Are black women holding black men to unrealistic standards compared to white standards of relationships?

[Rakim Allah]

I don't watch random YouTube links. Do you have an article?

Nah.

Dr T Hasan Johnson videos are not random. He and other professionals are speaking on Black men and emotional labor.

Try something new and take a chance on those wonderful and informative videos. You won’t be disappointed, friend.

 

[Rakim Allah]

I don't watch random YouTube links. Do you have an article?

Actually here’s one by Dr T Hasan Johnson, friend.

“Black Men and Their Ignored Emotional Labor In Relationships” by T. Hasan Johnson, Ph.D.

Just had a strange flashback. I’m watching a film dealing with a married couple who could not have children. At every street corner they walk by women with babies in babycarriers or receive letters…

newblackmasculinities.wordpress.com

 

[Rakim Allah]

I really think people underestimate what Antonio Moore introduced with the concept of a "decadent veil"

They want to be courtside baddies with IG influencer level content of affluence luxury and comfort. Its sheer delusion.

WITHOUT black entertainers, a lot of people in this convo will get humbled.

Sometimes Tone t*ts is right on the money, friend.

 

[Peachstate]

Actually here’s one by Dr T Hasan Johnson, friend.

“Black Men and Their Ignored Emotional Labor In Relationships” by T. Hasan Johnson, Ph.D.

Just had a strange flashback. I’m watching a film dealing with a married couple who could not have children. At every street corner they walk by women with babies in babycarriers or receive letters…

newblackmasculinities.wordpress.com

Thanks. How does this disprove what I said about women doing more emotional labor than men in marriages?

 

[Rakim Allah]

Thanks. How does this disprove what I said about women doing more emotional labor than men in marriages?

You’re welcome.

The videos and article prove that Black men are doing just as much or more emotional labor as Black women. Watch some of the videos. May help you in the long run, friend.

 

[Serious]

WOW

Tone is talking about this live!



WOOOOW

Black professionals are NOT immune.





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You’re going have to break this down for me like I’m 10.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

There's a lot emphasis on material w/ some of ppl on this thread, and it don't be like that unless u date high class/high income women. Social Media has allowed a lot of different classes/mindsets to interact, and irl this doesn't happen a lot.

This.

 

[Serious]

Google searches and random YouTube podcasts =/= data scientist

Or are you a real life data scientist?

You want to see my masters and job title.

I have no problem flexing, but what do I get out of it .


Also I’m fairly active in 6 certs…

Don’t think I’ve ever seen you post there

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

I'm sorry I just do not see this rhetoric reflected in action IRL so I will never ever take it seriously. Maybe the Gen Z ladies are putting this into practice consistently but Millennials and above are not.

Go through some of these dudes post history and you'll see that they aren't interacting with women irl like that.

 

[FluffyEyes]

I don't know who those black women are talking to, sucks for them. I find it hard to believe black men are doing that bad when our average income is at $50k. Maybe make better decisions choosing a man?

I don't know what's going on, but I'm in a pretty stable career field. Hoping I can boost myself to $75k - $85k this year.

Well then maybe BM should take that advice and find a BW that is like-minded instead of complaining about what these women are saying.

Oh and thank you for proving my prior point.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

You’re going have to break this down for me like I’m 10.

Black professionals are being squeezed

 

[Wild self]

One day we’ll just be honest and say women dgaf about systemic racism, inflation, oppression or any of that in regards to men

Either you’re winning or you’re not. And we are not.

We need to be honest that MATERIALISM and the dysfunctions of the Crack Epidemic is killing the value system and character building of black people, period!

 

[Wild self]

Black professionals are being squeezed

Black professionals expect to be Pac in a Business suit, have major connects to the streets, keep up with the latest entertainment and fashion, while being Robert F. Smith.

 

[Neuromancer]

Well then maybe BM should take that advice and find a BW that is like-minded instead of complaining about what these women are saying.

I found one and I still will defend my brothers and my own image. Is that not allowed now?

 

[Serious]

Black professionals expect to be Pac in a Business suit, have major connects to the streets, keep up with the latest entertainment and fashion, while being Robert F. Smith.

Gotta pick a lane. Like @Nigerianwonder tried breaking down a few posts above. People have unrealistic expectations, and probably wouldn’t even recognize someone who’s truly well off, if they were right in front of them.