Are u still holding out for marriage and a family or given up hope?

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

You shouldn’t even start thinking about marriage until you are 30

Know an 18 year old cat who just graduated HS a few weeks ago who just proposed to his girl last night, to each their own

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I'm at a crossroads of sorts. I really want a wife to build with and at the very least a companion to share my life with but we live in crazy times were I'm not sure if that's possible for a large amount of people.

My goal is to find a like minded soul mate to love and build if not I'm just going to stack money and try to leave the country. I don't see any other way to live logically. I'm definitely not trying to be around multiple random American women. These chicks r hurting and got fire in their eyes looking for a meal.

I do get lonely tho holding out for this like minded spiritual connection that's suppose to be waiting for me. I don't think it exist anymore.

Time will tell I guess. I'm hoping once I move I'll have a good dating pool of women with diverse backgrounds and personalities but I'm starting to think woman everywhere r the same because of social media influence.

jibber jabbering trash

take baby steps

hold down a girls interest for even a week first before you start fantasizing about marriage.

doesn't matter where you move. women can sense you're a weak beta with male with no social skills.

incel fakkit

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Most men have trouble having kids by 28.


THere no benefit for men to get married really.

To each its own tho.

so u a cac?

this is not a stat that applies to Black men.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

so u a cac?

this is not a stat that applies to Black men.

I didn’t wanna say anything but it’s mainly CACs who have fertility issues.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Precisely friend....I was just about to post something similar but was interested in reading people's responses first. It's essentially ego and cowardice (fear of dying alone) which is driving this......When you objectively think about human reproduction there is NO tangible benefits to having children in 2018 and beyond...Not only is it hurting humans it's also hurting other species and the planets ecosystems.....But people don't care all they want is a little "mini me" to show off to their girlfriends and parents.... "Hey look everyone I'm pregnant somebody chose me, herderp!!"

This is why the older and older I get the more and more I get happy when I see human suffering on the television....

I agree with most of what you said apart from the human suffering. That’s a bit harsh on children who didn’t ask to be born.

 

[MikelArteta]

Maybe if I moved

Tapped out of the dating pool here

 

[Rawtid]

38 is not old

To have kids and get married it is. After a certain age it’s pretty pointless or just for companionship.

 

[Rawtid]

Dr X and anybody else who wants to answer please tell me what is the benefit to having a family and children these days? Furthermore there are over 7 billion people on the planet do we really need more?

Lol some people still desire the idea of having a legacy. Building with their spouse, for their children, children’s children, etc.

 

[semicko82]

To have kids and get married it is. After a certain age it’s pretty pointless or just for companionship.

so life stops at 40. How old are you? Young dumb talk.

 

[TheCPA]

I definitely want to get married one day but i must find the right person first which is hard these days, i don't want to settle for low quality woman and fukked up my life

 

[Rawtid]

so life stops at 40. How old are you? Young dumb talk.

Never said life stops lol I’m a woman and there is a time limit on having children and that’s around 40. I also think marriage is useless if you’re too old to have children. You can still have a life but I don’t see a point in wanting marriage after a certain age.

 

[semicko82]

Never said life stops lol I’m a woman and there is a time limit on having children and that’s around 40. I also think marriage is useless if you’re too old to have children. You can still have a life but I don’t see a point in wanting marriage after a certain age.

Ok I can see having kids but








Oh you know what......





GMB

 

[Kane1]

I gotta keep a girl on my arm.

When you got a female it makes you seem more human and less threatening.

But I've given up on the idea of a meaningful relationship. Just not gonna happen for generation y Nikka's. I'm gonna accept whatever decent looking broad starts stalking me next.

Have low standards breh

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

There are a lot of people in here speaking out of loneliness.

 

[Rawtid]

There are a lot of people in here speaking out of loneliness.

Eh, I think you have to be practical and realistic. It’s not going to happen for everyone but doesn’t mean life is over.