*Angel*
Frozen Flames Goddess
I already said trust issuesPerhaps the same reason a man would want a paternity test.
Brehettes how would u react if your child's father
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I've been saying this for years. It would alleviate a lot of bs.
*Angel*
Frozen Flames Goddess
This is really what it comes down too and makes more sense. Men are adopting a one rule for all to cover their recklessness. This is the "save" in their back pocket in case the puss is too good in that jump off, side piece, fling, hoe, etc and they forget to pull out or use protection.Don't get hoes pregnant....
If you run up raw in a scallywag or untrustworthy broad, then don't be shocked if you get got.
I don't need stats I got real life experience..
shyt just happened last weekend when my homies chick went through his phone and found NOTHING while we was at a house party but still had an attitude because of old shyt she found...
And I gave an example earlier in the thread how a chick tried to trap another one of my homies.
As for me, I got cheated on but found out and left before old girl found out she was pregnant... What if I was just oblivious and she just had the baby with me still there and we didn't get a test.
So no.. chicks going phones is not the most nikkas have gone through. Sometimes its just all these dudes know about.
For me, a test is definitely necessary. Idgaf if she wants to be with me or not afterwards. My momma taught me to never put my 100% trust in anyone especially a woman so
If you wanna ride out after we have the test its your prerogative
Choose better
This whole post is your prerogative since this is all based on your life and experience. If you tell That to your girl and she is cool with it good for y’all.
I am talking about a having to deal with someone not trusting you. Not everything a person has gone through in a relationship obviously. It goes beyond cheating to me. I could never do that, I’d rather leave.
I said what I said, we can disagree. It’s not common for me I haven’t seen it in real life with people a know personally. I also don’t deal with people I don’t/ can’t trust. I’m not naive but without me putting myself into a position to get hurt or used you have a clean slate with me and then your actions determine who you are to me.
*Angel*
Frozen Flames Goddess
Based on this thread there's no need to exercise good judgement, in or out of a relationship, when you have a safe card to cover your flaw.
NotAnFBIagent
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Its not a safe card the baby could still very well be yours
More like an insurance policy really
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
So now the bail out is to stay away from hoes
As if these so called good girls don't be getting caught up in bullshyt too.
Miss me with all that
:coreynikkaplease:
As if these so called good girls don't be getting caught up in bullshyt too.
Miss me with all that
:coreynikkaplease:
*Angel*
Frozen Flames Goddess
...but testing a baby just becuz makes perfect sense with a woman your in a relationship with and should know?? Y'all so busy looking at the details you miss the big picture.
Being a "good girl" (however you define it) has nothing to do with cheating and its not about not fking hoes alone, its about exercising good judgement and understanding who your fukn.
A problem I see in here is that most seem to put getting to panties over vetting properly and found an easy way outta a jam, but people are unpredictable, relationship or not. Its our job to follow the signs our partners or fk buddies give us and respond appropriately, that way we always have an idea where we stand with them and understand what they're capable of. Everyone doesn't cheat. Some will just leave if they are not happy in their situation but its your job to know if your dealing with that type of person.
But why vet properly when you can just test the baby, right?!
Most likely to get pregnant by another man and pass it off as her SO’s lol.
The rationalization in the posts are astounding. All about me me me me
NotAnFBIagent
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She looking real funny in the light
Seems like most men do telling by this thread, same as how its common for women to go through phones. Reassurance is insecurity tho.
*Angel*
Frozen Flames Goddess
I knew that was coming. Like I said initially, some of y'all are damaged or have bad judgement if every scenario always results in the worst outcome. People aren't that hard to figure out.
Relationships aren't for everyone.
Thats the shyt I said to exes who suspected me of cheating (and they were right)
Common manipulation technique lol
We arent crazy. U just dont care...its all about u and how u feel. Thats fine but these rationalizations are corny lol
*Angel*
Frozen Flames Goddess
Seems like most men do telling by this thread, same as how its common for women to go through phones. Reassurance is insecurity tho.
The Coli is not most men. A certain type yes, but most irl, naw.