Be honest brehs & brehettes...how many of y'all just don't see yourself getting married?

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

I'm gonna marry @Token and @Sunshine at the same damn time

i got my mama see ta @honestly?

 

[Meadow]

I definitely look forward to marriage.

 

[SemiEnlightenedBum]

definitely not,too broke(and insane) for such rituals..

i'm a heartless romantic dough,for thy i'd rather find true love then get rich,me and wifey could zone out,make love for hours(true Taurus shyt),meditate,and wait for thee motherships as thee world burns...

 

[Mr. Negative]

People always say that...but clearly its nit just paper or else so many wouldn't be so scared to sign it.
Is money just paper?

yes, money is just paper. It has value because people have decided that it has value.

Ask a millionaire how many of those pieces of paper he has sitting in his living room that represents the whole of his worth.

and yes, so is a marriage license.

 

[Yup]

yes, money is just paper. It has value because people have decided that it has value.

Ask a millionaire how many of those pieces of paper he has sitting in his living room that represents the whole of his worth.

and yes, so is a marriage license.

Then its not just a piece of paper or else it would have no intrinsic value.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

I've just come to the conclusion...I'm just not built to be married. Or a family man. I can't even see myself being some woman's boyfriend...much less a husband or a father.

I'm just too complicated of a person. I could only end up hurting a woman's feelings...

 

[Mr. Negative]

Then its not just a piece of paper or else it would have no intrinsic value.

it doesnt have any intrinsic value.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

My thing is...I just WANT to be in love...I don't know what that is...

 

[Yup]

it doesnt have any intrinsic value.

Then its paper you can easily sign and rip. To say that a marriage is just paper is luke saying that money is just paper. Sounds nice...but we all know thats not true.

 

[Yup]

I've just come to the conclusion...I'm just not built to be married. Or a family man. I can't even see myself being some woman's boyfriend...much less a husband or a father.

I'm just too complicated of a person. I could only end up hurting a woman's feelings...

Do you plan on being celibate?

 

[Mr. Negative]

Then its paper you can easily sign and rip. To say that a marriage is just paper is luke saying that money is just paper. Sounds nice...but we all know thats not true.

just like money, it's only worth anything when there's something of worth backing.it.

And just like money, you'll think it's worth what people will tell you it's worth and you'll be trading your time and working for something that's worth far less that you actually think... which benefits no one but the people who know it for what it is.

Just a piece of paper.

 

[Goat poster]

I felt the same way alot of yall felt in my 20's.

I would get up and go travel out the blue...cut myself of from people for days and weeks at a time.

Have multiple women Id be fukking at one time period.

yea. I feel yall.

But then I met my wife when I was at a very low point in my life, and she stood by me and supported me to no end, no questions asked.

Then we had my kid and that is UNDOUBTABLY the best thing that ever happened to me.

I mean don't get me wrong, there are many things that are tough about being a family man. I can't just be like "Ima lay in bed for 2 days straight" or "Ima just bounce down such and such city for the weekend".

But I'm really not tryna run around like I would back then, it doesn't really appeal to me much anymore.

And as far as space..My wife knows when to back off of me and give me my space, she only bothers me when my child needs me.Other than that she lets me do my writing/work in my office.

She understands.

 

[Yup]

just like money, it's only worth anything when there's something of worth backing.it.

And just like money, you'll think it's worth what people will tell you it's worth and you'll be trading your time and working for something that's worth far less that you actually think... which benefits no one but the people who know it for what it is.

Just a piece of paper.

I don't disagree with you but we live in the age of paper trail. A document with a signature is most times legally binding. It is not the paper that you sign that makes the marriage...all it does is legally binds you to an obligation that you chose. All I'm hearing is I don't want to get married because I don't want for my wife to dig in my pockets if we get divorced.
To me...money would be the least of my worries in the proces of divorce. You deal with these pieces of paper all the time which have a lot of value.
Money is a piece of paper...
Degree is a piece of paper
Diploma is a piece of paper
A cellphone contrat is a piece of paper
A mortgage is a piece of paper...
Doesn't change the fact that they can enhance or destroy your life. Marriage is not a piece of paper or else people wouldn't be scared to jump into it. The marriage licence legitimize your union.
I am sure you'd rather have a piece of paper to legitimize your paycheck rather than being told that you are going to get paid.
I think its more honest to say that marriage demands a level of commitment and fortitude that many people of our generation think they lack. Fleeting pleasures are more exciting than the idea of being with one person your entire life.

 

[Dominic Brehetto]

Id only get married if she was a millionaire.

 

[J-Nice]

@*L*E*G*A*C*Y* @Colicat @Sunshine and everyone else in here, I'm gonna tell you what the elders told me growing up....."Keep living". You won't be the same person you are now 3-5 years from now. Life has a way of changing people and their perspectives. As for me, I want to be married with children and building an empire with my wife (whoever that may be). At the end of the day, you only got one life to live and you gotta live it the best way you know how.