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I had about a year and half of my early 20's when I thought dressing like that was cute. I did it for attention and because I thought i was hot shyt.
I got touched and groped at clubs and called names blah blah blah but none of the ever phased me. What made me realize that it wasnt appropriate was ine New Years me and my friend s were going out and they decided they wanted to go to church first. I was so embarrassed of my attire that i stayed in the car for the whole 45 mins. There was no way i was gonna go in there with a skirt short enough to see my cheeks and and a lil top with my boobs all out. Its pretty much when I started distancing myself from my old friends and started being the boring person i am now.
As i get older ive learned you can be sexy with out being slutty. I still have my moments where i wanna dress im some pumpum shorts and crop top lol, i just do it at home. Now a days you would probably think i was a nun the way i dress. Ill never give up my tight jeans tho, especially black ones, they are my weakness.
 

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you aren't born with jewelry attached to you
You also aren't forced to wear revealing clothing in dangerous areas.

Gotta be on the defensive sometimes so you can survive miss.
 

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I had about a year and half of my early 20's when I thought dressing like that was cute. I did it for attention and because I thought i was hot shyt.
I got touched and groped at clubs and called names blah blah blah but none of the ever phased me. What made me realize that it wasnt appropriate was ine New Years me and my friend s were going out and they decided they wanted to go to church first. I was so embarrassed of my attire that i stayed in the car for the whole 45 mins. There was no way i was gonna go in there with a skirt short enough to see my cheeks and and a lil top with my boobs all out. Its pretty much when I started distancing myself from my old friends and started being the boring person i am now.
As i get older ive learned you can be sexy with out being slutty. I still have my moments where i wanna dress im some pumpum shorts and crop top lol, i just do it at home. Now a days you would probably think i was a nun the way i dress. Ill never give up my tight jeans tho, especially black ones, they are my weakness.

Much respect for your honesty. Also yes friends can really have an affect on the way you act. I had to distance myself from some people because I couldn't stand the attention they drew in public. Yeah they were fun to hang out with, but in the long run it just wasn't worth it.
 

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don't call me miss :birdman:
ya we all know to be careful but someone comparing a humans body to an item that can be stolen really rubs me the wrong way
:lupe:

I'm not comparing their body to jewelry. I'm comparing revealing clothing to jewelry.
 

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It took me a long time to be comfortable wearing shorts because my butt is big too.
I don't consider my butt to be all that big, but I hate wearing shorts too. They always ride up.
Nikka. Stop lying on your e-dyck ain't nobody up in here won't you with yo ol fake TMZ pizzeria ass.
:dwillhuh:

Now, I'm not trying to be rude, but didn't you say you were 200lbs, and like 5'5?


Anyways, I need to know what is considered 'revealing' and 'hoe-like'.
I wear tight clothes, but that's because loose fitting clothing doesn't look right on me; it makes me look like a young girl trying to wear her older sisters clothing. I hate loose fitting clothes actually.
 
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I always had a feeling some women were uncomfortable wearing revealing shyt. But I understand when it's hot you have to make due.

Because if you have a big ass or breast you're going to get a lot if attention when you wear right or revealing clothes. Because of this I prefer to wear those types of clothes when I'm with a man preferably or with friends. I will dress revealing if I'm out with a dude whether friend or bf

Why is that?
 

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:dwillhuh: What do revealing clothes reveal?

Although a rapist will rape a woman regardless of what she is wearing, because he is more interested in harm and control wearing revealing clothes brings in the wrong type of attraction. A lot of men will approach you with the thought that you are stupid and only value your body. There are men that will approach you thinking that all you want is sex and that you are willing to put out because you are willing to expose your body. Women should dress according to their shape and size. I live in a major city and see how women who dress in revealing clothes get approached compared to women who dress in stylish less revealing clothes.
 
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