was too hard to work with so I never got prescribed meds for it.

Then I had my first daughter lol

No i ain't with that chick in fact, funny story about her. We hated each other for the first 5 or 6 years that we knew each other..somehow that led to some powerful sex one night.

 

[:-)]

Well right now I got an artist development meeting next month to worry about ( I'm excited yay!) so music is obviously my first priority. I have about $4,000 worth of college debt and $1,000 in credit card debt . I'm chipping away at it slowly so I'm not tripping. Once I get the cards down by a good 80 percent I'm a go ahead and put my down payment for wrestling school (long time coming ) so hopefully by the end of fall I will be enrolled .


I've lost almost 10 pounds so far so I'm good . I'm working on dropping it down to 140/150. I want to work on myself before worrying about men. What I want isn't here. I can't grow/live here anymore. Been time to fly but I can't just yet.

Can't wrestle while pregnant so no kids for me any time soon .

Seems like things are FINALLY starting to work out for me now! It's coming together slowly but it's coming together!

 

[All Knowledge]

No quite 30 yet, but it's getting close.

Debt FREE, financially secure and I can feel my future sons and daughter dancing around in my ballsack, ready to be released

I gotta be careful

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

All brehs and brehettes subscribing to the above...

How do you see your life playing out? be truthful, please.

Relationship wise, I won't settle. I know who I am and what it is I bring to the table. Make me smile and laugh... And that's a great start. We can go from there.

Professionally... This could be different for everyone obviously. As long as I know I'm doing my job efficiently and succinctly then I'm good. I need more aspiration though. Comfortability is the devils work.

Let's here it Coli. I'd even go as low as 25+.

we can all kid ourselves into thinking looks don't matter... they do

if you not great looks wise, you gonna be settling one way or another... especially if a good looking counter part is apart of your wish list

 

[Remote]

I'm 25 little debt 10k. But make over 100k. Idk man I'm done with these hoes Breh, I got a girl who's a cute 7. Idk if that settling or not.

She's wife worthy, educated, nice, godly, compassionate, woke.

But idk man I'm a rare breed out here and I know it. I don't wanna go crazy but it's harder not to go crazy than to be safe out here. That's my personality


I don't wanna lose a good girl but then again I don't know

You won.

 

[rogue_riezo]

Do you childless folks have any interest in having kids or feel any concern to having kids when you're "older"?

I have interest in having kids, but I've never wanted to have kids prior to having my shyt in order. There's still quite a bit on my "to-do" list before I'll consider procreating.

I always wanted to have kids later because most of the examples of parents 25 and under around me were terrible. Not that age automatically results in having your shyt together but it helps.

 

[African Peasant]

I'm must be the only guy on thecoli who wanna have a normal life : wife, kids, family house, family vacation, doing stuff with my kids

I'm enjoying my youth and bachelor life right now but when it will be time to settle I will do it with a smile on my face : I'll create a family and enjoy another form of happiness, the same way I left my childhood and became an adult.

 

[Koba St]

Jesus died at age 33,

joke ruined

 

[King Poetic]

1.. I'm so glad I don't have kids especially in this day and age

2.. even though I have a chick, its going to be hard for any black man as u get older to find a black woman without kids..

3..finally got perfect work schedule so im good

4.. financially could be better... college loans and cost if living..

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Done using that black woman you were cheesing it up with nikka?

You too remember when the coli ladies favorite white knight fukked that wench in every orifice and tossed her in the bushes What a time to be alive