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[BmoreGorilla]

If this is the case then what I've been saying must now look like teenage angst, lol. However, I'll give the rundown on my story. Basically, was with a girl for about three years. Beautiful, kind, had a great energy. She was younger than me by a couple years, so she was a little naive, but I was her 3rd boyfriend but her first "real love." She was kind of my first real love as well, so I wasn't perfect. I'd be insecure at times, jealous, etc. But after seeing how down she was for me, I decided that I wouldn't mind going the next step with her which would be living with her sometime in the next year, when our situations would permit it.

That's when the shyt came. It was like as soon as she realized I'd be down for the long haul, she changed up. Suddenly started talking to me less. More shyt tests. Less sex. I didn't even have to do any dirty work to know that someone else was in the picture. This being my firsthand experience with getting played like that, I cut her loose. What sucks is that she never outright told me there was someone else. She made some BS excuse. There was never any real closure.

Then something happened. My aura changed. It became real negative and dark. Pushed women away. If I didn't, I only wanted them for the buns. Only kept a small circle. Fast forward a couple months... we're here.

I won't lose though. I refuse to lose to negativity.

You did the right thing by cutting it off and you shouldn’t jump back into anything solid so soon anyway. But remember she’s even younger than you. When shyt got serious sounds like she didn’t know how to handle it or maybe she was already cheating and felt guilty so she pushed you away. Regardless you should let these situations help you progress as a person not regress. There’s nothing wrong with just after ass either

I couldn’t even imagine being in my teens and 20s now trying to date. Social media adds challenges us older cats didn’t have to deal with. But we had challenges that y’all don’t. I was your age when MySpace was new. That’s why I laugh on here when dudes talk about not being able to approach women. There was a point in time when we had to approach because there were no options. But y’all have more options and apparently you have options with the women so don’t let one woman fukk your mindset up. Sometimes you just gotta charge it to the game

 

[Wild self]

This is where I disagree, two average salaries only work if the lifestyle is willing to match. Otherwise, two equal salaries generally don't work for most women. Most of them want more. They compare to the guys who had more but of course didn't settle with their dumbasses. Women don't think like that in reference to themselves. They just don't. Dora, you might feel that way for others but do you want a 60k dude if you bringing in 60k especially if you don't had better in the past? Women aren't that practical and in a capitalist society, this makes sense.

The constant allure of living in luxury is embedded in most women's minds. They want that fancy condo by the waterfront, the dinners at Ruth Chris and 42, the "standard" car to be a BMW 7 series, the exotic vacations, European clothes, and so on.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

@BalmainReyes I know exactly what your going through I'm 23 rn but i think i've come to a resolve.

-Get outta me feelings, being emotional leads me to start being irrational
-Go with the wind. I wont cut off any women that fits into my life but I'm gonna be selective about who i let in
-Communicate. If the other party refuses to communicate and acknowledge the issue at hand either cut your losses and kip or keep engaging with each other but don't take it seriously

 

[Wild self]

OP dont renig you were on the right track in ur opening statements...women are about hypergamy by nature. All that eternal love bullshyt for thr byrds. Get em and let em know they can amd will be replaced or suffer forever wit the opposite sex. Once she know you aint going anywhere 99% of women gonna take full advantage

Today's dating game, its all or nothing for 98% of these broads. Moderation is a concept that they don't understand anymore.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

The moment people stop saying this bullshyt this world might be a better place.

Sorry it hasn't worked out

If this is the case then what I've been saying must now look like teenage angst, lol. However, I'll give the rundown on my story. Basically, was with a girl for about three years. Beautiful, kind, had a great energy. She was younger than me by a couple years, so she was a little naive, but I was her 3rd boyfriend but her first "real love." She was kind of my first real love as well, so I wasn't perfect. I'd be insecure at times, jealous, etc. But after seeing how down she was for me, I decided that I wouldn't mind going the next step with her which would be living with her sometime in the next year, when our situations would permit it.

That's when the shyt came. It was like as soon as she realized I'd be down for the long haul, she changed up. Suddenly started talking to me less. More shyt tests. Less sex. I didn't even have to do any dirty work to know that someone else was in the picture. This being my firsthand experience with getting played like that, I cut her loose. What sucks is that she never outright told me there was someone else. She made some BS excuse. There was never any real closure.

Then something happened. My aura changed. It became real negative and dark. Pushed women away. If I didn't, I only wanted them for the buns. Only kept a small circle. Fast forward a couple months... we're here.

I won't lose though. I refuse to lose to negativity.

How old was she?

 

[-deleted-]

Sorry it hasn't worked out

How old was she?

21

 

[Wild self]

Be careful of the advice u take bc not everyone has ur best interest in mind, even other men. Any advice from women for the most part is trash, and the majority of men.

There are good women who can add value to ur life, but they are few and far in between. And even they can be corrupted bc this country gives them the oppurtunity to be rotten if they want. Its a depressing reality.

What u need to do is get urself together, accept this reality, and fukk these bytches to sleep till u meet a real one. And accept the fact that u may never meet a real one.

Add to this....

The GAME, as in legit advice, is suppressed to the point where the average dude has to go through tons of burnouts and trials and tribulations, on top of carefully studying the basis of superficial attraction (mouthpiece, being in shape, cologne, style of texting, pics of you on social media living the 300k per year lifestyle, unique/sharp style of dressing, etc) and providing an emotional response where 99% of the dudes are clueless on. It is designed for the average simple minded dude to say "get money" when getting money only makes you into a bigger trick and a pathetic try-hard. That is why social clout and a tight social circle is a MUST to get with these extroverted bird brain bytches.

Its all done by design. Even the subliminal pic with 2 drinks labeled as "date night" on social media goes a long way. Cause vanity runs wild with the modern female that has 10,000 simps in her DMs.

 

[Wild self]

Its just funny seeing how us men go so hard in defending women lol

Behind closed doors and in public, women be laughing and clowning nikkas... They dont be defending shyt


nikkas always defending womens honor, meanwhile women be on that do-for-self shyt lol

Capes was flying in this bytch

Once you ain't interested in a woman's p*ssy or mind, she lost 99% of her power. I met a small handful of women that are about the integrity shyt. Otherwise, they are on that flimsy trend hopping nonsense. They even backstab their long time friends for some attention.

 

[Wild self]

I'm not. I'm in a healthy relationship with a black man who respects me just as much as I respect him. We understand each other's past and future. We don't cheat, we're honest and it's like that. Are we perfect? No. But the stuff y'all be describing on here is highly dysfunctional. I know it's fairy tale land cause y'all fukk with the birds you fukk with but good women are out there just as much as good men instead of honing in on sexual escapades to (escape your insecurities) or (fulfill your needs) how bout learning to love yourself and becoming whole with oneself. Nobody should be in any type of relationship if they feel their incomplete. Trust me I know.

I'm a still fukk these bytches to sleep and leave them on the street like a damn dog!

Spoiler

you take things too seriously

 

[queenblaq]

One too many

Admit to not being mentally sound enough to give relationship advice then call it lies all in one post brehs

One = multiple? You said multiple. Again keep lying.

Also OP thanked me for my advice so that’s on that. Keep being a catty bytch who beats and looks down on women because of his own demons. That’s all you got going for you anyway.

 

[queenblaq]

I'm a still fukk these bytches to sleep and leave them on the street like a damn dog!

Spoiler

you take things too seriously

Ok do you, b

 

[Wild self]

Ok do you, b

yep. That is what the dating game has boiled down to.

 

[#1 pick]

OP, why did you change the thread title?

 

[MaxPain]

One = multiple? You said multiple. Again keep lying.

Also OP thanked me for my advice so that’s on that. Keep being a catty bytch who beats and looks down on women because of his own demons. That’s all you got going for you anyway.

Get in an abusive relationship and try to act like ur fit to give relationship advice brehs

Take ur own advice!!

 

[MaxPain]

I'm a still fukk these bytches to sleep and leave them on the street like a damn dog!

Spoiler

you take things too seriously