Brehs let me tell y'all what happened with this chick after work this evening.

[StackorStarve]

You dont know sh1t. He found out she has a whole family. You dont have to think about this because you dont have anything to lose by losing a job at your level. Jist one of them dogs that love creating chaos, like a woman.

You are a bytch. What does her having a family have to do with grabbing lunch since she’s already comfortable enough to have a conversation with him in his car for an hour and he liked her company. They already exchanged work messenger info. Should he just turn around and walk the other way if he runs into her in the office now or be normal and have a conversation? Only difference is that same normal conversation would include food or drinks

 

[badboys11]

Incel fakkit. Talks shyt about women all day. Scared to ask one to go to lunch because he can’t control himself. Stick to porn breh

All im trying to say is that you sound stupid bruh relax. Leave the career advice to men with careers.

Are we clear ?

Scary incel babble. Stick to porn breh. Let the real ones deal with women outside.

Aren’t you the jujitsu guy? You afraid you going to have to leg lock your female co-worker if yall go to a happy hour or do you think you’ll say some creepy shyt you’re used to saying on the coli and out yourself?

You dont know sh1t. He found out she has a whole family. You dont have to think about this because you dont have anything to lose by losing a job at your level. Jist one of them dogs that love creating chaos, like a woman.

Clicking on page 6 of a random coli thread knowing two posters are cussing each other out and here we are

 

[Mowgli]

You are a bytch. What does her having a family have to do with grabbing lunch since she’s already comfortable enough to have a conversation with him in his car for an hour and he liked her company. They already exchanged work messenger info. Should he just turn around and walk the other way if he runs into her in the office now or be normal and have a conversation? Only difference is that same normal conversation would include food or drinks

He should understand boundaries because hes obviously curious if shes hitting on him.

You started off trying to give him advice to figure out if she was trying to smash. Now youre switching up to some networking sh1t.

Im saying as a career man, a black man, you have to be careful how you interact with married women in the office and get smashing out of your mind completely. A single woman can give you the same problems as a married one so why make the potential damage to your reputation worse. Its ok when you work at burlington coat factory and live with your mother. When losing a bag can fukk up your opportunities and hurt mortage payments isss different

 

[Mowgli]

Clicking on page 6 of a random coli thread knowing two posters are cussing each other out and here we are

Plenty of single bytches outside the office. You be around your coworkers so much people get to familiar but its always going to fall on the man when sh1t goes left.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Before you do anything else update your Linkedin.

bytches like attention and help. shyt happens in offices all the time. Whatever you do don't make the first move. at best maybe grab some coffee and say nothing maybe even record the convo.

If she wants you to smash she'll bring it up If you just happen to grab coffee ( don't even ask her just say you're getting coffee) but even if she lets you hit it's a bad idea but if you just have to have some curry cooch be extra careful.

They’ll definitely bring it up first

I would shrug it off and just be cordial if I see her again. She was probably just being nice only because you had a way to charge her phone.

She might act as if you don’t even exist after that. You should be cool with that, because as bad as she might seem and as polite as she might act, you never know the real people in those places and it’s definitely not worth making the wrong moves with married women at work.

And if her friend circle has zero black people in it, don’t even bother

 

[badboys11]

Plenty of single bytches outside the office. You be around your coworkers so much people get to familiar but its always going to fall on the man when sh1t goes left.

This man got so belligerent he's arguing with me and I ain't got shyt to do with the thread

 

[Bar Razor]

I've worked with many married women over the years - office holiday parties, off site team building trips, etc. I'll just say you see it all...........

 

[Mowgli]

This man got so belligerent he's arguing with me and I ain't got shyt to do with the thread

Arguing? Relax.

 

[StackorStarve]

He should understand boundaries because hes obviously curious if shes hitting on him.

You started off trying to give him advice to figure out if she was trying to smash. Now youre switching up to some networking sh1t.

Im saying as a career man, a black man, you have to be careful how you interact with married women in the office and get smashing out of your mind completely. A single woman can give you the same problems as a married one so why make the potential damage to your reputation worse. Its ok when you work at burlington coat factory and live with your mother. When losing a bag can fukk up your opportunities and hurt mortage payments isss different

Nah don’t try and cop pleas now. OP never said anything about smashing or hooking up with the woman in his post and I never said anything about networking although it could be. I said she was just being friendly but next time assuming there is one you should casually ask her out to lunch or happy hour to see what type a time she’s on. Thats it. Then you quoted me acting like I said he should ask her over to his house or to a romantic dinner.

My point is, the interaction seemed friendly and if he wanted to figure out what’s what he should ask her out to lunch because it’s a neutral thing. You acting like talking to a woman you work with outside of hello and bye will spiral into getting fired.

 

[EastAfrixan]

OP, you said she is head of I.T

Everyone is talking about fukking this chick. The whole time I’d be like “can I give you my resume.”

 

[Mike Ock]

I could be the one to break the evil by being 667




I lusted after another man's wife and I didn't even know it.

Nothing more, nothing less.

 

[SheWantTheD]

You really came here to post an interaction you had with a woman that didn’t even involve sex let alone a date

She wants the D. This has happened to me more times than I can count.. a woman choosing hard and she got a whole family. I bet you she posts her family all over her social media talking about how much they mean the world to her but she been creepin’ the whole time.

Her husband might wanna watch while you smash his wife. Had a married Indian woman at my job straight from india choosing on ya boy for months until we got sent home due to covid. She had a whole husband and he worked in the same company but in a different department.

If they find you irresistibly attractive they don’t care.

Recently had a female coworker who said I’m like a brother to her stay showing up to work with her makeup and hair done staring deep into my eyes like you can have this p*ssy whenever you want, just don’t tell my bf.

 

[badboys11]

Arguing? Relax.

U telling me to relax I'm a random and u tried to argue with me




Who needs to relax

 

[SheWantTheD]

Looked again, her fb page, she has 666 friends. .


I could be the one to break the evil by being 667




I lusted after another man's wife and I didn't even know it.

How old are you? Whenever you do.. DO NOT add her social media.

That’s side nikka 101. You don’t exist nikka!

I mentioned in a recent thread that I will engage tf out of a dude and not like him and someone threw he-man hissy fit. Look, it's not our fault yall think with your dikks. It's not our fault if we treat you like a human being with common courtesy. I mean for FUCC sake, she was being super friendly to someone who saved her after hours of being stuck. Why is this not common sense!? Yeah yeah something something testosterone. Ok so why is it not just recognize YOU a freaky ass nikka.....why does she become the bad guy!?

So if you were in her situation you wouldn’t mention your husband or kids at all?

I have female acquaintances I wouldn’t touch with a ten foot pole and they bring up their bf’s (like I was tryna hit anyway ) to let it be known they taken when a nikka just being friendly.

Plus, if you’re an attractive man, if you so much as say hi to a woman the entire world assumes there’s something there

 

[Mowgli]

U telling me to relax I'm a random and u tried to argue with me




Who needs to relax

You took that as arguing?

You seem like you want to argue.