Father on the phone don't want to deal with his kids anymore after being put on child support

[MikelArteta]

You are Canadian what do you mean by "our"?


The single mother rate in Canada is less that 20 percent


Census in Brief: Portrait of children's family life in Canada in 2016

its a quote by malcolm x

 

[Pool_Shark]

Any nikka who says "I'd kill for my kids" is trying to get away from his kids. Why the fukk would I do something that takes me out of my child's life if I really loved them?

Best way I've heard it put,

If you say youd die for your kids then why don't you live for them

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Honestly, whats so scary about child support? People keep looking at it as a weapon, when really it’s money that you were going to be spending on your child anyway. Or SHOULD be spending anyway. Which is really what the problem is. The non-custodial parent usually wants to lowball the custodial parent. And in those cases, child support is necessary.

Anyway, the average child support payment across-the-board is $400. If you getting mad over $400, you probably need a better job.

He ain’t shyt. He sounds mad that he’s actually being held accountable to helping carry the financial cost of raising a child as he should be.

 

[Red Shield]

black folk and the infinite clout chasing...

not everything needs to put online or aired out to the world

 

[Yaboysix]

You KNEW the nikka was in Edge and would do this, this ain't the first time he told you he'd stop seeing his kids if you put gim on CS but you did it anyway...mama ain't shyt dor that...THEN you film the Baby in the phone! Hurt my heart,couldn't even watch...both parent's ain't shyt.

And if dude new better, he should know that the more you get them that shyt actually LOWERS...

Also,ive never done it, but i know Bruh just capping cause he's angry and frustrated.. He wants the MOM to hurt and suffer so he doing this,this ain't for the kids, but its wrong.

They could easily get through this without all the extra

 

[Black]

People don’t normally say that statement like they are going to commit random murders for hire

They say it like someone is harming their child or means to harm them and the parent says “I’ll kill for mine”

But you already knew that

They most certainly do though.

 

[Yaboysix]

Honestly, whats so scary about child support? People keep looking at it as a weapon, when really it’s money that you were going to be spending on your child anyway. Or SHOULD be spending anyway. Which is really what the problem is. The non-custodial parent usually wants to lowball the custodial parent. And in those cases, child support is necessary.

Anyway, the average child support payment across-the-board is $400. If you getting mad over $400, you probably need a better job.

He ain’t shyt. He sounds mad that he’s actually being held accountable to helping carry the financial cost of raising a child as he should be.

Im on child support for 3 of my kids, and when you think about it like THIS, it makes it better...just gotta be a lil more Frugal,and let them know ain't no more Toys, video games and eating out all the time like before.

 

[Pure Water]

Bruh on his...

 

[egsteel]

if she knew what the deal was...

why put him on child support?

then film the reaction that she knew was going to happen?

Exactly. Momma aint shyt, but dad knew that when he started fukkin with her. I can't blame him for what he said because we all speak out of frustration sometimes. But momma filming it is calculated and super shytty. Another example of how men are pushed out of their children's lives.

 

[Sad Bunny]

He a broke ass clown.

 

[get these nets]

Exactly. Momma aint shyt, but dad knew that when he started fukkin with her. I can't blame him for what he said because we all speak out of frustration sometimes. But momma filming it is calculated and super shytty. Another example of how men are pushed out of their children's lives.

How do you justify him speaking like that to his son?

 

[HabitualChiller]

Honestly, I see why he'd do some shyt like that, but I'm a hot-headed kat that doesn't give a shyt about most things.

He's still deadass wrong though...

 

[The God Poster]

This shyt old af….I remember the thread

This is a prime example of social media pages purposefully trying to push a gender war between black men & women

That caption let’s you know they posted for a divisive reason & not to educate

Disgusting

 

[Ohene]

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[AllHolosEve]

Hhh

Honestly, whats so scary about child support? People keep looking at it as a weapon, when really it’s money that you were going to be spending on your child anyway. Or SHOULD be spending anyway. Which is really what the problem is. The non-custodial parent usually wants to lowball the custodial parent. And in those cases, child support is necessary.

-It's looked at as a weapon because it's often used as a weapon. My BM took me to court over payments because she wanted me to give her cash instead of buying what the kids needed myself. Women want this money to do what they want with it & it often doesn't go to the kids.

And if dude new better, he should know that the more you get them that shyt actually LOWERS...

-No it doesn't. It only lowers if you go to court & they approve an adjustment.

It isn't understandable. If he was doing his job, the decision made by the court wouldn't make a difference as it would just formalise what he was already doing.
He got put "on the hook" because he was doing less than what is required of him.
He is a straight up bum who is trying to use the emotional trauma, caused by abandoning his kid, as leverage to get out of paying what is required.
No excuses.

-You don't know if he was a bum before this or why he got put on the hook. fukk formalizing things, it can directly interfere with your ability to spend time with your kids.