In your expert opinion, at what point should she start looking for someone to marry?
another pet peeve over online dating: why some women online say "my kids are my number one priority?"
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In your expert opinion, at what point should she start looking for someone to marry?
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
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The coli yall....
Mad that women don't take care of their kids....
Mad that women rake care of their kids....
Just mad....
Mad that women don't take care of their kids....
Mad that women rake care of their kids....
Just mad....
All parents say that. Even when it's not true.
Don'tCallMeLuckyB
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From my experience of online dating in the past, when a woman usually says that on their bio, they don’t have any other accomplishments to claim.
We KNOW kids are first priorities lol but to announce it means they don’t have shyt else going on.
In the end, that p*ssy easier than nba 2k on rookie mode and you picked the Dream Team vs the kings.
We KNOW kids are first priorities lol but to announce it means they don’t have shyt else going on.
In the end, that p*ssy easier than nba 2k on rookie mode and you picked the Dream Team vs the kings.
I understand what OP is saying, but here is the thing...
A woman can place her child(ren) as her #1 priority all she want. However, if she expect a man to make her a priority, then she has to do the same with that man.
Basically, she will have to learn how to effectively distribute her time between being a Mom and dating and/or being a girlfriend.
If a woman isn't willing to invest time with someone, then she will have difficulty finding someone who is going to stick around. No person is going to be with someone who is low on the priority list. It isn't going to work!
So, the issue I
is that some people may not know how to make profiles that attract the type of person they are seeking. From my experience with online dating, it was rare to see women invest time in filling out profiles and many barely have photos let alone full body photos.
Maybe these new apps have a different format, but traditionally, profiles are literal advertisement to attract potential suitors. I believe what one puts into their profile is what they deserve to get.
The simple solution may be to avoid profiles that aren't filled out, lack photos as well as profiles that doesn't entice people to reach out to these individuals.
A woman can place her child(ren) as her #1 priority all she want. However, if she expect a man to make her a priority, then she has to do the same with that man.
Basically, she will have to learn how to effectively distribute her time between being a Mom and dating and/or being a girlfriend.
If a woman isn't willing to invest time with someone, then she will have difficulty finding someone who is going to stick around. No person is going to be with someone who is low on the priority list. It isn't going to work!
So, the issue I
is that some people may not know how to make profiles that attract the type of person they are seeking. From my experience with online dating, it was rare to see women invest time in filling out profiles and many barely have photos let alone full body photos. Maybe these new apps have a different format, but traditionally, profiles are literal advertisement to attract potential suitors. I believe what one puts into their profile is what they deserve to get.
The simple solution may be to avoid profiles that aren't filled out, lack photos as well as profiles that doesn't entice people to reach out to these individuals.
MajesticLion
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80%+ of you goofys shouldn't be making threads, yet here we are. 
Strong similar thread topic, too.
Strong similar thread topic, too.
they need to close registry againFirst of all, if you have a kid, out of wedlock, you should not be dating…
If a female says that “my kids take a higher priority” why are you on an online dating site?
Unless the female is looking for a simp to be another baby daddy or step father…the female should not be on a dating site where she says “my kids come first”…
your priority is to raise your kid and forgo dating until the kid reaches 18....
yall new nyggas something else
so if her and her dude break up when the baby is 6
she gotta wait 12 yrs to date
*birdman handrub gifWhat if you saw a profile that said "My kids are my SECOND priority"....without any further explanation
Yaboysix
That nikka
a few years before i met my girl i went on a date with a girl who had six kids
she was hardcore biblical christian... but she still let me play with her titties at the park
them nips looked like prosciutto tho... chewed up. like afghanistan. bombed out and depleted.
i wonder what shes up to these days
This is very well stated.I understand what OP is saying, but here is the thing...
A woman can place her child(ren) as her #1 priority all she want. However, if she expect a man to make her a priority, then she has to do the same with that man.
Basically, she will have to learn how to effectively distribute her time between being a Mom and dating and/or being a girlfriend.
If a woman isn't willing to invest time with someone, then she will have difficulty finding someone who is going to stick around. No person is going to be with someone who is low on the priority list. It isn't going to work!
So, the issue I
Maybe these new apps have a different format, but traditionally, profiles are literal advertisement to attract potential suitors. I believe what one puts into their profile is what they deserve to get.
The simple solution may be to avoid profiles that aren't filled out, lack photos as well as profiles that doesn't entice people to reach out to these individuals.
Ezekiel 25:17
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Eh, it's true to a certain extent. Some of broads be fresh out of a relationship. Some broads the baby ain't even 6 months.
A lot of women are dumb as shyt. Kevin Samuels would tell em to just go back with the husband
