The point is it SHOULD matter to these judges and prosecutors that a teenager can't rationalize legal penalties for his consequences. Prisons are a billions upon billions dollar industry, I understand too well why it doesn't matter...
But it should...
My experiences shaped me the same way yours shaped you. I was a juvenile offender sentenced as an adult where I also encountered other juvenile offenders who were sentenced as adults and living amongst hardened criminals. I didn't notice it so much at the time, but upon my release (I did 3½ on the 5), as I grew older in the free world having real world experiences, I noticed how my own growth was stunted in certain areas and retrospectively the same with other guys who were in the same situation...
Roughly a year and a half after I got out, I was a 21 year old trying to go to job Corp with my 20-year old brother and was told I couldn't get in. With only burglaries and stolen car charges on my record. The uphill battle I had to fight to transcend my criminal record may not have even happened had I been sentenced as a juvenile...
This is in North Carolina, where I moved at 16, I was there for a year when I got arrested. This is North Carolina where you're an adult on any felony at 16+ unless specifically given juvenile status, but this is the same North Carolina where I met guys who were sentenced as adults from 15 and 14, abd the 13-year old guy I knew. So even prior to 16 you're liable to be sentenced as an adult although there are juvie camps...
Seeing all these guys as well as using myself as a first person experience brought me the
System definitely ain't built to rehabilitate!
It's all a slippery slope but I do agree from years perspective that if I'm not old enough to consent to sex with a 21-year old, then I shouldn't be seen as old enough to understand the crimes I committed...