All my homies are wifing up single moms...

[UberEatsDriver]

Funnily enough, I read somewhere that back in the olden days the term, “Uncle” was today’s equivalent of “father” because the average woman didn’t know who their child’s father was.

Men were vagabonds who literally, got their nut and dipped.

The child always knew who their mother was and that’s probably where, “mamas baby, daddy’s maybe,” comes from.

are you Haitian?

 

[Koba St]

You don’t there’s a difference between a woman with kids who got divorced from a man who works 9-5 and And woman who gets pregnant by bum?

I know the difference. The point I’m making is that why is that whites are portrayed as the former and blacks the latter?

 

[Speaking Womanese]

are you Haitian?

No. Why...?

 

[UberEatsDriver]

No. Why...?

vagabond

 

[Speaking Womanese]

vagabond

Lmao is that a Haitian term?

 

[Carlton Banks]

I would never advise this to any man ever.

 

[ColdSlither]

A lot of them are wifing up divorcees from starter marriages.

Black men are wifing up women who let a nikka smash raw for two long islands at TGIF.

Now that's some bullshyt

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Bro there's nothing wrong with dating a single mom, especially if she has her shyt together and there's no bd drama. Her having a kid doesn't make her useless, that is unless she's divorced, has 3, and dates a man she met from the Internet all before age 26

fukk nah

I dated single moms with no bd drama and a career. Things were good but always put her child first. Kid was a toddler at the time so I get it but fukk that shyt. I guess it depends on how old the kid is but a good mom will make the child first priority until he/she is an adult, before you get her full attention.

 

[International Playa]

I thought High Value Men didn’t date single moms

During my droughts & struggle days, i ate low hanging fruits

 

[SheWantTheD]

Wow at some of these misconception or I just got lucky no matter the case it can work.

1). I met my wife when I was 23 I had no kids, she was 27 and had a 8 year old.
2). She has never been on any public assistance
3). Her baby daddy was deported years before we met and has never been back in the states

Now that those things are out the way let me explain, we've been married 10 years, my wife makes over 100k a year with no degree, we have 3 little girls together, we're building a empire worth at least 500k right now, I never had to pay for babysitting my parents watch them when needed.
With that said, you could be missing out due to your misconceptions, not all are worthy but some are. Best discision I've made wouldn't trade it for the world...

I would say y'all are the exception though.. not the rule.

Did your wife have a support system prior to you guys meeting with her first born?

Personally, I'd say less men should deal with most single mothers because being a single mom is no easy feat. Being a parent with a partner is tough, by yourself? Sheesh.

Men are saving these women, so they think it's perfectly fine to get seeded up by a man who doesn't want to have their baby or that they can leave their man and find better.

If less men were willing to date and support single moms, we wouldn't see so many. It's all about the children at the end of the day.

It's amazing what y'all have though. I'm not opposed to dating single mothers but they gotta be bad as hell and gotta have a good head on their shoulders.

 

[semicko82]

During my droughts & struggle days, i ate low hanging fruits

I’m just joking with you breh
We all been there

 

[Ghost Utmost]

sounds like your going to be alone for the rest of your life.

Define "alone"

Cause as far as I can tell they still spread for the homie..

I'm just not cuffin long term unless it's absolutely right.

And if it's never absolutely right I will just keep serial dating. Even in retirement homes there's women that fukc

 

[ultraflexed]

I would say y'all are the exception though.. not the rule.

Did your wife have a support system prior to you guys meeting with her first born?

Personally, I'd say less men should deal with most single mothers because being a single mom is no easy feat. Being a parent with a partner is tough, by yourself? Sheesh.

Men are saving these women, so they think it's perfectly fine to get seeded up by a man who doesn't want to have their baby or that they can leave their man and find better.

If less men were willing to date and support single moms, we wouldn't see so many. It's all about the children at the end of the day.

It's amazing what y'all have though. I'm not opposed to dating single mothers but they gotta be bad as hell and gotta have a good head on their shoulders.

Only people with kids should date people with kids. If you do not have kids I would not recommend dating single mothers.

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

Define "alone"

Cause as far as I can tell they still spread for the homie..

I'm just not cuffin long term unless it's absolutely right.

And if it's never absolutely right I will just keep serial dating. Even in retirement homes there's women that fukc

you’re 46 my man

 

[SheWantTheD]

Only people with kids should date people with kids. If you do not have kids I would not recommend dating single mothers.

You didn't have any children before your wife though.

I think if you are of a certain age, maturity, got ya hoeness out of your system etc then I don't see too much of a problem with it.

I got a question though that I just remembered.. at 23 why were you willing to commit to your now wife at such a young age. Most 23-year olds with options aren't looking to settle down with one person.