Been with Shorty three years. This weekend she moving in. Gimme some do's and don'ts...
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Now you’re being extreme. I never said I hated it here. Not liking particular comments doesn’t equate to a disdain for the entire site, lol. Did you just want to say that? FYI, the locker room is not the only thing here. I happen to like a lot of topics.. Excuse me for having an opinion
sinistersouth
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a better job than the draino, genius. i really need to tell you that? draino's a bandaidA plunger in the sink and shower breh? Tf is a plunger gonna do for your pipes?
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You truly never know anybody..I'm not as doomsayer as most in this thread. They've been together for 3 years so hopefully they know each others ins and out. Just clear out any financial expectations (is she splitting rent? Bills?) and go for it. If it fails just kick her out.
And moving in with somebody..
Exposes a lot of the little intricacies of your mates personality..
My ex wife hid her issues something serious..
Then it all came rolling out..
Cohabitating with a woman is a lot of work...
Because as much as people try to fight it..
We are just different and speak different..
I’m a introvert in every sense of the word..
I truly hate people and being around them..
Hate superfluous conversations and really don’t give a fukk..
Damn near sociopathic levels towards general society..
I’ve struggled with this in a lot of my relationships..
Because I would just up and leave in arguments..
Or..
I always need a lot of space..
My mates saw this as me shytting on them..
So I had to learn how to express that it wasn’t them..
I just need time to re-energize..
Communication is the biggest thing when moving in..
Not being afraid to “hurt” the other persons feelings..
Also learning love languages helped tremendously with my current...
We rarely argue and when we do..
It’s more of a discussion..
We take the emotion out of it...
That’s where people fukk up..
Also as everyone said..
Boundaries, Boundaries, Boundaries..
Learn them..
Build them..
Point them out when the line is crossed..
Moving in is a huge commitment and not for the weak..
If you don’t build/have a foundation (especially when space is comprised)..
It’s like watching a real life horror flick..
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nikka a plunger ain’t gonna do shyt in the tub for a bunch of underarm and legs shavingsa better job than the draino, genius. i really need to tell you that? draino's a bandaid
Caribbean lover
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This .
bytches swear the drain a magic portal
Attention. That rather complain IN male spaces as oppose to just coming here at all. They don’t want to be shyt out completely. They have the Salon for a reason and guess what, ain’t no fukking body over there.
More and more you all are reminding me of the posters on LSA... talking about spaces
... I guess you want to be on a forum where everyone agrees with you? FYI, you should start proofreading your posts before submitting them. That was a hard read, lol.
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You can always break it off.
sinistersouth
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stupid cracker, you'll fukk around and learn the hard way draino won't work every time. and when it doesn't what do you do? hell, you'll probably call a plumbernikka a plunger ain’t gonna do shyt in the tub for a bunch of underarm and legs shavings
BmoreGorilla
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A cracker? fukk youstupid cracker, you'll fukk around and learn the hard way draino won't work every time. and when it doesn't what do you do? hell, you'll probably call a plumber
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