Abstinence is dumb and unnatural.

[Unknown Poster]

Abstinence kills the savage beast that dwells within man that causes sin, disease, confusion, heartache. It aslo channels that energy into more productive avenues. Imagine all the energy, time and money being harnessed into other more profitable areas in life

I'm glad I did go through it though. I realized what I needed to do with myself. Did it. And now am more content with myself.

 

[Unknown Poster]

OP weren't you abstinent for a decade?

Nope. Just three years.

I don't even know where you got a decade from...

I couldn't do that....fukk that shyt. A nikka got to get laid and paid.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Elliot Rodger had money and still didn't get no p*ssy.

He had no game.

But it's not about game really. Its about being a good conversationalist at the end of the day cause when you think about basic human interaction....where does it begin with? Conversation.

Like in sales...they talk about "icebreakers" what gets to conversation going. Talking about the weather or if she's wearing a cool article of clothing. I like to talk about the things i like and if one of those clicks with that chick then I'll go from there

That dude just expected women to gravitate toward that. You got to show initiative and make the first move.

Now i did have a fling with this one chick who approached me and that was happy period of my life...but that is simply not the norm.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Hey @1984 do you feel like people sometimes try to cockblock you?

Hmmm...

Recently...i can't say. Maybe I do it myself by lingering towards self-doubt.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Problem isn't abstinence, its people ain't thinking what happens past fukking. The same mufukkas who will be QUICK to jump in your face about you having no right to say who they can or can't fukk, be the SAME ones who complain about a baby being conceived, STDs being spread or other fukked up shyt that comes from sex. Sex is and will always be a risk you take. If you can handle that, feel free to get yours, but don't be one of these dumb asses who got a itch that needs to be scratched, relieve that itch with a sharp knife which feels damn good, but then start panicking when you get cut. You took the risk, deal with it.

So I have absolute respect for people who realize these risks, and would rather put those risk on hold to better themselves before indulging in them. Life is more than basic human instincts.

100% i agree.

I didnt adress that in the op but i figured it would only be right to let the thread develop and have people contest my points.

I'll be honest...in that period of time I was abstinent I was afraid of
:stds
:unwanted pregnancies
:drama

Plus i had to develop myself as a functioning individual first and foremost.

But another thing...it helps to play it safe. And use protection.

This thread is not to promote irresponsible sexual behavior BTW.

 

[Rawtid]

Problem isn't abstinence, its people ain't thinking what happens past fukking. The same mufukkas who will be QUICK to jump in your face about you having no right to say who they can or can't fukk, be the SAME ones who complain about a baby being conceived, STDs being spread or other fukked up shyt that comes from sex. Sex is and will always be a risk you take. If you can handle that, feel free to get yours, but don't be one of these dumb asses who got a itch that needs to be scratched, relieve that itch with a sharp knife which feels damn good, but then start panicking when you get cut. You took the risk, deal with it.

So I have absolute respect for people who realize these risks, and would rather put those risk on hold to better themselves before indulging in them. Life is more than basic human instincts.

Scratch your itch with a knife and complain about getting cut, brehs.

 

[iBrowse]

sex is a basic human need
like
food clothing shelter water sleep

sex helps you mind and spirit to reboot


when you abstain it causes mental hangups

that is why you see so many people who rarely have sex commit wild crimes


the less sex you have the greater the likely hood for depression and suicide

@Killer Instinct

 

[Redwood]

Real talk.

Alright let me tell the dudes of this site something. Any dude pushing this lifestyle on you is an idiot and probably a lowlfie who wants to see you lose while they win.

They'll say stuff like...you should work on getting your money right or getting the job/professional life in order cause basically the message they trying to get across is women don't fukk with broke dudes...

When in reality women fukk with and fukk broke/jobless dudes all the time.

So who's to say you can't work on yourself and your finances and try to get laid at the same time. Seriously. Multi-task.

Bottom line. Men have sex with women. Women have sex with men. It is biological for procreation, reproduction, whatever. That's nature. Trying to supress that or just not have sex for whatever purpose is just unnatural. Not only is it unnatural...it's also mentally and physically unhealthy in so many ways. Not having sex...can just lead to a breakdown in the immune system...getting colds easily. Feelings of inferiority. Depression. Anxiety. Anger. Bitterness. Contempt. Hatred. It can lead to drug abuse and drug addiction. Bottom line it can lead to all sorts of unhealthy stuff that can become very very very terrible if not dealt with. Look at those school shooting ass cacs. They didnt get p*ssy and thats why they ended up going insane and killing people

Not to mention...life is all about meeting people and being social and creating new relationships with people. How you gonna work on yourself if your not trying to actively meet women? How you gonna work on yourself if you're not spitting game? How you gonna work on yourself if you haven't figured out what works and what doesnt work to get in them draws? Like fukk being a gentleman I'm just gonna keep it real for my n1ggas here cause I'm sick and tired of feeling like i got to be proper and respectful for the ladies on here when im trying to talk to the brehs of the coli...this a man's forum y'all.

Like straight up...I'll tell you something. I had a period where I simply just did not approach women or even hit on women for a 3 year period. I'd have small talk with them if they talked to me first...but i did not go out of my way to approach or hit on any women...even if I was feeling them. Why? I was just told too much by this forum that if you don't got your money right or your life right or your job situation right...don't even bother trying to approach women.

If that's true...how the fukk are all of these broke ass ain't shyt nikkas getting p*ssy?

See what I'm saying? If a woman is really feeling you...she's gonna be feeling you regardless of your job/finance situation simply because let's face it...women are about sex as much as us brehs are.

I realized what i was doing to myself was torture almost and just unhealthy! Especially considering that I'm a pretty good looking dude and i have women checking me out on the daily (im not bullshytting that). So why am i not giving these women the time of day? Cause of some bullshyt some dudes say on a forum?

Bottom line...go out there...mack on these hoes...get them numbers...get in them draws. If you feeling a chick talk to her. If she aint interested move on to the next one. Don't stress yourself over p*ssy but at the same time don't let yourself fall into these traps. It's all mental.

There's plenty of self-loathing people who have sex as well, (*cough* Celebrities *cough).

 

[dBoyFresh*212]

Be abstinent brehs