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[the bossman]

But it took time for shyt to build up within her before she cheated. I knew immediately when she started because she changed and I acted accordingly.

this is what I'm talking about. Women don't just wake up and cheat one day just for the hell of it. There are always signs that lead up to this point. Whether or not a breh catches them is another question.

 

[the bossman]

I agree to a certain extent and its not always easy to spot red flags cuz alot of women are good actors and alot of men are naive. But yeah alot of men go for looks alone and not her character (simps do). Thats only half the problem.

And now that I know how to sniff em out like a bloodhound, 9/10 women aint wifey material.

this!!

 

[winb83]

Breh dealt with a couple thots(some disguised as "good girls" . Some he even knew were already in relationships. And now he wants to generalize & apply this behavior to ALL women like he now knows apparently all women are grimey.

It basically is the male equivalent of "nikkas aint shyt" or "men are dogs". I wouldn't be surprised to hear this from an emotional overreacting broad, but I would expect brehs to be more logical enough to know there's different types of women. Theres quality loyal women out there just like there's unloyal trash.

If you getting p*ssy like you say then youd probably have the experience to peep any red flags and drop a bytch if needed thrn keep it pushing to the next.

Good people in this world are rare. Not just good women or men but both. Many people will be good to you only when it serves them to be so.

You never really know another person's character you can only judge what you see and you'll mostly only see what they want you to see. Every now and then people slip up but for the most part they only show what they intend to.

The whole argument that both good women and men exist so you'll find one if you're worthy of them is flawed.

 

[StretfordRed]

This sounds like some Alpha BS with more alpha BS posts

You just need to find a good woman and not think they’ll fall into your lap. There are plenty of them and it won’t take a few weeks. Hell, people take years to find them.

 

[Mr. Negative]

honestly, I just don't ignore red flags anymore.

even in friendship.

I just throw them in the "nope" category. Off you go....

It's made me realize how a lot of women don't bother trying to hide their "red flags" like nikkas do.

They don't have to. Somebody will accept it and think the power of love will change it.

It used to be me. But not anymore.

Or somebody will pretend to accept said warnings, fukk them and throw them away.

It really is a game.

I took myself off the board.

 

[Kenny West]

I won’t be in that situation again because I move things at my pace and if they don’t like the pace they can leave

thats it?

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Yeah and are you aware that what you are saying is only reaffirming to these men what they already know of women? Do you honestly believe you are giving them some sort of fresh and original take on women? Your perspective and rhetoric is not something they've already heard and understood and might just be the reason why they're in here complaining?


You think most men posting in this topic didn't already know without you posting what you were gonna say? You really think your take is that different from the average woman's, huh?

my dude, that was never my goal. i'm responding to someone who responds to me, that's it. don't know why you assume i think i'm in here providing life changing replies

 

[DPresidential]

So in your mind, what is an acceptable level of criticism a man is allowed to make towards a woman without you attaching some form of extreme emotion to it?

You are aware that men are able to detach emotions from their ideas, correct?

I appreciate this question.

Unless you've done a double blind study...there is no way a person can credibly be on that "most or every man/woman is..."

I have no standing to say shyt when a Breh or woman is saying "The people I've dated are pieces of shyt."

But, if you're going to be in here saying that the opposite sex should only be looked at as a few orifices for pleasure and nothing but problems otherwise... That is just some really disturbing shyt.

When y'all see little girls, do you say to yourself, "shyt...another future bytch."

When any of the Coli brehs mother's die...is the world definitely a better place because "good, one less woman alive to stress a nikka out"

That's my issue

 

[BmoreGorilla]

this is what I'm talking about. Women don't just wake up and cheat one day just for the hell of it. There are always signs that lead up to this point. Whether or not a breh catches them is another question.

I do think for the most part this is the case with women. But there are complete hoes out here who are gonna smut it out regardless. It’s usually easy to weed them out and put them in the category they belong in tho. But way too many times you got simps who don’t know any better or think they can change them that end up getting their feelings hurt

 

[MaxPain]

It seems like you were hurt by your ex and you’re trying to hide/mask your pain by saying several chicks

Lol why do nikkas always want to play doctor

 

[Mr. Negative]

You never really know another person's character you can only judge what you see and you'll mostly only see what they want you to see. Every now and then people slip up but for the most part they only show what they intend to..

Yeah, a lotta people don't understand when I say it until after the fact.....

but you don't really know a person until you KNOW them.

 

[BlackAchilles]

Nah I'm there too bruh mayne

Between all the shyt my moms told me and seeing/hearing everyone's relationship bullshyt it kinda reached a tipping point where I now have a negative view of family and attachment to people in general

It seems people will always let you down in the end

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Lol why do nikkas always want to play doctor

It’s called keepin it a thousand

That nikka was hurt that his fiancé left him was hurt that she broke off the wedding. Thats a fact

 

[MaxPain]

I see where you coming from but a few of the shorties who I know that deleted their social media are on SUPER creep shyt and don't want people to find or know them

Thats the same reason I dont have any



Those vile harlots! Smite them!

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Nah I'm there too bruh mayne

Between all the shyt my moms told me and seeing/hearing everyone's relationship bullshyt it kinda reached a tipping point where I now have a negative view of family and attachment to people in general

It seems people will always let you down in the end

I swear man. Some of y’all nikkaz have a warped understanding of females based on the ratchet type of females and relationships that you personally experienced. No disrespect bruh, but based on what you said, your family seemed to have a lot of dysfunction and ratchetness