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[Taadow]

She "admires women's bodies" aka bicurious. Not to mention she watches lesbian porn.

But she is super smart and knows what she wants.

The funny part about her in this thread is that she dug and tried to argue niccas down on this...
but then admitted she kinda living like what OP said.

But whatever...

 

[MaxPain]

Underrated comment. Cats are brainwashed into thinking that your main girl should be in the club mostly naked, drunk, flirting with other dudes, extroverted, on social media thirst trappin' and so on

Dudes are weak minded simps, thinking that your girl should be "out there" all the time....

A wise man once told me to be proactive, and not reactive

Instead of tryng to police the girl who goes out every weekend and pops her ass on IG, be proactive and not even date her, not reactive.

Sad to say thats like 95% of the dating pool so brehs who want a real stable relationship are SOL.

 

[Wild self]

The funny part about her in this thread is that she dug and tried to argue niccas down on this...
but then admitted she kinda living like what OP said.

But whatever...

I mean, at least she admits she wants to be with another woman after dudes pressed on her about that. The whole problem with the DL is that women are scared of being honest, despite society loving attractive bi women.

 

[kaldurahm]

Learn to see ppl places and things as disposable and interchangeable

Lol so become a sociopath? This is what happens when you have unlimited sex and dates though

 

[Wild self]

A wise man once told me to be proactive, and not reactive

Instead of tryng to police the girl who goes out every weekend and pops her ass on IG, be proactive and not reactive.

Sad to say thats like 95% of the dating pool so brehs who want a real stable relationship are SOL.

Yep, cats are clueless on getting with women that naturally don't like the spotlight.

 

[MaxPain]

Never said to go for unattractive women. But instead stop chasing looks alone which is what most of these complainers are doing. Stop choosing with your dikk and use your head. It's easy to spot red flags.

I agree to a certain extent and its not always easy to spot red flags cuz alot of women are good actors and alot of men are naive. But yeah alot of men go for looks alone and not her character (simps do). Thats only half the problem.

And now that I know how to sniff em out like a bloodhound, 9/10 women aint wifey material.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Have you learned to read a woman's love/lust expiration date in your 36 years?

Its life changing information

What Ive learned in 36 is that you cant base a relationship off of that love/lust. Keep those people as fukk buddies. Relationships should be looked at as a business. Of course you wanna love that person and be physically attracted to them. But you also wanna make sure that person is stable. I learned that the hard way because I was young. Ive been holding down a little roster for that past couple years. Some have come and gone. The main one is still here. I know once I decide Im ready for a relationship again we would've skipped all that lust bs. Me and her been thru the same exact shyt and can relate on a certain level. When it came to my ex wife that lust part had been disappeared but I knew that shyt was temporary anyway. Problem is she didn't and her expectations were unrealistic as a result. But it took time for shyt to build up within her before she cheated. I knew immediately when she started because she changed and I acted accordingly.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

If you don't trust your wife/mother of your kids 100% why be with her?Yea I know you can't trust anyone 100% .If you can't give your heart to her why let her be mother of your child or give her your last name? Like I said before the majority of men/women have been "hurt before".That's not a relationship issue that's a personal issue.Stop putting people on pedestal and look out for you,you can avoid sever disappointment.Know that at any moment of your life someone can walk out.

 

[Taadow]

I mean, at least she admits she wants to be with another woman after dudes pressed on her about that. The whole problem with the DL is that women are scared of being honest, despite society loving attractive bi women.

Naw - I'm talmbat when she said she doesn't wanna be in a relationship,
after she was doing all this wolfin' about how dudes need to get out and find quality
women like her and her friends.

 

[kaldurahm]

Yep. Excess or drought. Moderation doesn't exist anymore.

Gotta be a real ass nikka with swag out the world, or some simp azz dude. That is how a lot of the dating game is.

Okay I get it. Yeah moderation was the ideal but that's thrown out the window. Makes sense

I think this is going to be a crazy L in the long run though, could be the downfall of communities lol

 

[the bossman]

And yeah, it is the male equivalent of "niccas ain't shyt" or "men are dogs".

which no matter how you try to spin it or justify it is just jaded ho babble at the end of the day. men should be better than that

I don't know what niccas like yourself are trying to accomplish in here.

brehs are just adding different perspectives. nothing serious. Honestly the whole premise of the OP just sounds like the same jaded "GMB" talk, just repackaged to try to make it sound more profound.

The thing is if you've found through your own personal experiences that marriage/relationship life is not for you then that's great. Just live your life like that. But to try to throw shade at the people who are still about that life makes no sense. It just comes across insecure.

There was some truth to what OP said, but the rest of the shyt like this:

Bonus: If you think your chick won't cheat on you, she already has or she will in the future. Just remember when it comes to how she feels in any given moment with a certain type of dude, all bets are off. I've been on both ends of this experience, being the certain type of dude more times than once, unfortunately.

is just jaded pessimistic nonsense. I've met enough women who've cheated and enough who are on that square, 2 kids and white picket fence shyt til they die to know that it's always a case-by-case basis with women

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Too many people want steak and change up & end up settling for fast food.Stick to your preference and what you want.

 

[Wild self]

Naw - I'm talmbat when she said she doesn't wanna be in a relationship,
after she was doing all this wolfin' about how dudes need to get out and find quality
women like her and her friends.

Oh that....yeah, she desires being with a man, but scared to approach dudes that she actually want.

 

[MaxPain]

Lol so become a sociopath? This is what happens when you have unlimited sex and dates though

Yes, somewhat of one.


If u want to make it in todays dating game as a man.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Man. This thread reeks of mommy issues. Nobody owes you loyalty. Yall sound like a bunch of JADED Disney princesses in here once you found out there isn't a glass slipper.

A bunch of ole, I'm taking my ball home ass cats. Stop it.

People will disappoint you. You are what you attract.