Black Women obsessing over Colorism has got to stop....

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...I hate to even address this but I feel the need to. While many men have a preference for you lighter skinned females it doesn't mean ALL men have that preference. These "standards" and beliefs and color, facial features and feminine attractiveness come from society at not and not solely the hearts and minds of Black men. And because you are dark skin doesn't mean that you won't find a man or even a slew of men that find you attractive maybe even for the simple fact that you are of a darker hue. Colorism is systemic issue and just like racism its not going away anytime soon so you are going to have to learn how to navigate your way around it and survive while it exist around you. By the way it adversely effects dark skin men as well!





Rock on..

 

[↓R↑LYB]

negged for a wack ass fukkin thread

 

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My point needed to be articulated like it or not.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

So we're allowed to talk about racism but we can't talk about colorism?That same argument can be used for racism.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Am I speaking for most men when I say I dont give a fukk about her complexion as long as she gotta fat ass, pretty feet, no bad breath, nice teeth, in decent shape at least, and can fry the fukk out some chicken?

 

[Milk N Cookies]

By the way it adversely effects dark skin men as well!

those small minded women ...

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

My point needed to be articulated like it or not.

It really didnt tho`

 

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So we're allowed to talk about racism but we can't talk about colorism?That same argument can be used for racism.

Obsessing over EVERY LITTLE racist incident and EVERY little thing said some bigoted pundit says it is just as unhealthy.

 

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It really didnt tho`

Yeah it did.The subject comes up on here to often.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Yeah it did.The subject comes up on here to often.

Way more other subjects come up here way more often just due to the fact that this is a predominantly male forum. Subjects that are beyond beaten to death for example. So it's weird that something that is hardly talked about here is what got u aggy. Do u tho, thats whats up :yadontsay:

 

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those small minded women ...

Oh well. Life is not fair. Homey needs to find broads that like what hes brings to the table. Dark complexion and all...

 

[Turk]

So this is only an issue Black Women have?

In general the people who I notice obsess over colorism the most are in fact Black men. This something the Black community as a whole needs to stop obsessing over.

 

[Regine Hunter]

so i can't like a dude because he has facial hair?
fukk outta here

 

[marcuz]

let them whine, with the ever increasing segment of black women dating non-black men. it will be fun watching them back themselves into a position where they have to defend their light skinned biracial offspring against their own best interest.

 

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So this is only an issue Black Women have?

In general the people who I notice obsess over colorism the most are in fact Black men.

Not as much as Black women though. Many talk as though as if is a top 1 or 2 issue in the Black community when it isn't.