Do low budget dates imply low effort and lack of caring?

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I've always looked at it like this. If a woman likes YOU for YOU, then she'll wanna spend time with you, no matter where it is or what you guys are doing. She'll just wanna be around you and in your presence.

If she's overly concerned with WHERE you're taking her, then she's not there for you. She's there for the perks and wants you to spend money on her that she isn't willing to spend on herself. Just purely ungrateful and entitled. And she'll be a headache and a nuisance down the line, sooner than later. Trust me. This is 10/10. There are no exceptions. I don't care what their justification is for their shytty, entitled, diva behavior. Because trust me. They'll try to manipulate you and then make you the bad guy when you won't fall for or go along with their bullshyt and attempts to milk you. Bush her immediately and move on to and invest in someone who'll appreciate your efforts and time.

Trust me. I'm a man who's done ok for himself. I got Ruth Chris money. We can do that everyday if I know you got my back and I know you like me for me. But I need to know that you're willing to go to McDonald's or Starbucks with me first. I refuse to join some bytches rotation of nikkas orbiting them that they use for free meals, gifts, cash app payments and attention. You nikkas do it if you want to. It will NEVER be me. Thank God for strong Male role models and common sense :whew:



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My big home who put me on game used to take girls to the park and just chill. Told me if you wanna find out quickly what sort of girl she is and if she really likes you don't spend any money at all on the first couple dates. Take her to the park, a chill spot somewhere nice and just talk.

Spending money doesn't show effort or that you care more, spending money is easy and a shortcut into getting into a girls draws.
 

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I'll say it again...there's nothing worse than taking a chic out and spending your money to get her full and then drop her off at home knowing she texting the next nikka to come through to fukk and he not spending a dime...Don't do it brehs

I went through it so you won't have to :snoop:


Man what!!!

I was taking this chick out to eat and bringing her lunch to her job and come to find out she fukking another nikka

I find out because of Facebook dude posted her on his facebook as his #WCW and when i confronted her about it she said they been fukking about a month


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This tweet has been gaining a lot of traction, what y’all think? :yeshrug:



I understand her point of view, but she's wrong.

On date #1, a simple walk in the park plus grabbing coffee is a good way to figure out if you have any chemistry. What's the point in spending $300+ if she's just gonna be like "you're nice but I think we should be friends" AFTER you spent the cheese.

Date 1 = cheap for the most part. Maybe do bowling or mini golf to make it fun but don't splurge on dinner/movie/show etc. Focus should be on talking. Starbucks ish place is best.

Date 2 = if the chemistry and vibe are good, take her out to dinner and catch a movie (or find an Alamo Drafthouse and do both).

Date 3 = if you've spent enough time talking in between dates, this should be Netflix and Chill. Offer to cook or order dinner....this could go down at her place. Key is to spend time together. She should at least "want" to fukk even if she decides to hold back.

If you haven't been in her house (or she in your house) by the end of Date #3 or #4, she's probably juggling men or has a fukk buddy that's keeping her well taken care of. That means she could be willing to hold out for quite a while...
 
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