That sounds good in theory, but the reality is human beings are social beings. A man without a woman or always by himself is not going feel connected to his community. Some of the greatest men accomplished things with a supportive woman behind them. Many men don't experience that and never will. I know for me personally being alone for YEARS(especially around holiday times) is depressing. It took a toil on me especially my last two years of college. I lost a lot of motivation, and internally felt like "what's the point, women ain't going give me a chance anyway". That shyt doesn't get better as you get older too. Once again for men who have always gotten women, or women to tell you to not sweat about it is like telling a starving person not to worry about eating. You're right depression can kill you. And being without a companion will lead to depression, and there's no amount of hobbies, food, religion, friends or family that can prevent that or fill that void.
I am average, and no it isn't a lie, that suggestion has been thrown around on this website over and over to guys and that's some bullshyt.Most people actually seem to be giving you different versions of the advice to improve yourself and try to have more of the qualities women desire. Instead of wallowing in the fact that women find you undesirable as is.
Also, even though I'm sure this will make you flip out angrily as you usually do, you need to stop repeating this lie that everyone tells men to settle while not telling women that. It might be time to consider that you are indeed not average but below, and the male equivalent of the ugly unattractive woman you feel better than. The way the dating game is set up in general men must do the majority of the initiation. That means in 90% of situations, the interaction, whether it results in approval or rejection for the man, is initially happening based off of the his attraction alone. It is very likely that you are doing more ignoring of your equivalent (and don't even realize it) than the women are rejecting their equivalent. Its possible their equivalent is never even approaching them for them to turn down or accept.
Why?
So black women are allowed to have a voice, but black men must suffer in silence. FOH those days are long gone. Black men are speaking up! And that's a good thing.
Then don't ask others to do the same for you. Shorty.![]()
27.How old are you breh
Great point. We are actually a matriarchy.You know a community is a matriarchy when black men are shunned and shamed for speaking out when black women had a voice for over 35 years on Oprah, Sally Jessy Raphael, Jenny Jones, Ricki Lake, etc.
Did I call you a fat whore? Why so sensitive. And why attack me?
@winb83 said this at the gems dealing with woman thread in 2012 and it applies to these dudes.
Alot of these TFL dudes are not in a good situation. If you have self esteem issue for example you fat other broke fix those things cuz it will erode your confidence. If you short hit the gym befriend with a dude who is good with woman cuz his greatness will brush off you once you hang out. As Rafe from Money and Violence said "The only hands holding you back is your own."
What bombs do I throw? I just call out their fukkery.Sorry.
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You're mean and you sound bitter all the time though. The little needles I throw at you now are nothing compared to the bombs you throw at Black women on here.
I don't trust any of these Alphabet Movements. I think they are all a part of the Gay Agenda honestly. All a ploy to make women look like a hopeless case and make being a homosexual appealing.
But read into it what you will....
To answer the thread more directly, I will expound on what many in here have already said....improve yourself...improve yourself and improve yourself some more. Even if it doesn't net you more females you'll feel better about yourself I promise you. It's a win win situation. Hard to argue against that. Hit the gym. Eat better. Eat at home more. And I don't mean warming chicken nuggets. Buy some food and cook that shyt to your liking. shyt is therapeutic as hell and it tastes better. Find some shyt you like doing alone. Has to be something. Depression and stressing will kill you. Ever wonder why humans never evolved beyond having to worry about heart attacks? Stressing will kill your ass. We are designed to worry very little. I think about shyt like that.