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[#1 pick]

I didn't say for him to chase a woman...i said it's stupid to close yourself off from relationships because of the generic "i'd rather stack this paper". Being open to something and actively pursuing it are two very different things.

And yes, someone else would. You asked me specifically and I said no - this has a lot to do with what my expectations are for a mate at this point and the fact that really we're probably in two very different socio-economic classes at this point in life.

There are plenty of good women (cute, ain't tryig to be an IG celebrity, capable of being a faithful mate) who would date him, a 24-28 year old chick with a college degree with a stable $40-60k job who still has time/patience to build with a dude.

I'm over 30, with two degrees, well into my career and dont have that time to invest left in me. If I were single, anyone stepping to me would need to be at the point in their life where they're mentally/emotionally/financially ready to get married, have kids, and buy a home.


Edit: the TLDR version of this - I'm an outlier. Pose this to chicks 22-27 who represent the average (financially and education wise)

Gotta look forward, you got a lot of good. Wish you the best

 

[Mugenight]

It speaks volumes about how you really feel about your mom and who she is that you simply can't say "If I met a woman with the same character as my mom I'd wife her up". We just gonna leave it at that, I don't need you to Juelz why you'd view it as a mistake to wife up a woman who's of the same character as your mother. I empathize my dude, if your own momma ain't shyt, how can you possibly think any woman could be anything other than an ain't shyt herself

That's nice and all but......

It's simple if you don't like being called out or feeling stupid simply save yourself the troubling of generalizing next time the truth of the matter is your line of reasoning( which is men who have a problem with women in general because of their mother) is flawed based on the simple fact you have no way of proving your claims if this somehow Juelzing to you then you're moronic and frankly it's my fault for choosing to take you seriously.

 

[the bossman]

fukk these bytches to sleep

yo I just heard this shyt for the first time last week. shyt is so funny everytime i hear ol boy say it

 

[MaxPain]

yo I just heard this shyt for the first time last week. shyt is so funny everytime i hear ol boy say it

fukk these bytches to sleep and toss em to the side of the road like a dam dog!

He be dead serious when he says this shyt. His videos are comedy

 

[Shorty K]

That's nice and all but......

It's simple if you don't like being called out or feeling stupid simply save yourself the troubling of not generalizing next time the truth of the matter is your line of reasoning( which is men who have a problem with women is in general because of their mother) is flawed based on the simple fact you have no way of proving your claims if this somehow Juelzing to you then you're moronic and frankly it's my fault for choosing to take you seriously.

Didn't you just sit up here and say you don't fukk with your mom like that because she ain't shyt? And you don't think that has fukked with your thoughts about women at all, huh? nikka really sat up here and told me not to generalize while validating that generalization.

 

[Elle Driver]

The thing of it is, some women never grow out of it. Even in old age, i deal with my grandma, and she refuses to acknowledge any of her wrong doings or selfish traits. Instead she deflects the conversation and cries victim like she's under attack and people are unfairly ganging up on her......



Oh yeah and she was a thot back in the day, to the fullest extinct, she was chasing dikk, ditching her family on christmas morning while we were opening up presents, when she was in 60s.....

This shyt isnt cute and i wont tolerate this behavior from a mate either.


Now my mom was the complete opposite, she's never thotted it up, at least since I've been born. She may have done things before she met my dad but thats no big deal.....


The real problem with thots, is when they go on to exhibit the behavior of my grandma. Where they're never satisfied and always putting dikk or self satisfaction over more important things like family. My grandma is mad selfish and never takes any accountability. I damn sure dont want anyone like that as a mate.

I think it’s tied to narcissism.

 

[DPresidential]

I was being facetious because I was getting annoyed with the caping in this thread.

I am man enough to admit I do have some self-esteem issues.

I suppose what I want in the end is proof to end my reasoning that women will do you dirty when given the chance. I am man enough to admit that.

As for his stance, dunno. Never grew up with him. He was a known womanizer with multiple children, so I'd assume he knew the game off rip.

Your father knows the game?

He's spread his seed around and left it unwatered.

He tied himself down to multiple women -that according to you shouldn't be trusted- and he knows the game off rip?

You are a man with serious insecurity hangups.

You're father lost the game as soon as he rolled the dice and picked which dog piece he wanted to play with.

You need some big brothers and friends to help you view yourself as more than a malleable nikka that YouTube dating experts prey on and he'll you view the opposite sex as more than ISIS terrorists.

 

[-deleted-]

Your father knows the game?

He's spread his seed around and left it unwatered.

He tied himself down to multiple women -that according to you shouldn't be trusted- and he knows the game off rip?

You are a man with serious insecurity hangups.

You're father lost the game as soon as he rolled the dice and picked which dog piece he wanted to play with.

You need some big brothers and friends to help you view yourself as more than a malleable nikka that YouTube dating experts prey on and he'll you view the opposite sex as more than ISIS terrorists.

I'm not sure how I'm supposed to respond to this, and I'm assuming some part of you is trying to genuinely drop knowledge, so thanks I suppose. However, you don't know me nor what I've been through. Don't act like you do my nikka.

 

[Ms. Quick]

Exactly,

It's like in the initial stages of courting or a relationship, you come off extra smooth and overly confident like you got a million other chicks and she's replaceable, but then once, you drop that aura and facade of having other women at your disposal, to show that you're truly committed to her and not playa, things start to change.....

Because now you'll get labeled as a square or not exciting enough....
But then women will say they're tired of dealing with players.....

Yes, the fukk shyt. That's why I said most people are lucky to even meet one person who loves them unconditionally, not just on a superficial level (not saying looks don't matter BTW).

I mean generally liking that person's aura when the novelty wears off, glancing at a nikka on a lazy afternoon as he eats a bowl of cereal in a shirt he had on yesterday and still loving his life force kind of shyt. Low key cringing when he says something cheesy but finding it endearing. The excitement of newness giving way to a warm ebb of appreciation, knowing that person has seen you for you and still cares all the same.

Life is pain. Sometimes you come across that person when you're not ready, maybe not at all. You just got to hope you're not cynical when you finally do, but I understand why people are. I don't blame them.

 

[DPresidential]

I'm not sure how I'm supposed to respond to this, and I'm assuming some part of you is trying to genuinely drop knowledge, so thanks I suppose. However, you don't know me nor what I've been through. Don't act like you do my nikka.

nikka, you gave info on your life.

You also have the typical characteristics of a disgruntled internet poster.

That's a lot of info that I can go on to form an opinion about you.

And with this message, you clearly are tight enough to hit me with a "you don't know me" trope.

All because I used your info to form an opinion.

Neither one of us is a sociologist yet I'm wrong for forming opinion about you.

But, you think you have credence forming an opinion of women you haven't met based on info about the limited women who've fukked you over.

Any one see the irony?

 

[Starski]

Man I swear the coli is filled with the male equivalent of scorn bytches

News flash. PEOPLE ain’t shyt. Choose right. Talking some whit saying a women WILL cheat on you

 

[Mugenight]

Didn't you just sit up here and say you don't fukk with your mom like that because she ain't shyt? And you don't think that has fukked with your thoughts about women at all, huh? nikka really sat up here and told me not to generalize while validating that generalization.

Yeah...

It's clear to me now you have a comprehension problem.

I highly suggest you read what I said again because I clearly said nothing of the sort this is simply you jumping to conclusions for reasons that are beyond me.

 

[Shorty K]

Yeah...

It's clear to me now you have a comprehension problem.

I highly suggest you read what I said again because I clearly said nothing of the sort this is simply you jumping to conclusions for reasons that are beyond me.

Jumping to conclusions? nikka you posted this "not trying to be an a$$hole it is what it is but then again neither Her nor my Father where apart of my life like that so maybe that has something to do with it."

 

[Mugenight]

Jumping to conclusions? nikka you posted this "not trying to be an a$$hole it is what it is but then again neither Her nor my Father where apart of my life like that so maybe that has something to do with it."

Tell me how does that translate to my parents ain't shyt?

Or more specifically my mother?

You're testing my patience....

 

[concise]

nikka, you gave info on your life.

You also have the typical characteristics of a disgruntled internet poster.

That's a lot of info that I can go on to form an opinion about you.

And with this message, you clearly are tight enough to hit me with a "you don't know me" trope.

All because I used your info to form an opinion.

Neither one of us is a sociologist yet I'm wrong for forming opinion about you.

But, you think you have credence forming an opinion of women you haven't met based on info about the limited women who've fukked you over.

Any one see the irony?

First post and title edited to ellipses?
Feelings caught.