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[BmoreGorilla]

@BmoreGorilla tell us the story abt ya wife cheating?? Red flag you noticed? How ya family felt about? How you overcame the cheating & divorce? What u learnt? Etc

Full story right here

Officially about to join team GMB

Basically the red flags I noticed were her spending less time at home, blaming me for all our issues, and her temper getting shorter. One time while she was at the gym my daughter called to say Gn and she didn’t pick up or call back. I immediately knew what time it was and did my homework and found out everything and kicked her out the house. I told EVERYBODY even y’all lol. But believe it or not the coli was therapeutic because people have some real good advice and of course all the ridiculous immature shyt nikkas said made me laugh at the situation. My family was pissed. I had women that wanted to fight her. My pops still wont be in the room with her. Everybody else keeps it cordial.

Really the only thing that can heal it is time. You go thru every emotion you can think of. I’ve lost friends and family to the drug game, addiction, disease. Seen a lot of shyt. Made a lot of mistakes. None of that compares to the pain you get from a spouse betraying you like that. Even had to go to some therapy. But I had a good support system that stayed in my ear and made sure I was good and didn’t do anything stupid. Trust me I had some people ready to make dude disappear and there were times I was gonna take it into my own hands. But I didn’t wanna fukk up my future or our daughter’s, What made the divorce so bad is that she dragged it out so long. It was obvious she didn’t want one. But at the end of the day i got what I wanted which was the house and joint custody. Only money kicked out was for lawyer

Main thing I learned is don’t get married for the wrong reasons and don’t let your relationship get stale. Not making any excuses for her but I know I slacked off for many years and she put up with a lot of bs from me. I wasn’t happy but I stayed in it for the family. I should’ve ducked out or manned up and did the things I promised I would. Since then she’s admitted why she cheated and how she was wrong. She wants to come back but no way I could ever trust her again and it would never work. But I’d do it all over again. We have a beautiful daughter as a result and a lot of good memories. shyt happens. Me and her are trying to get back to at least being friends. She’s a good person and held me down thru a lot over the years. We just weren’t good together

 

[number21]

The amount of caping in this thread is so high that it convince me that I should neg anyone who dare try to spew some nonsense about how Coli Men hate women or black women.

 

[DPresidential]

The amount of caping in this thread is so high that it convince me that I should neg anyone who dare try to spew some nonsense about how Coli Men hate women or black women.

You're comment is too late, my nikka.

 

[Mugenight]

Everything that was said was deserved. I need to do better. Thank you.

Look it's good your self-reflecting and all but don't confuse simp shyt with good intentions.

 

[Mugenight]

I mean that's not funny in itself, just the fact that you really in your heart don't believe that's fukked with your perception of women. That's insane my dude

Astonishing......

I grew up around women I even raised a few you have no idea who you're talking to.

 

[-deleted-]

Look it's good your self-reflecting and all but don't confuse simp shyt with good intentions.

Nah never that. Trust me, any simp shyt you hear from me is sarcasm.

I do have a lot I need to work on. We all do. I respect @BmoreGorilla and his willingness to share his story. It has me thinking I can share mine instead of being ashamed of it.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Nah never that. Trust me, any simp shyt you hear from me is sarcasm.

I do have a lot I need to work on. We all do. I respect @BmoreGorilla and his willingness to share his story. It has me thinking I can share mine instead of being ashamed of it.

This has actually been a good thread. A lot of good dialog and game in here. How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

 

[-deleted-]

This has actually been a good thread. A lot of good dialog and game in here. How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

24.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

"Seeing how women move, do you still want a relationship"


And nikkas were hating on me for saying dude would be better off dating men smh. 1st reply I seen right thru him

Madness

 

[Mass]

I gotta pull up a chair and read through this thread...

 

[BmoreGorilla]

24.

Maaaaan you still young as hell. Trust me the best years of your life are still ahead. These Ls whether self imposed or not are gonna help you grow as a person

 

[the bossman]

24.

this explains a lot. you'll be straight breh. just live your life with an open mind. always be open to life challenging your ideas/theories you have set in your mind. you should be all about the self-growth right now. I would not even take women seriously at 24

 

[Drew Wonder]

24.

I hate to pull the “your outlook might change when you get older” cliche but it’s true. Your perception on relationships and women in general will likely change drastically as you get closer and closer to your 30s. I say that as someone who was on some “I’m gonna stay single forever” shyt when I was in my early 20s but have since settled down. Having said all that don’t fall into the “I’m almost 30 so I have to settle down” trap either even when you get that pressure from friends and family. That’s an easy way to get in a relationship with the wrong person if you start letting family and societal pressure play a role

 

[DPresidential]

Maaaaan you still young as hell. Trust me the best years of your life are still ahead. These Ls whether self imposed or not are gonna help you grow as a person

This right here is truth.

And this was a good thread.

I would love a an update years from now and whatever situation he's in, I want to see the Breh happy.

Dead ass, fukk daps and at risk of sounding corny, I just want my black brothers to have happy lives

 

[BigMan]

What are the black females looking like on those Caribbean islands in terms of personality? ....because i just can't decide with these mugs in the states.

Lol if you can’t handle America you can’t handle the Caribbean