another pet peeve over online dating: why some women online say "my kids are my number one priority?"

[dr. pill biden]

if a woman’s first priority were her children she would be doing everything she could to give them a daddy (AKA do whatever it takes to heal and make that shyt work and stay with the nikka who fathered them) but that requires putting ego/pride aside so really its not that big a priority

its one of those popular lies that sounds good. i wouldn’t take it too serious, we all gotta cope somehow

 

[O.T.I.S.]

having a kid is a red flag all together....i woudn't even make it far enough to read her bio

as soon as i see a pic with a kid im out

This exactly what my homeboy says

 

[Youngdev]

Eh, it's true to a certain extent. Some of broads be fresh out of a relationship. Some broads the baby ain't even 6 months.

A lot of women are dumb as shyt. Kevin Samuels would tell em to just go back with the husband

Yeah if the kid is 3 months and the chic clubbing and dating every weekend I get it, but we gonna tell folks they cant get a sitter and go out every once in a while cause they a single mom

That's nonsense

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Congratulations on the Plat @puckkhead this has got to be top 5 dumbest thread idea ever but it got a discussion going. Hats off.

 

[Estarossa]

I dated a single mother who was older than me… she would go to the end of the Earth for her 2 kids but she made sure to make time for me and would call me every single day. I ain’t have a problem helping wit her kids but she barely asked for help wit that anyway. They were older and well behaved. I prolly would be a stepdad right now but we broke up over some stupid shyt and she didn’t really give me any leeway to reconcile.

She rolled out the red carpet for us to get back together in March but by then I’d already been in another relationship for a year.

 

[Hazel Brown]

First of all, if you have a kid, out of wedlock, you should not be dating…

If a female says that “my kids take a higher priority” why are you on an online dating site?

Unless the female is looking for a simp to be another baby daddy or step father…the female should not be on a dating site where she says “my kids come first”…

your priority is to raise your kid and forgo dating until the kid reaches 18....

What are we gonna do about these incels that keep obsessing over single mothers and making back to back threads about these people? @Houston911 This is becoming unhealthy. The obsession these men have over women that are not bothering them. No one is forcing them to date single mothers. But because their single mothers mistreated them as children, they’re taking all their anger out on other random single mothers in adulthood.

I’m not even around single mothers neither did I grow up with any and this obsession tires even me out.

First of all, if you have a kid, out of wedlock, you should not be dating…

Who the hell are you to say who’s allowed to date and not? Who died and made you King? And who said all of them had kids out of wedlock.

If a female says that “my kids take a higher priority” why are you on an online dating site?

You do know what priority means right? Just because something is highest on a priority list, it doesn’t mean others things do not exist on that list.

 

[Koli_Kat]

So she supposed to put a random dude she met online over own her kids ?


OP obviously didn't think this one over before he hit post

 

[Hazel Brown]

All I'm hearing is "How am I going to be your child when you already have children"

Lol I wanna rep you so bad but it’s not allowing me to. Is that why these boys are obsessed with random single mothers that are minding their business? Because they want a wife to son them?

 

[Hazel Brown]

Y'all getting onto OP when he's trying to say its the female version of this:



shyt doesn't need to said lol

That’s not even close to being the same thing. She’s not boasting about the fact that she takes care of her kids. She’s just stating what is at the top of her priority list. I do think it should be obvious enough that one shouldn’t have to state that. But it’s not the same as that Chris Rock video.

 

[ItzRailT]

Not even why they do that don’t nobody give a fukk about them kids

 

[Hazel Brown]

Exactly… been doing this too long.

It’s to the point my homies literally have given up on dating women with kids… invited me to a whole FB group dedicated to dating without kids

A whole Facebook group based on a group of women they don’t want? Are you not able to see why that’s some incel shyt? Goddamn those boys of yours are losers.

Instead of focusing their energy on women they do want, they made a whole group just to dub a group of women that are minding their own business.

I’m not dating no single Dads myself but I’ll never dedicate my entire life just to shyt on them. Why can’t you see that this behaviour is not normal?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Yeah if the kid is 3 months and the chic clubbing and dating every weekend I get it, but we gonna tell folks they cant get a sitter and go out every once in a while cause they a single mom

That's nonsense

Yeah but we both know a lot of them broads ain't being responsible.

 

[Hazel Brown]

In your expert opinion, at what point should she start looking for someone to marry?

Easy. If they broke up at age 6, they have to wait 12 years to date.

yall new nyggas something else
so if her and her dude break up when the baby is 6
she gotta wait 12 yrs to date

 

[Jazzy B.]

@Hazel Brown do you have all this energy for the black wenches who want white men but can't stop talking about black men?

 

[Hazel Brown]

@Hazel Brown do you have all this energy for the black wenches who want white men but can't stop talking about black men?

Is this thread about ‘black wenches’ like wtf are you talking about. Can’t refute shyt so you have to change the subject?