Being in your 30s with no kids and not being married puts you in a strange place.

[semtex]

Let your 20s be your only good decade brehs

 

[DamienWayne]

My first marriage lasted 10 years. It ended due to an affair my wife had with one of her clients.

We eventually settled on joint custody of our children, ages 12 and 8. This arrangement worked great except for ongoing control issues my ex-wife would continually raise.

I remained single for eight years.

My present wife was 15 years younger then me (44 and 29), but she was very mature for her age. Our relationship was electrifying!

She seemed to care for my children, our sex life was amazing, we enjoyed the same music, gardening, etc. We mostly socialized with my friends.


I asked her to move in with my children and me. After several months, she didn’t offer to contribute any money towards the monthly bills or the weekly groceries.

I eventually tried to talk to her about this issue, but she refused to discuss it.

She finally told me it was my issue and she wasn’t changing. If I wasn’t so in love with her, I would’ve ended our relationship, but it was otherwise awesome.


I tried to get her to attend counselling to discuss and understand this issue, but she refused.

In 2004, our first child came and we were very happy. That same year we eloped.

After two more children and 15 years together, nothing has changed.

We both work and my money goes toward all of the monthly bills and any new house purchases for the house.

She pocketed her money. I have no idea how much she has or doesn’t have.

I’ve discovered over the years that she’s kept secrets from me (creditors to whom she owes money).

I feel she should have told me before we were married, but she doesn’t think so.

Over the last five years, she’s started taking out her anger on my adult children (age 32 and 34).

They rarely visit any more but continue to say there’s nothing wrong.

When she and I argue, she claims that those children aren’t biologically mine and I must be blind if I don’t see this!

She’ll say anything to hurt me. Sex is withheld for long periods due to these arguments.

I’ve said I want a divorce but this always ends up with her wanting to make up.

I love her and probably will never love anyone this much again, but I need peace and love in my life now.

This isn’t a healthy home environment for our children, now 10, 12, and 14.

I’d rather be a single father than remain in this toxic relationship, which has been created by me asking her to contribute financially towards the monthly bills.

Wow I don't know wat to say. We here for u breh but ....wow

 

[Inf1ne]

Tha

Wow I don't know wat to say. We here for u breh but ....wow

Thank you for coming on the show my brother take care of your self and each other and now for a word from our sponsors

 

[MikelArteta]

Wow I don't know wat to say. We here for u breh but ....wow

actually read that in the paper today

just reminded me that hey sometimes being single ain't bad

 

[Inf1ne]

I went on the internet and found education con nect tion


They have 1000s they'll help u too

 

[EndDomination]

My first marriage lasted 10 years. It ended due to an affair my wife had with one of her clients.

We eventually settled on joint custody of our children, ages 12 and 8. This arrangement worked great except for ongoing control issues my ex-wife would continually raise.

I remained single for eight years.

My present wife was 15 years younger then me (44 and 29), but she was very mature for her age. Our relationship was electrifying!

She seemed to care for my children, our sex life was amazing, we enjoyed the same music, gardening, etc. We mostly socialized with my friends.


I asked her to move in with my children and me. After several months, she didn’t offer to contribute any money towards the monthly bills or the weekly groceries.

I eventually tried to talk to her about this issue, but she refused to discuss it.

She finally told me it was my issue and she wasn’t changing. If I wasn’t so in love with her, I would’ve ended our relationship, but it was otherwise awesome.


I tried to get her to attend counselling to discuss and understand this issue, but she refused.

In 2004, our first child came and we were very happy. That same year we eloped.

After two more children and 15 years together, nothing has changed.

We both work and my money goes toward all of the monthly bills and any new house purchases for the house.

She pocketed her money. I have no idea how much she has or doesn’t have.

I’ve discovered over the years that she’s kept secrets from me (creditors to whom she owes money).

I feel she should have told me before we were married, but she doesn’t think so.

Over the last five years, she’s started taking out her anger on my adult children (age 32 and 34).

They rarely visit any more but continue to say there’s nothing wrong.

When she and I argue, she claims that those children aren’t biologically mine and I must be blind if I don’t see this!

She’ll say anything to hurt me. Sex is withheld for long periods due to these arguments.

I’ve said I want a divorce but this always ends up with her wanting to make up.

I love her and probably will never love anyone this much again, but I need peace and love in my life now.

This isn’t a healthy home environment for our children, now 10, 12, and 14.

I’d rather be a single father than remain in this toxic relationship, which has been created by me asking her to contribute financially towards the monthly bills.

You’re married and in your 40s?
I thought you were some 20-something Canadian Black who lived in their wealthy parent’s old house in Toronto complaining about COL and running popular threads on the Coli

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

My first marriage lasted 10 years. It ended due to an affair my wife had with one of her clients.

We eventually settled on joint custody of our children, ages 12 and 8. This arrangement worked great except for ongoing control issues my ex-wife would continually raise.

I remained single for eight years.

My present wife was 15 years younger then me (44 and 29), but she was very mature for her age. Our relationship was electrifying!

She seemed to care for my children, our sex life was amazing, we enjoyed the same music, gardening, etc. We mostly socialized with my friends.


I asked her to move in with my children and me. After several months, she didn’t offer to contribute any money towards the monthly bills or the weekly groceries.

I eventually tried to talk to her about this issue, but she refused to discuss it.

She finally told me it was my issue and she wasn’t changing. If I wasn’t so in love with her, I would’ve ended our relationship, but it was otherwise awesome.


I tried to get her to attend counselling to discuss and understand this issue, but she refused.

In 2004, our first child came and we were very happy. That same year we eloped.

After two more children and 15 years together, nothing has changed.

We both work and my money goes toward all of the monthly bills and any new house purchases for the house.

She pocketed her money. I have no idea how much she has or doesn’t have.

I’ve discovered over the years that she’s kept secrets from me (creditors to whom she owes money).

I feel she should have told me before we were married, but she doesn’t think so.

Over the last five years, she’s started taking out her anger on my adult children (age 32 and 34).

They rarely visit any more but continue to say there’s nothing wrong.

When she and I argue, she claims that those children aren’t biologically mine and I must be blind if I don’t see this!

She’ll say anything to hurt me. Sex is withheld for long periods due to these arguments.

I’ve said I want a divorce but this always ends up with her wanting to make up.

I love her and probably will never love anyone this much again, but I need peace and love in my life now.

This isn’t a healthy home environment for our children, now 10, 12, and 14.

I’d rather be a single father than remain in this toxic relationship, which has been created by me asking her to contribute financially towards the monthly bills.

when were you married? i thought your fist wife had an abortion/miscarriage

 

[315]

You’re married and in your 40s?
I thought you were some 20-something Canadian Black who lived in their wealthy parent’s old house in Toronto complaining about COL and running popular threads on the Coli

when were you married? i thought your fist wife had an abortion/miscarriage

He's quoting something he read.

 

[Inf1ne]

Step one break it don't
Step two twist it onnnn up
Step three light that fukking shyt on fire
Step 4 hit it higher higher and hiiiiigher
Step 5 ya living easy nowwww welcome to my world
Step 6 slap the everloving shiiit oucha self for entertaining this loser train of thought
You better now??

 

[duckbutta]

One of my friends is 33, single, no kids, never been married, and is by far the happiest person i know

This nikka face is permanently on

He ethered my other married friends so much that they don't even fukk with him anymore...I'm the only guy who still really talks to him and we all been friends for years now...

 

[Inf1ne]

One of my friends is 33, single, no kids, never been married, and is by far the happiest person i know

This nikka face is permanently on

He ethered my other married friends so much that they don't even fukk with him anymore...I'm the only guy who still really talks to him and we all been friends for years now...

I couldn't imagine having to split my food by force of a ring imagine you got one ice cold coca cola and soon as you crack the seal ya wife and kids get to sippin and gulpin ya shyt and all you got is fizz bubbles

Haha
Nanny na na boo boo
Me &mine match blunts

 

[MikelArteta]

You’re married and in your 40s?
I thought you were some 20-something Canadian Black who lived in their wealthy parent’s old house in Toronto complaining about COL and running popular threads on the Coli

Husband with 3 kids at home wants out of toxic relationship: Ask Ellie | Toronto Star

 

[☃ ೋ]

My first marriage lasted 10 years. It ended due to an affair my wife had with one of her clients.

We eventually settled on joint custody of our children, ages 12 and 8. This arrangement worked great except for ongoing control issues my ex-wife would continually raise.

I remained single for eight years.

My present wife was 15 years younger then me (44 and 29), but she was very mature for her age. Our relationship was electrifying!

She seemed to care for my children, our sex life was amazing, we enjoyed the same music, gardening, etc. We mostly socialized with my friends.


I asked her to move in with my children and me. After several months, she didn’t offer to contribute any money towards the monthly bills or the weekly groceries.

I eventually tried to talk to her about this issue, but she refused to discuss it.

She finally told me it was my issue and she wasn’t changing. If I wasn’t so in love with her, I would’ve ended our relationship, but it was otherwise awesome.


I tried to get her to attend counselling to discuss and understand this issue, but she refused.

In 2004, our first child came and we were very happy. That same year we eloped.

After two more children and 15 years together, nothing has changed.

We both work and my money goes toward all of the monthly bills and any new house purchases for the house.

She pocketed her money. I have no idea how much she has or doesn’t have.

I’ve discovered over the years that she’s kept secrets from me (creditors to whom she owes money).

I feel she should have told me before we were married, but she doesn’t think so.

Over the last five years, she’s started taking out her anger on my adult children (age 32 and 34).

They rarely visit any more but continue to say there’s nothing wrong.

When she and I argue, she claims that those children aren’t biologically mine and I must be blind if I don’t see this!

She’ll say anything to hurt me. Sex is withheld for long periods due to these arguments.

I’ve said I want a divorce but this always ends up with her wanting to make up.

I love her and probably will never love anyone this much again, but I need peace and love in my life now.

This isn’t a healthy home environment for our children, now 10, 12, and 14.

I’d rather be a single father than remain in this toxic relationship, which has been created by me asking her to contribute financially towards the monthly bills.

Edit:
Oh, thats not you..I was about to call you a simp

 

[badtguy]

when were you married? i thought your fist wife had an abortion/miscarriage

I thought that Nikka was 25

Edit nvm. Not him

 

[badtguy]

Bump.

All my homies who are married are happy.

Cause they marred fine women who were obsessed with them. Throughout their 20's.

Now if you're in your 30's marrying a chick who would have never looked your way in her 20's, low sexdrive(cause they been ran through B4), bad attitude, it will be a different story.