Child Support rant :wow:

[MrFantastic]

If a man is unable to support the child and woman he impregnanted, should he be trusted to have sex? How does that benefit a woman to have sex with bums? Vibrators are less hassle.

Most men don't want to raise young children so I'm not sure what your point is. Should kids be taken away and sent to live with rich strangers if a woman doesn't make a lot of money? No, that is absurd. Should kids be sent to be raised by a nanny while dad is at work all day just because the mom doesn't make a lot? No. If that is not what you were asking, then ask again.

Moms and dads are a team. Period. I believe that men and women have different roles in life. If you don't believe that, there are plenty of women who will compete with you, prove they don't need you, and all that other stuff. Good for them.

That's not the example that was set for me and that is not how I live. I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself and my children financially if need be, but that's not my job right now. I am glad I don't have a bum ass husband or a bum ass father so my money will sit until my family needs it. And my husband will continue to provide for our daily financial needs with me as his number one supporter.

I respect your stance.

But you really didn't answer the question.

You seem to think that every man is a bum or doesn't want to montarily take care of kids, which is very untrue. Most men love their kids. They have no problem paying child support or help raising kids.

Men don't want to pay household support.

 

[5n0man]

Sounds like he and his baby mama are co-parenting like adults yet he still wants identity with that lunatic in the OP video.

i lived with my baby mother for 5 years taking care of mine, then that bytch cheated on me.


not only that but she went and got pregnant by another nikka that dipped out before the baby was born.


then she tried to beg for be back even tho she had another guys child, i naturally said no, took my L and bounced.


now i pay for virtually everything my son needs, but she still needed some extra cash to help with the new child and since ol boy bounced and she knew nothing about him, therefore cant locate him, her first instinct was to put me on child support so she could have some extra income.

and i live in california so im screwed basically

point being, not all these women are innocent and dude has a very valid reason to feel like anything can happen.

 

[marcuz]

take these chicks to the doctor to get on some damn birth control. dont buy their lies about weight gain and health issues, get that bytch on birth control.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

The guy in this video, and the guys complaining need to make better choices about who they have unprotected sex with.

 

[Queen]

I respect your stance.

But you really didn't answer the question.

You seem to think that every man is a bum or doesn't want to montarily take care of kids, which is very untrue. Most men love their kids. They have no problem paying child support or help raising kids.

Men don't want to pay household support.

Then don't have sex. As a man your job is to provide. If that's a problem then to me you are a bum. I don't care how much you make.

If you are dealing with a woman and benefiting from all that comes from that, then there is responsibility attached to that. If you impregnate her, there comes double the responsibility. You don't suck a woman dry and then think you can wash your hands when you get bored or angry. You don't create life with a woman, and think your only obligation is to the child and not to the woman.

Mothers and children are a package deal. Mothers and fathers are a team.

But like I said, there are plenty of women who are cool with that type of arrangement. That is not the example that was set for me, so the whole notion of complaining about making sure the woman you impregnated is okay sounds ridiculous.

That's why women shouldn't have sex before marriage. But if they want to deal with the hassle of wasting time with bums then good luck.

Thank you for being decent and respectful in your comments.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

my boss pays 18k a month per ex wife for child support
and they are some of the worst women ever, shyt they both sued him

Vacation

Cruise ship

Push the bytch overboard

Profit

 

[SouthernBelle]

i lived with my baby mother for 5 years taking care of mine, then that bytch cheated on me.


not only that but she went and got pregnant by another nikka that dipped out before the baby was born.


then she tried to beg for be back even tho she had another guys child, i naturally said no, took my L and bounced.


now i pay for virtually everything my son needs, but she still needed some extra cash to help with the new child and since ol boy bounced and she knew nothing about him, therefore cant locate him, her first instinct was to put me on child support so she could have some extra income.

and i live in california so im screwed basically

point being, not all these women are innocent and dude has a very valid reason to feel like anything can happen.

I absolutely do not believe that all baby mamas are good just by the virtue of the fact that they are women. For a while my brother had custody of his children because the mother didn't have her stuff together. I really wish that he had kept them.

I also stated earlier in the thread that if a man isn't married to the mother, he should put himself on child support (even if things are good) because you could easily get screwed for back support if things go left.

However, with that being said, not all women are bad. He seems to have a situation that works. It's pointless to try to fit in with a bunch a bitter men when your situation is cool and your woman hasn't proven herself scandalous.

 

[Elle Driver]

How you gonna rant about child support stfu and wrap it the fukk up.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

take these chicks to the doctor to get on some damn birth control. dont buy their lies about weight gain and health issues, get that bytch on birth control.

Or the guy could wear a condom and if the woman objects then don't stick your dikk in her

 

[marcuz]

Or the guy could wear a condom and if the woman objects then don't stick your dikk in her

the fukked up part is women dont even like condoms. women get offended by condoms. women start lying and claiming they're allergic to latex. then when y'all get pregnant, suddenly its "oops, shoulda wore a condom, nikka "

so i prefer my route. get the bytch on birth control and you can bust as many raw nuts as you'd like with no issues.

 

[thirdeye]

Or the guy could wear a condom and if the woman objects then don't stick your dikk in her

they want the p*ssy without the accountability smh

 

[marcuz]

How you gonna rant about child support stfu and wrap it the fukk up.

i think the complaint is that he's in his children's life and he takes care of his kids.

 

[marcuz]

they want the p*ssy without the accountability smh

exactly, you think we fukking yall because we want kids? hell nah, y'all the only wants trying to start families.

 

[Elle Driver]

i think the complaint is that he's in his children's life and he takes care of his kids.

Then file for full custody.

 

[SouthernBelle]

If you think all it takes is "lifting a finger" you are either ignorant to what you are saying,or a pure bytch to pretend fathers dont "lift a finger".

Trust me,Ive done my research in case my situation falls through...and its definitly factors outside of simply trying that come into play....most importantly the state you live in very few states will a court lean toward 50/50 custody automatically....Its not looking good for the daddy if yall wasnt married....also most states aint granting 50/50 custody unless both sides agree to it,if not courts will decide....if you get 50/50 you might still be paying child support....you as the father need to move close as shyt to the mother to even give yourself a chance typically...not to mention money for a lawyer.

But the most important thing is the fact its not often granted in most states unless both parents decide on they own to do it....being that the court leans towards the woman why the hell would most women agree to give up power and share 50/50,and just the extra time with they kids no evil intentions involved?

whether its hate for the man or love of they children why the hell would they give up time knowing courts lean they way almost all the time unless shes a horrible woman?

But yeah,these are just a few hurdles and "fingers" women dont have to lift....but no you dont have sympathy for women?matter of fact maybe you dont because whats there to sympathize with

its natural to not give a damn about a male struggle ladies,but lets not be phony now....at best naive if i give you benefit of the doubt you give women as fair creatures who only have the childs best interest at heart and nothing more

To women who truly do.

Where oh where do did I even imply that lifting a finger is all it takes? I didn't. I stated that to say don't complain if you aren't even trying to get custody. Like I just told someone else, my brother actually had custody of his kids so I know a little bit more about this than google searches and bitter men making up hypothetical situations that they've never experienced.

In regard to your comment on why I don't have sympathy for mothers because there is nothing to sympathize with. Actually, being a single mother is something that could be sympathized with because it's a difficult situation, but I have no sympathy because it's a situation she chose.

Finally, being a baby daddy to a "hoe" is not inherently a male struggle. It's an irresponsible person's struggle given the fact the child is here because you willingly nutted in that "hoe"