Anybody else feel resentment towards their parents?

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Jesus Christ we truly do think lowly of ourselves and automatically associate "good" with white people:merchant:
nah, many black people think to be black is to do the opposite of white people, whether it's good or not doesn't matter

white people plan for their children? Well black people DONT plan for their children, that's white people shyt!
white people save for the next generation? Well black people DONT save for the next generation, no one's gonna eat off of me, that's white people shyt!

it's really sad



no diss, but
And that's why white people running shyt :manny:
hope you aren't banned for this:lupe:
 

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It was 1979, they didn't know:yeshrug:

They still sent me to private school in the years they could afford it and summer camp and summer programs at uc berkeley.

I went from free lunch in elementry school to owning a house before 30, so they did alright

And now they make really good money and would give me whatever I asked for so :yeshrug:

I'm still salty that I didn't get those guess Jean overall shorts, I needed them:sadbron:

Also my cousin's were living in the oakland and Richmond projects during 80s-90s crack era. I didn't have it that bad looking back
 

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It's taboo to talk about it but damn, my parents ain't plan or nothing.

Everything I do I do without help which is fine but sucks some parents hooked their kids up.

The cold hard truth is if your parents didn't plan for you, you're pretty much fukked if you don't make it yourself.

I love my mom and dad but a lot of the shyt I'm going through now could've been avoided.




:francis: easily

I won't exactly call it resentment but even some incremental changes would've gone a long way and it's not like those changes were outta my parent reach. Like you said, it's a taboo topic but I flat out think a lot of parents aren't good at it and don't know what the fukk they got themselves into but obviously can't turn back.

You have parents legit feeling pride in themselves since their kids lived to be 21 and above and didn't die of TB or some shyt. That's no fukkin excuse to not plan for them.

What's bugged out is that even the wackest parents can see how hard adulthood can be and STILL don't get a lil bullshyt savings acct set up or even rustle up some scholarship applications. You're on your own. And then on the flipside you have parents who toss $$ in their kids accounts, freely allow them to come back home to and just have enough infrastructure in place that the kids aren't constantly worrying about bullshyt, like SAVING THEIR PARENTS LOL
 
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Forgive them and do what your parents couldnt do for you, for your kids. All you have is the future now, think about that.

You dont want your kid making this thread about you in 20-25 years time.

My current gf was abandoned by her parents and was raised by her grandma.It made her stronger & she doing well for herself because she has had to look after herself all her life. She 21 got her own place, car, has a well paying job, can cook, clean, bake and has a low body count. She has a lil attitude maybe coming from her abandonment issues but her qualities overshadows that.
nikkas ain't thinking about no kids
 

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You grown..figure it out.

My parents were the same, either you make it or you don't. Not anyone else's responsibility to take care of your grown ass when they tryin to take care of themselves

don't fukking have kids then, parenting is a lifetime job. Not something your done with all because your child turns 18. Y'all have some fukking sorry ass selfish losers (myself included) as parents.


All the money they wasted chasing after p*ssy/dikk, new clothes for themselves, wasted money on the lottery and the casino, but couldn't put shyt aside to set up your children's future.

fukk you dumb ass c00ns with your backwards ass slave mentality, no wonder blacks in the hood have a hard time prospering
 

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i love my parents, my moms is a sweetheart but she dont know what the fukk is going on in the real world...shes a hardworker, she very naive...but i did feel resentment for my dad...he didnt grind in his youth, all he did was fukk bytches and run the streets....and now i gotta put in extra work....like i have to do his and my work and sacrifice alot of fun..... ive missed out on alot, trying to escape this hole that im in.....but i forgave him and just do the work....a man gotta find his own way anyway
 

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don't fukking have kids then, parenting is a lifetime job. Not something your done with all because your child turns 18. Y'all have some fukking sorry ass selfish losers (myself included) as parents.


All the money they wasted chasing after p*ssy/dikk, new clothes for themselves, wasted money on the lottery and the casino, but couldn't put shyt aside to set up your children's future.

fukk you dumb ass c00ns with your backwards ass slave mentality, no wonder blacks in the hood have a hard time prospering

I get it...some of you soft fakkits need your hand held until your 40 then maybe you wouldn't have become the failure you are now :ld:

But then again, maybe that's why your here on a message board mad at and blaming your parents for you no prospering.

Either way if you feel like you shouldn't have been brought into this world then kill yourself, no one will care :yeshrug:
 

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i can see why they say most ppl that grow up poor dont make it out...i got family in their late 20s thats stuck....hell it took alot of discipline, vision, patience for me to still be standing...i can understand how easy it is to get stuck from generation to generation in poverty

because your family indoctrinate u with bad advise, u have no resources, no network of professionals, resources for traveling....u basically gotta work magic to hang on and force ya way out ....i know im not rotting in this shythole for the rest of my live, fukk that, not me
 
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