Do You Feel Former Thots/Ho's Deserve Happiness?

[Maxine Shaw]

words don't mean anything? LOL I'm done here.

Wonderful. Dismissed. *clicks ignore*

 

[SheWantTheD]

Most people are on their best behavior when they first start dating, male and female. I don't think it's avoidable or even a conscious thing, you just put your best foot forward. My group of friends pretty much came to the conclusion that you don't really know someone until a year or something tragic or destructive happens

I understand, but you don't become a hoe dating someone and finding out they just wanted sex or who they presented themselves as wasn't reality.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Wonderful. Dismissed. *clicks ignore*

I hope you get the healing and help you need. You are clearly hurt, bitter, and jaded due to past experiences.

Telling me that I am "Dismissed" tells a lot.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I'm talking about anyone who thinks about things like this. general thought on the subject

Actually I skimmed, first few pages of No they don't, can't trust them, people change, redemption, bitterness etc...Then the last about women not being as smart as they think that are and all the guys in the 2nd half of the thread being super detectives. Projecting your emotions of bitterness and being jaded won't make it true. That's why you jumped on this post not me I'm not bitter" the thread is multiple pages long I could have been talking about anyone.

Show me the posts that showed bitterness. Most dudes were on the lines of "Sure, but not from me" when referring to marrying women with sexually promiscuous pasts. The other posts were saying how people have to earn their happiness and that it isn't just deserved. The vast majority of posts were one of these two.

And the only reason I replied like that is because many people assumed things were stated without reading the thread.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Not a word. You can use the words "sexual promiscuity" all you want to, but that doesn't make me sexually promiscuous. Words mean shyt.

You seem to take a great deal of interest in my pre-teen sex life, though. That doesn't surprise me at all. I'd bet you'd like to know more, wouldn't you? You want to know all about the ripping, the bleeding, the choking...am I turning you on yet? I bet I am. All that nasty, filthy defiling of a young virgin...I bet your dikk is hard as steel. And ooh, how I've been punished by the gods with my nastiness...one whole dikk every two years! STONE ME, BREHS!

 

[keke]

You are overreacting. There are plenty of men who don't mind waiting for sex and would rather wait then have sex with a woman they barely know nor care about. For those that throw you in the bushes for not having sex soon enough, then so be it. It's clear they only wanted one thing or they don't have the discipline to go without it.

How am I over reacting?? You know that man is not the only man that thinks like that.

 

[Raava]

Show me the posts that showed bitterness. Most dudes were on the lines of "Sure, but not from me" when referring to marrying women with sexually promiscuous pasts. The other posts were saying how people have to earn their happiness and that it isn't just deserved. The vast majority of posts were one of these two.

And the only reason I replied like that is because many people assumed things were stated without reading the thread.

This is what makes thread title sound bitter, your preference has nothing to do with what people deserve. You didn't even say they don't deserve you in your opinion you said happiness. As, if they don't fit a standard they shouldn't be happy.

And you come off as defensive.

 

[thoushallhustle]

That is not how you described the guy you're dealing with right now though. What were the qualities you saw and didn't see in them that made them non-marriage material to you? Do you date just to date or are you looking to get married?

They were too clingy/needy, didn't make enough money, too religious, not cute or tall enough, seemed wimpy, not smart enough, a$$hole tendencies, didn't have chemistry, or had small dikks. My guy now is the opposite of all that.

 

[SheWantTheD]

This is what makes thread title sound bitter, your preference has nothing to do with what people deserve. You didn't even say they don't deserve you in your opinion you said happiness. As, if they don't fit a standard they shouldn't be happy.

And you come off as defensive.

Tell me, what about the thread title screams bitterness? At the beginning of the thread I posed a question in a non-emotional, non-demeaning way. I said that I don't care, if they find happiness then good for them. Just because a man doesn't want to marry a former sexually promiscuous women doesn't mean he's bitter. What would he be bitter about? Them not wanting to have sex with him? What if they did? No one in this thread expressed how a woman didn't have sex with them, but did with a bunch of other men so they don't want anything to do with her.

If they did, now that would be bitterness.

 

[Youseenmywork]

They were too clingy/needy, didn't make enough money, too religious, not cute or tall enough, seemed wimpy, not smart enough, a$$hole tendencies, didn't have chemistry, or had small dikks. My guy now is the opposite of all that.

What I find amazing about your post is you named all those things that a guy or guys didn't have . So I asked you what do you have to have to KEEP a man ?

 

[SheWantTheD]

How am I over reacting?? You know that man is not the only man that thinks like that.

Because most dudes in this thread weren't saying those things. It ain't even the premise of the thread. If I said I don't want to marry women who have sex with men they just met quickly, and turn around and say that a woman who isn't having sex with me after the first or second date is wasting my time/bushes then yeah I'd understand. But I didn't.

 

[Mugenight]

They were too clingy/needy, didn't make enough money, too religious, not cute or tall enough, seemed wimpy, not smart enough, a$$hole tendencies, didn't have chemistry, or had small dikks. My guy now is the opposite of all that.

You sound like a keeper.

 

[keke]

Because most dudes in this thread weren't saying those things. It ain't even the premise of the thread. If I said I don't want to marry women who have sex with men they just met quickly, and turn around and say that a woman who isn't having sex with me after the first or second date is wasting my time/bushes then yeah I'd understand. But I didn't.

Umm I know that. I wasn't really replying to the general thread or what you said, just to that particular font. He was the one who mentioned the date limit initially.

 

[Raava]

Tell me, what about the thread title screams bitterness? At the beginning of the thread I posed a question in a non-emotional, non-demeaning way. I said that I don't care, if they find happiness then good for them. Just because a man doesn't want to marry a former sexually promiscuous women doesn't mean he's bitter. What would he be bitter about? Them not wanting to have sex with him? What if they did? No one in this thread expressed how a woman didn't have sex with them, but did with a bunch of other men so they don't want anything to do with her.

If they did, now that would be bitterness.

I just told you. I didn't say anything was wrong with a preference you keep trying to turn it to that.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Oh lord who knows what that definition is.

A hoe by preception is a chic who fukks any and every dikk. WRONG. A female who has sex strictly for the purpose of enjoying dikk isnt a hoe; she just likes to fukk for sport and theres NOTHING wrong with that .

A HOE by my definition is a female who uses her femininity, sexual or otherwise, to get ahead in life. I actually appreciate hoes, more females need to gravitate towards that attitude and become the women they were destined to be. Before you ask NO men cant be hoes; look threw history, kings always had multiple wives. Men want to be able to be honest and open with a women but the devious, sneaky nature to which you act force us to be honest only when its conversation for us.

As a female if you act like you stand to pee, be prpared to get pissed on.