Abstinence is dumb and unnatural.

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Real talk.

Alright let me tell the dudes of this site something. Any dude pushing this lifestyle on you is an idiot and probably a lowlfie who wants to see you lose while they win.

They'll say stuff like...you should work on getting your money right or getting the job/professional life in order cause basically the message they trying to get across is women don't fukk with broke dudes...

When in reality women fukk with and fukk broke/jobless dudes all the time.

So who's to say you can't work on yourself and your finances and try to get laid at the same time. Seriously. Multi-task.

Bottom line. Men have sex with women. Women have sex with men. It is biological for procreation, reproduction, whatever. That's nature. Trying to supress that or just not have sex for whatever purpose is just unnatural. Not only is it unnatural...it's also mentally and physically unhealthy in so many ways. Not having sex...can just lead to a breakdown in the immune system...getting colds easily. Feelings of inferiority. Depression. Anxiety. Anger. Bitterness. Contempt. Hatred. It can lead to drug abuse and drug addiction. Bottom line it can lead to all sorts of unhealthy stuff that can become very very very terrible if not dealt with. Look at those school shooting ass cacs. They didnt get p*ssy and thats why they ended up going insane and killing people

Not to mention...life is all about meeting people and being social and creating new relationships with people. How you gonna work on yourself if your not trying to actively meet women? How you gonna work on yourself if you're not spitting game? How you gonna work on yourself if you haven't figured out what works and what doesnt work to get in them draws? Like fukk being a gentleman I'm just gonna keep it real for my n1ggas here cause I'm sick and tired of feeling like i got to be proper and respectful for the ladies on here when im trying to talk to the brehs of the coli...this a man's forum y'all.

Like straight up...I'll tell you something. I had a period where I simply just did not approach women or even hit on women for a 3 year period. I'd have small talk with them if they talked to me first...but i did not go out of my way to approach or hit on any women...even if I was feeling them. Why? I was just told too much by this forum that if you don't got your money right or your life right or your job situation right...don't even bother trying to approach women.

If that's true...how the fukk are all of these broke ass ain't shyt nikkas getting p*ssy?

See what I'm saying? If a woman is really feeling you...she's gonna be feeling you regardless of your job/finance situation simply because let's face it...women are about sex as much as us brehs are.

I realized what i was doing to myself was torture almost and just unhealthy! Especially considering that I'm a pretty good looking dude and i have women checking me out on the daily (im not bullshytting that). So why am i not giving these women the time of day? Cause of some bullshyt some dudes say on a forum? :mjlol:

Bottom line...go out there...mack on these hoes...get them numbers...get in them draws. If you feeling a chick talk to her. If she aint interested move on to the next one. Don't stress yourself over p*ssy but at the same time don't let yourself fall into these traps. It's all mental.
 

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I've been saying I'm celibate for awhile now but its actually abstinence that I pretty much follow. Even thought the two are used interchangeably most the times.

Anyway there is so much wrong with that OP that I've lost interest in even responding.:sadcam:
 

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I was just told too much by this forum that if you don't got your money right or your life right or your job situation right...don't even bother trying to approach women.
You're an alright breh, but you have to hold a L for this right here. :francis: Anyone who takes anything on any internet forum, this one especially, ESPECIALLY IN REGARDS TO WOMEN, automatically LOST. As to your original point, there a lot of things that are biologically "unnatural" but we do them anyway. Why? Because humans like stability. So yes, while some women may mess with broke men, they may not be the type of women you want to settle for. Also, why does everything have to be tied to women? Why not focus on getting right for you and only you such that you can have the freedom to live life on your terms, whatever they may be? That's how I see, at least.
 

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Being Abstinent helps you really figure out how much you like a person. If you take away the sex, do you really enjoy this person's company? Humping around like some wild, horny, dog is what's unnatural, dumb and dangerous.
don't be a prude breh
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What's wrong with wanting to be in someone's company and not wanting to have sex with them? Getting to know someone is the whole reason of dating and a lot of the time sex gets in the way of that. If you eliminate the sex you come to a much faster conclusion that you don't have much in common with the person you're dating. Sex clouds your judgement…
 

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The only horndogs who are financially successful without an inhertance are those with Drive.

Women are not their drive. Women are an outlet for their drive.

OP sounds like a loser who has reached as high as he can go and now is settling for fake prada bytches or high school chicks. This is how only morons are breeding came about.

Get your shyt right, be selective, use protection, dont depend on her to use protection or abort, get a wider selection of better quality bytches.
 

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I agree with some of the opening post since it seems to just relate to getting sex from women. I've always thought that the whole get your money in order first phrase is geared more towards serious relationships than just casual sex. When it comes to casual sex it seems to be more about personality than anything else.
 
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