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[Wild self]

Yall nikkas gotta just deal with the reality that we might die single without finding Mrs. Right. Deal with it.

I stopped investing all my time into relationships a long time ago. I mean its cool if I get into one with a woman that's dope to me and vice versa to her. But its not the end of the world If I don't either. Also, I been so focused on bettering myself, trying to get money and level up that I haven't had the time to go on dates/pursue relationships.
Once I get to that level...I'm gonna be a Bachelor enjoying life, making money, smashing bytches until my dikk shrivel up

One of my oldest cousins been preaching this to me for YEARS. He's nearing 62 and still hasn't been married, caked up, enjoying retirement, and still swaping out girlfriends like a NES cartridge. All his kids are grown....He's happy. All he concerned about is his fiances and health. Women are literally the least option

Yall better get with the times and learn to adapt. Were living in crazy times right now where Marriage is a bad investment. Where females body counts are breaking massive records, have multiple partners, becoming bisexual, fukking for fame, materials, status and empowerment.

Get in Where you fit in, stay humble and just live your life

Tell it how it is

These broads got more bodies than actual pornstars now. Not to mention the dyking epidemic and the fact that the institution of marriage will be dead for non-wealthy heterosexual couples in 20 years.

 

[1thouwow]

@dora_da_destroyer aint u a dike?

 

[Wild self]

Never said to go for unattractive women. But instead stop chasing looks alone which is what most of these complainers are doing. Stop choosing with your dikk and use your head. It's easy to spot red flags.

biggest lie told in modern times. These women, even when comfortable, never show their bad habits until its too late. The fact is the majority of the male population isn't educated from these "red flags" and people STILL refuse to teach men about them, is why these hoes, thots, scandalous broads are causing havoc and leaving dysfunctional traits as the norm.

 

[Wild self]

@dora_da_destroyer aint u a dike?

She "admires women's bodies" aka bicurious. Not to mention she watches lesbian porn.

But she is super smart and knows what she wants.

 

[el_oh_el]

I agree that its hard to find a quality woman, but its some real pessimistic views in here

 

[BmoreGorilla]

People get into relationships for the wrong reasons and bad shyt will eventually happen. I been there. People get into these things because the other person makes them feel good and they fall in lust. Once that lust runs out then they find out they don't have much in common, they have different life goals, etc. Once that happens then they become disinterested and look elsewhere. When women base their relationship off the fact theyre "in love" its a recipe for disaster because its like a high that they want to keep chasing. Ive been building with someone for two years and at this point I know she's as compatible a woman Ill find. She knows what I went thru and has given me all the time I need to be ready for a relationship again. I respect the hell outta her for that. At the end of the day tho relationships are always a gamble no matter the time or place and men and women are equally as grimey. Whether you chose to hold or roll the dice is on you

That being said some of yall are way too young to be as bitter as you are. Im 36 and done seen it all. Been cheated on and divorced from the person I thought I was gonna be with for the rest of my life and I still have a more positive outlook than some of yall

 

[Wild self]

There are a few good quality women out there......just that they gotta be strong-willed and not follow what other people are doing.

 

[Fani Willis fan]

All I know is that getting an apartment with somebody is goat the first few months then it becomes depressing over time, like clockwork

just casually dating a chick ? thats easy.

 

[Taadow]

Breh dealt with a couple thots(some disguised as "good girls" . Some he even knew were already in relationships. And now he wants to generalize & apply this behavior to ALL women like he now knows apparently all women are grimey.

It basically is the male equivalent of "nikkas aint shyt" or "men are dogs". I wouldn't be surprised to hear this from an emotional overreacting broad, but I would expect brehs to be more logical enough to know there's different types of women. Theres quality loyal women out there just like there's unloyal trash.

All women have the potential, means, and opportunity to be "grimey" -
And when they are, it's not their fault socially.

You can't fade that general principle.


And yeah, it is the male equivalent of "niccas ain't shyt" or "men are dogs".
The differences between the two principles are:

1. People will readily and freely say "niccas ain't shyt" or "men are dogs" and mean that chit.
Men will say it about themselves (like some dudes in here), and if women say it nobody says they must be gay.

2. Little kids are taught that "niccas ain't shyt" or "men are dogs", but don't get taught how to know when a woman is "grimey" - that something a man has to learn on his own.





I don't know what niccas like yourself are trying to accomplish in here.

 

[Chapter_BLK]

Just from skimming the first post, some of it I sympathize with, the rest just sounds like generalizations from a jaded individual.

 

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Read through the thread.

Some of y’all get it, some of y’all have no idea what you’re talking about, and some of y’all are done for.

 

[Taadow]

Just from skimming the first post, some of it I sympathize with, the rest just sounds like generalizations from a jaded individual.

...and you don't care either way, because you just "skimmed" it.

 

[Kenny West]

People get into relationships for the wrong reasons and bad shyt will eventually happen. I been there. People get into these things because the other person makes them feel good and they fall in lust. Once that lust runs out then they find out they don't have much in common, they have different life goals, etc. Once that happens then they become disinterested and look elsewhere. When women base their relationship off the fact theyre "in love" its a recipe for disaster because its like a high that they want to keep chasing. Ive been building with someone for two years and at this point I know she's as compatible a woman Ill find. She knows what I went thru and has given me all the time I need to be ready for a relationship again. I respect the hell outta her for that. At the end of the day tho relationships are always a gamble no matter the time or place and men and women are equally as grimey. Whether you chose to hold or roll the dice is on you

That being said some of yall are way too young to be as bitter as you are. Im 36 and done seen it all. Been cheated on and divorced from the person I thought I was gonna be with for the rest of my life and I still have a more positive outlook than some of yall

Have you learned to read a woman's love/lust expiration date in your 36 years?

Its life changing information

 

[Taadow]

People get into relationships for the wrong reasons and bad shyt will eventually happen. I been there. People get into these things because the other person makes them feel good and they fall in lust. Once that lust runs out then they find out they don't have much in common, they have different life goals, etc. Once that happens then they become disinterested and look elsewhere. When women base their relationship off the fact theyre "in love" its a recipe for disaster because its like a high that they want to keep chasing. Ive been building with someone for two years and at this point I know she's as compatible a woman Ill find. She knows what I went thru and has given me all the time I need to be ready for a relationship again. I respect the hell outta her for that. At the end of the day tho relationships are always a gamble no matter the time or place and men and women are equally as grimey. Whether you chose to hold or roll the dice is on you

That being said some of yall are way too young to be as bitter as you are. Im 36 and done seen it all. Been cheated on and divorced from the person I thought I was gonna be with for the rest of my life and I still have a more positive outlook than some of yall

Watch - nobody's gonna have a problem with these generalizations you just made, doe.
Lol

 

[BigMan]

Lol @ chasing bums (and income, or lacktherof, isn't what makes someone a bum). You stay with an excuse to everything so ok. Sure, never in life does a stable person ever deal with someone still working to establish themselves...and the ones that do suck. Got it

And yes, my earnings and education put me outside the average. That's why I said I'm an outlier. You're not going to meet too many people who went to the schools I went to who are willing to deal with someone with no direction and shyt earnings, especially not at 30+. People who went to average schools, make average money, and have average expectations will be more flexible - I've seen it personally, the difference in expectations my HS friends had for a partner vs those my college and bschool friends have.

My girls from HS are good women, and one basically stared with her husband while he was in that same type of situation, they built together. This year they'll hit 10 years married, two kids, a house, and both make 50-70k apiece

One of the deans at my undergrad also was married to someone broke/struggling, went back for reunion the other year and he's working comfortably within his field and has a stable income.

A man living with his mother making poverty level income with substantial debt is a bum
No decent woman wants that.
Stop lying to faceless avatars
Your only argument is that someone the other woman’s income is going to benefit him
Which is absolutely ridiculous