Reality
Make your own luck.
I agree, I'm getting off track. The issue I'm having is that the sheer resistance that we're all seeing in this thread is similar to other threads on the idea of being selective in regards to one's preference for women and especially black women. The general idea of this board embraces black women overall and people are focusing on the bad. Yes pawg threads exist but black love threads exist, threads extolling on the virtues of a black woman exist. I'm willing to concede if it was different back in the day on here but looking through everything, I just don't see it. There seemed to be a more wild west feel back in the day but the sentiments seem to be the same. We'll have to agree to disagree on this.
Yeah, you can't express a preference for who you date w/in black women without being cast as an incel, c00n, whatever. And you've got people in here saying being a black woman over 30 weighing 120lbs is just impossible.
I'm in my 30s and have seen women with these body shapes getting wifed for nearly a decade now. I haven't seen a single woman with these body shapes have a kid and not go fat immediately. There is 0 room for the weight gain that naturally happens after a kid and as a woman enters her mid-30s and 40s.
Meanwhile, I'm supposed to accept this as a black man even though I hit the gym at least 3 times a week on top of working a demanding career and maintaining 11-13% bodyfat myself.
i never even thought that these nikkas might be fat boys
yall carry on with your women, Lord knows your back can't
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)! ACCEPT YOUR LOT BLACK MAN. YOU DON'T GET AN OPTION HERE!
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