Explain the benefits of a side chick brehs

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At best, extra p*ssy & an escape from the responsibilities of a relationship.

Sometimes it supplements folks inability to find, identify, attract & keep the women they want, and then live up to the responsibility. Some folks convince themselves five twos = a dime.

Other times it supplements folk's greed, selfishness and immorality, lackin' the willingness & ability to interact with women honestly. They want multiple women but can only pull it off covertly.
 

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if you're an effective communicator and your relationship is more than sex and netflix, you should have a pretty decent idea of whether or not you want to be with a person, if you determine that you're not interested in continuing the relationship, you break up, not find a secret woman to fill in the gaps. I've never seen a failed relationship were there weren't signs that indicated that failure was near.

I'm older than most nikkas here on the coli and have never had the misfortune of turning bitter or cold because I was hurt by some woman and I've had quite a few relationships, most of them meaningful and fulfilling.
Yeah, if I've chosen to be in a relationship with one woman then I fully go in knowing what it is I have to do on my end to be a good S.O.

I dont want to risk fukking up a good relationship (that I made a conscious decision in being in) by getting some dumb ass side p*ssy. I'd stay single and fukk whomever I want if that were the case.
 

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Funny thing is....lots of women know their men got sidepieces,but they only break up when they get sloppy...And that puts pressure on the female to break up with him

New nikkas wont even know when they the "rebound"and then go:mjcry:when the female goes right back to the same nikka who she swore she hated and go right back to "dealing"with his sidepieces:francis:

nikkas who beg win in the short term
nikkas who dont care win in the long term

A strong Emotional and Sexual imprint ups your value and makes women justify and rationalize
 

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Always seemed like an unnecessary hassle.
 

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Cause main chicks are annoying...

A side chick is supposed to be the equivalent of a therapist...

she listens to you when you sad, she listens to you when your mad, she'll do anything you want her to...

The main woman is typically a demanding motherfukker that wants shyt...kids...family...money...

A side chick just wants your presence...

A side chick is like a sponge...

I always been honest though...

I literally just be like..."And that's why I go see my side chick..."

I do what I wanna do...if main woman don't like it, she can leave...she grown...I ain't gonna beg for her to stay either

I am too old and she's too old for all that lying and deception...

Keep the main chick around out of habit, routine and security...

Come hold this L.

If your main wack you wack because you chose her.

How does a woman make a man feel secure...

He must be insecure to start with.
 

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The people I know who have side pieces are married men

And the 2 of them who got caught their wife was attacking the side piece for fukking her husband and not the husband
 

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2 isn't always "greater" than 1, for example, you'd rather be shot with 1 bullet instead of 2, therefore 1 > 2.

managing 2 relationships where one of the participants must be kept in the dark is a chore with more risk than reward.


Damn man I didn't see you killing it in this thread :wow:

Rep :wow:
 
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