Bae Is Becoming Cheap. Help A Bruhette Out?

[Snitchin Splatter]

How about you get your own you Leeching bytch

Is it "independent woman" or "cater to you" Beyonce got you young confused bytches trying to play both sides. We all know you gonna suck the nikka dry anyway so why even make this thread....it's what whores are programmed to do

 

[AkaDemiK]

We talked about it. We made up.






I got a new purse.



Thanks Guyz!

i'm utterly disgusted....

 

[mcdivit85]

that breh needs to step his game up. How do you guys expect to be with a female, especially a good one, if you aint picking up the tab? There ain't no point in a female being with the dude if he ain't providing for her? I'm not saying this nikka needs to hand over his whole check, but his woman shouldn't be picking up his tab. The day your woman is paying your shyt, is the day you aint a man anymore IMO.

OP, just tell that bum ass nikka he need to straighten up

The Buy A B#tch Chronicles

Peace

 

[Black Magisterialness]

@A Woman's Opinion

1. Do more free shyt. Every date doesn't have to include meals and money. If he isn't well versed in what can be done for free you can make the suggestion.

2. You made the mistake of this statement. "He feels like he doesn't have to do anything for me." This is a fatal mistake most women make. People don't realize that outside of their children, no one has to do anything for anyone especially in the context of casual or non serious (as in not a marriage) relationships.

3. Things have reasons, is his daughter going through the "dance phase" where shyt like homecomings and proms are coming up? Those are expensive. Is his baby momz putting the squeeze on him? Are his hours at work being reduced. These are all factors and questions that should be asked before you assume he's just being a cheap nikka.

4. Some of the best relationships come from people who can have fun without spending money and being out. Bring him over make him a nice meal, get some wine or smoke one and watch some movies or a show (or he can cook the meal it doesnt matter). Or, I don't know, TALK TO EACH OTHER. Either way, if his "cheapness" is becoming a roadblock either you DON'T really like him as much as you thought or he doesn't like YOU as much as you thought.

Its simple.

 

[African Peasant]

OP is a troll.

 

[mcdivit85]

U should NEVER foot the bill in the dating phase of ur relationship with a man solely because of things like this !

Men tend to take advantage of a woman early on if she lets him

There's no going back boo

Charge it to the game

 

[be back in a bit]

"I never call him asking for money or help. Shouldn't he appreciate that? Shouldn't that be rewarded?"

lmao this cracked me up.

 

[mcdivit85]

Thank you! I am far from a gold digger... If I was I would never have paid for anything or even entertained him!

You see how men on here will drag and blame the woman for everything?

Not true. True golddiggers spend money early on to get a trick's nose wide open. Most women would agree with your above statement, especially black chicks. Which is why black chicks have no business being gold diggers....not saying you want to be one.

Most dudes, and I mean most, are not used to women breaking bread on them. So, a gold digger with experience, will pay for a nice date or two early on, which will impress the dude and make him want to one up her.

Peace

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

Hey Guys...

I spoke about my boyfriend in the other thread, but I am having a relationship problem I would like your advice about. My boyfriend is becoming cheap, and I don't know how to confront him about this without seeming... greedy?

When we first started dating we would take turns paying for dates. He would get one, I would get the next one. This isn't something we agreed to, but it is something I did because our living situations are different. We both have decent jobs, but I have less bills than him, and he has a teenager. (I know she is expensive. lol)

He would ask me out, and I would just pay the bill when it came... . He would look shocked and say, "thanks".
Or if we went to the movies he would buy the tickets, and I would buy the snacks. (I like a lot of snacks, and I know they can be expensive)

Lately though he is getting comfortable. He doesn't want to date as much, and if we do, he looks for me to pick up the tab, or contribute something, always. (like a least the tip) At first, he didn't do this.

I don't mind contributing. I have shown him that. However, I don't want to always have to.

Am I wrong for that?

My mother AND Brother warned me about this. When you give a man an inch, they will take a mile! Why would he start taking advantage like that? I never call him asking for money or help. Shouldn't he appreciate that? Shouldn't that be rewarded?

Now it seems like he thinks he doesn't have to do anything for me, or just do nice things.

When trying to be independent backfires, eh?

#HelpPlease

Asking to pay the tip is a mile....

 

[WeDemBoyz]

:mjfancy:

:mjwhew:

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

This wouldn't be a problem if you cooked a meal instead of going out all the time


The kitchen is your friend

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Maybe he's saving the money/being cheap to buy a ring for you.

This IS possible.

nikka...what?

This fairy tale land yall females enjoy living in hilarious to me. "I don't want to always have to"...so he should be paying for the majority of the time yall go out.....WHY? Are yall not in a relationship, aren't yall partners? so why should you be exempt from doing your part? You contributing shouldn't be a "gesture" or a "suprise" to him, you;re both adults in a relationship....where you both have to do your part to make it work...get this "the men should provide, wine and dine me" bullshyt mentality out ya head....do your part.

I can understand if dude is becoming stingy with his bread and it worries you, but if he has been going half on dates and fell off that wagon..cool you have a point, but to say that you don't want to always have to do your part in the relationship is pure fukkery. You don't always have to put up money, there will be times where one of you will want to treat the other to a dinner or something, but if it ain't like that you should have no problem on splitting the check with him...that is your boyfriend, correct?

Now for the other issue...him starting to settle for you taking care of the check....just talk to him, its that simple, find out what is going on with him. It may not mean he is being cheap, maybe he is saving money or is having money issues, you don't need to run to the coli and belittle him by calling dude "cheap" if you don't understand the circumstance for him not spending money, that's corny. Also, you claim to not want someone to provide for you, but then you contradict that by saying he is not spending enough money on you...make up your mind.

stop slandering ya man to a bunch of anonymous people, log off and go talk to him...this shyt ain't rocket science

You right. We talked.

I got a gift.

 

[Mowgli]

You should be paying for coming to him without your hymen in tact.

Men smash and the courting is over. Not a lot of incentive to keep up with a high level of spending so we retreat Into frugality. Maybe he's got shyt he needs to save for. If he has a child obviously dividing his money between two females is problematic for his savings. You either need to deal with going out less or cook clean and give more blowjobs at which point you can't make demands that he pay when you go out...with less frequency.

The honeymoon phase is over but obviously to you this guy is nothing g more then someone you use to brag to others about what he does for you. As a person. He's very replaceable.

When it's real you don't keep score

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

This wouldn't be a problem if you cooked a meal instead of going out all the time


The kitchen is your friend

I cook.

 

[KangCraSS]

Peep game young...... next time you giving that bol "dat heady wop" RECEIVE HIM !!!!