Update your outlook to reality. That'd be my first bit of advice. Now answer me this; did the girl who "turned you into such a baaaaaaad person" that you saw on FB a little while ago, did she have a kid?

She didn't turn me into a bad person, she snatched my soul which is different.

And no she didn't have a kid. So is your point in saying that a single mother could treat me better? Make me
potentially very happy? Well no shyt.
That isn't up for debate. What IS on the docket is we all have to have standards, so why can't mine be not dealing with chicks with kids? Bodycount? Don't care much. Her net worth?
Long as she ain't piss poor (my crush was

not that that was a negative at the time), I don't care. My big 3 requirements
1. Fit (I am fit, so I ask for fitness.)
2. Childless(I am childless, so I ask for childlessness)
3. Adventurous(as I am, so couch-surfing ain't the wave.
All requirements that don't discriminate age, race, religious, whatever. Bare minimum. Why am I not allowed to say "You know what, she was nice, but she has a child. Imma let her walk on by."
I've done it twice in my life with women I really liked, but I couldn't get down with what they had going on. I'm not sad for having passed on them, either. The same way I don't begrudge a woman
avoiding squares cause she don't like em, or avoiding broke boys, or or wanting 6-feet only, etc, I wouldn't honestly expect someone to tell me there is something wrong with me for not wanting
to get off the bench in the 4th.