another pet peeve over online dating: why some women online say "my kids are my number one priority?"

[O.T.I.S.]

I mean both things you said is true. There's not really a "or" choice. It's saying "if you're the right person I can fit you into my schedule". Depending on what the man is looking for that might be a good fit.

If a man doesn't like clingy women and don't want kids it's a good fit bc majority of her time will be for her kids. She won't have time to be up under him all day. If he don't want kids he can choose not to intervene with her kids issues. If she can't handle that she shouldn't be dating right now. Every man won't want to be a step dad. Not saying he won't respect and be a positive influence for the kids. Just saying he's not gonna discipline them, babysit or fund their lives. That's a marriage situation. Not dating

Preach

Honestly that’s exactly where I’m at with dating right now.

I don’t mind a woman having kids but I’m not in pappy mode until the relationship develops into something real… even then I’m hesitant

And I love kids.. just not around me all day

 

[The ADD]

This is asinine....just don't date women with kids. It's obvious they aren't for you

^^^

 

[staticshock]

First of all, if you have a kid, out of wedlock, you should not be dating…

If a female says that “my kids take a higher priority” why are you on an online dating site?

Unless the female is looking for a simp to be another baby daddy or step father…the female should not be on a dating site where she says “my kids come first”…

your priority is to raise your kid and forgo dating until the kid reaches 18....

Bruh you sound deranged. No wonder you have to resort to online dating

 

[O.T.I.S.]

You see all of this confusion, that's why it's best to not have kids out of wedlock.

 

[Sex Luthor]

Preach

Honestly that’s exactly where I’m at with dating right now.

I don’t mind a woman having kids but I’m not in pappy mode until the relationship develops into something real… even then I’m hesitant

And I love kids.. just not around me all day

I was in that situation before. They're gonna pressure you to be step daddy bc that's the end goal but you have to be firm about it and explain that those aren't my kids and we (me and the kids) don't know each other like that to play those roles. Let it happen naturally

The worst thing that could happen is a man coming in trying to be their daddy or a woman forcing a man in their kids lives.

 

[Bubba T]

You see all of this confusion, that's why it's best to not have kids out of wedlock.

Brehs in here are GMB, and no one likes contraceptives.

A lot of people aren’t mature enough to be having sex. Doesn’t help that the prospect of sec is a top priority in society.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I was in that situation before. They're gonna pressure you to be step daddy bc that's the end goal but you have to be firm about it and explain that those aren't my kids and we (me and the kids) don't know each other like that to play those roles. Let it happen naturally

The worst thing that could happen is a man coming in trying to be their daddy or a woman forcing a man in their kids lives.

Exactly… been doing this too long.

It’s to the point my homies literally have given up on dating women with kids… invited me to a whole FB group dedicated to dating without kids

 

[the bossman]

OP sounds unhinged af

 

[Yaboysix]

Y’all single nikkas mad about everything involving females, lol

 

[JoseLuisGotcha]

having a kid is a red flag all together....i woudn't even make it far enough to read her bio

as soon as i see a pic with a kid im out

 

[Sex Luthor]

Y’all single nikkas mad about everything involving females, lol

It's really grown ass men out here looking for a fairy tale


That comes from no experience with women or being a closet member of the alphabet gang. They already think every woman is a man anyway

 

[Deltron]

as soon as i see a pic with a kid im out

what if its their niece/nephew etc?

 

[Doobie Doo]

Date with women children, brehs


You low self esteem nikkas will bytch and moan about bytches you hate before you up your standards to childless women

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Letting you know u need to be a oncall Simp. Oncall for whenever she has time or a babysitter u can come take her out.

So have plans ready, you know when she'll call u up.

You slowly becoming an incel.

Incels typically focus on negative traits of women instead of living their life and eventually finding a woman matching their energy

 

[Max.]

that’s something whores say bruh….those women are like damaged good kinda…it means she isnt gona be good at texting….and makn “plans” with her is gona be stress….

Thats why any single mkm that acts that way…i usually bush em or fukk n ghost them….

Also NO HOOKUPS! On a profile is a big red flag

Its shows me that the dudes before me have been running thru her and not dating her seriously