Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[Scaaar]

Some of you brehs need to watch this. That loneliness is rotting your brains out here.

 

[skyrunner1]

Man, for real I just want a kid. A biological kid. I want a partner too, but I sometimes think because I'm searching it's not coming to me. But at 41, you kinda have to be searching or it may just up and pass you by.

This a gamechanger, because some already have kids and just looking for right companionship. But I think brehs need to be told upfront also that trying to have kids later is wayyy tougher and gonna cost you more. And plus now you tryna thread the needle so to say finding the right situation. Younger breh probably got in on ground floor with less expectations and child support.

You wait til 35+, the expectations of investment is gonna be thru the roof and just based on probability you gonna also be expected to invest in kids that are not biologically yours. The expectations of what I hear even bustdowns want from older brehs is almost comical but with them being IV fed social media content, thats what you have to deal with. Good luck brehs.

 

[levitate]

PS Admirable and good do not have the same definition

Point still stands.

 

[Phitz]

We have a friend going through a divorce at 45. He has been dating the past few months and hates it.

It’s so bad he said he would take his wife back after she cheated on him with a coworker.

He said had he known how shytty the dating pool was he would have just said fukk it and not blown up.

That tells me everything about dating in 2025. I hug my husband tight every night. He isn’t perfect but I’ll be dam

Not surprised that's how bad it is, like better the devil you know.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Point still stands.

26. Unable to self correct, even when proven wrong.

 

[levitate]

24. Can't accept or comprehend differing opinions

Well let’s meet up and you can teach a breh how to love…

 

[Canon]

19. Have very poor reading comprehension and reasoning skills that are borderline simplistic

I broke up with him

20. Lack creativity and have unoriginal talking points.

21. Easily triggered with the inability to have basic conversations without turning verbally abusive

22. Lack the ability to have tough conversations

24. Can't accept or comprehend differing opinions

26. Unable to self correct, even when proven wrong.

how excited are yall to sign up for this?

 

[levitate]

We have a friend going through a divorce at 45.

IG of the wife?

 

[MajesticLion]

You're running and you're running, but you can't


run away


from


yourself

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Well let’s meet up and you can teach a breh how to love…

27. Lack sexual discipline

 

[levitate]

how excited are yall to sign up for this?

She’s cute though…

Tall, West African looking mami…

 

[Sauce Dab]

It’s still crazy these nikkas had Westbrook and Kevin Love on the same team and still couldn’t win the championship. They had the talent to do it

 

[NinoBrown]

isn't this the same conversation yall said in yall's late teens and 20s though?

"These girls ain't no good"
"They just wanna have fun"
"She playing games"
"She belongs to the streets."
"We ran a train on her in the high school bathroom."

Let's be honest, it's extremely RAREEEE for me to hear a brotha talk about marriage... but walk down the street, you'll hear all day about "I told her X. She didn't do ___"
A lot of these are cultural issues.


I know most people clown it, but @NinoBrown said it best... foreigns are just different.

Just get a foreign or nerdy/science introvert who isn't into the TikTok thottery....It is hard but possible...

The brain rot of social media has ruined all real-life expectations, dating included.

Women just want their man to be a Genie, appear out of nowhere and fix their problems, regardless of their behavior which is the crux of modern women, they are emotionally stunted creatures with the mentality of a 3 year old....

Cooked as a species...

 

[The ADD]

These last few pages…..

 

[skyrunner1]

like you said its a catch 22.

my disposition is to focus on one girl, and to be intentional / consistent. The unfortunate reality though is that most of these women don't reward that behavior. Yall will have attraction to each other, banter, fun dates etc. and they will still be holding back to the point where I feel like I am being taken advantage of and self destruct. Then the times I play it cool and just go with the flow, the woman gets mad over some bullshyt and ends up self-destructing or cutting me loose. This kinda flaky behavior makes me feel like one-itis only makes shyt worse. But like you said, juggling women can lead to conflict too because you spread yourself thin.

Another thing is the ties people had before are almost impossible to break. You can have a women who seems like in great relationship but will slide in your Dm because of past you have together. The ability for women to keep track of you due to social media and their significant other not realize it is something not really bought up with. Used to throw parties and promote back in day, have alot of ties with attractive women from all types of backgrounds. There has to be some type of studies done on this because the amount of times I have had women from back in day reference things even in person in front of their husbands is crazy to me. (Even had one husband call me next day with wife to apologize) but the amount who have finsta accounts and we have whole convos that start innocent enough and escalate to nudes and videos in such a short amount of time period make me think dam how about when Im on the other side as "new guy" this happens wayyy too often. My boys have ties to old flames, we all do. Its just never been easier to keep contact. Back in day, you might run into once and not see for years or ever. But now they can literally check up on you daily in your stories, your highlight reel and get that feeling that may be lacking in a normal day to day life scenario. You can be investing in one chick, playing it right 100% and she is vibing. Then old flame slides in DM and trigger that old feeling.