A. Seales:I want to be with a brotha but a lot of you would rather be by yourselves. Why not commit?

[The ADD]

Marry me

 

[BrehWyatt]

Any woman that claims to be worth a catch and claims that whoever cuffs her with START EVERY DAY with getting a blowjob (as this woman did on the Breakfast Club)... something is fundamentally and irreparably wrong with said woman. And she is unaware of it at this moment.

Hate it had to be you.

 

[xCivicx]

For what? When you guys have negative conversations about black women, you always manage to make it clear you're speaking about the general population, but get in your feelings when women do the same. If it don't abide, let it slide. But you'd be lying if you said you didn't know men that way and taut themselves as good men. Some of them are you fathers, uncles, best friends. I KNOW individually, on the Coli, this doesn't apply to yall.

I honestly don't because I don't keep snakes around me

All the black men I keep around me are honest, solid individuals with options though

 

[Barnett114]

Not you specifically. And you're right, we aren't, but doesn't mean she's not looking for a guy who isn't. Which goes back to my point, that you will miss because you've got your next smilie queued up on quote, but both black men and women are looking for standards in each other that we just aren't going to have, yet saying there is no one "good". Adjust your standards. NO ONE is good enough to say that someone else isn't good enough for them. We all have shyt to work on.

The reality is, most black men and women are not marriage material.

The other problem is, stop thinking about relationships when your life is in shambles, whether financially or mentally.

doesn't mean she's not looking for a guy who isn't

You know that's some bullshyt
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There is someone out there, willing to put up with someone's problems, but the reality is, they were passed over because that other person thought they were too good for them.

 

[Rawtid]

Please before you talk about black men not good with finances who has the most student loan debt of all groups of people?
Female students, especially black women, have the most student loan debt at the time of graduation

And most black women don’t major in STEM? It’s either social work, women’s studies, liberal arts bullshyt degrees or communication. Then they graduate with a useless degree working in Old Navy making 30k a year with 75k in student loans with minimum payments of $175 a month.

The black man isn't making THAT much more than $30k though. It's nothing wrong with investing in your education. A $60k+ combined income is a lot better than any of the individual situations from a financial perspective though.

 

[Rawtid]

The reality is, most black men and women are not marriage material.

The other problem is, stop thinking about relationships when your life is in shambles, whether financially or mentally.



You know that's some bullshyt
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There is someone out there, willing to put up with someone's problems, but the reality is, they were passed over because that other person thought they were too good for them.

We are all capable of functioning in a marriage. We struggle at functioning in "traditional" ideas of marriage or our parent's, grandparents, etc marriages. A lot of people have an idea of how they want their marriage to be before they even get married You've never done it before, take it day by day and define it as you go. Stack money at the married rate while you do it!! Marriage can be whatever we want, but we want our grandparent's

 

[Wild self]

Matter of fact Amanda know what she doin. She ain’t dumb.

She’s pre-emptively putting out these little bullshyt potshots at black men so that when she inevitably pops up with a white man ala Serena she has a built in narrative she can fall back on....

I can just SEE it now

2021
“Bu bu but... I WANTED a black man! I got love for my brothas, Black men just don’t want to commit! NONE of these black men out here want a wife and family! Every single one of them wanna go to the club, smoke weed, and be fukk buddies! I couldn’t allow my physical chakra to be continually drained in such a manner. So I went on retreat in the Caucus mountains and my earth bound spirit animal spoke to me and told me it was time to ditch Jamal and find me a Jason”


2023

“My debut novel ‘Black Men Are The White Men Of The Black Community: Just With Worse Credit!’ Will be in stores this Sunday! It has already been given a 4 star review from The New York Times which called it “Bold, Edgy, Witty, and Uncomfortably Closer to truth than fiction”. It is a fictional account of my life, times, and trials trying to find love and acceptance in the black community. As a light skinned woman of color, my struggle and pain has been continually deafened and buried by the very race of men I once fiercely championed. It is a story of the fall. The rise. And the redeemed. It is the story of every black woman living in America. It is my truth. Special thanks goes out to my Husband Jason Jacobs, who supported me through everything. We playing Mammy Betty and Master Charles tonight boo!”


2027

Via Instagram (as presented by BET Voice)
“ I am very happy to announce my new talk show, Amazing Amanda, has been picked up by the new Viacom streaming service! Debuting next year, Amazing Amanda will be a show geared towards black women in America who need a voice to champion their struggles! We will discuss Toxic Black Masculinity, the dangers of Raising black babies in a traditional patriarchy where the black man’s word goes unchallenged, and why Michelle Obama would have made a better President than Both Barack and Bill Clinton (still love you boo!) combined! Its a little Oprah! A little Dr Phil! And a WHOLE LOT OF ATTITUDE!

+Rep

These broads on that Argentina extinction plan on black men.

 

[Cynic]

Marriage is the ultimate arrangement for stabilizing your finances. You think it’s a coincidence the group with lowest marriage rates are also the poorest?

No it isn't... getting a skill/buying a business/property are better ways to achieve this

Marriage is a lop-sided contract with ZERO upside for men.


:gmbrehs:

 

[Rawtid]

Please invite me.

 

[xXMASHERXx]

I also want to know what makes someone think they are marriage material? Just because you want to get married doesn't mean you are worthy of having someone marry you.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Why be in a relationship for 12 years if you don't want to marry her? It's bullshyt to say there is a lack of "marriable" women more than it is a lack of men committing. For all the reasons it would benefit you to commit....to something, you don't. STATISTICALLY you don't commit education, you don't commit to real estate, and you don't commit to women. You're not going to have the general population of us be single mothers AND say it's only on the mothers they weren't married and not because of the man's lack of commitment.

I'm not saying that black women aren't equally at fault, but as you stated men control the relationship and it's direction, so take your blame in the shyt too. The general population of you guys do not commit. Just accept it.

U must have quoted the wrong person

Wtf

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Maybe it's because she has no sex appeal

Yes, indeed.

Anyway family, make sure you goto 1804movie.com

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Maybe her attitude is a turn off for a serious committed relationship.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Sounds like she setting the stage to c00n it up...

I think so to.

It seems other black women in this thread is getting ready to c00n it up as well.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

She's a shytty comedian, singer, rapper, actresses and social activist. Why doesn't she think she'd make a shytty wife, does she fail to see a pattern?

You might be on to something. She’s failed to embrace her “basicness” that other men easily see and are resistant to latch onto