Fellas would you date a Feminist?

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I dated a few and the woman I'm seeing is an alpha female. Shes not a feminist but she can be dominating at times.

My mom is also a feminist.....well as feminist as you can get from being raised in Latin America during the 70s.

Real feminists and alpha females aren't parading their beliefs through social media or the internet. The real ones are usually the ones that don't advertise what they are.
 
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Would you be able to date a feminist guys?
I have and would again.

Just like Pro black ≠ anti-White, Pro Feminist ≠ anti-male

And by the way everything has a spectrum, breh. Almost every woman has a level of feminism in them. But you have the "i wanna be able to drive a car and get same pay for the same job" as a man feminist. You also have the "burn all my bras as a liberation" feminists.
 

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its not mens fault that women dont choose to save money and buy property. its easier for a woman to get a job. i see women working every day. yous dont do shyt with that money. it all goes on clothes and makeup. women today have more opportunities than men and you choose to do nothing with it. i dont see modern day feminism teaching women how to be smart with money, how to invest etc. its all clown shyt about so called empowering yourself and mens bashing.

3rd wave feminism is not actually feminism. real feminism ended decades ago.

"It's not whitey's fault that blacks remain in poverty. It's easier for a black person to get a job than a white person nowadays. I see blacks everywhere and you all go about spending money on weed and jordans."

With that being said, I don't think you actually care about what's true or what isn't. You're too worried about being right instead of being righteous. I've seen this movie before. Peace out, man.
 

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You're advocating for a movement that has historically shytted on black women every chance they get. Feminism isn't for black women, it never has been and never will be.

So because white women in general are not inclusive of black women in "their" feminism I should disregard and ignore the principles I agree with? What do white women have to do with the particular issues of black women and why should I expect them to cape for us?
 

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Id date an actual black feminist, but not the misandrists.
 

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So because white women in general are not inclusive of black women in "their" feminism I should disregard and ignore the principles I agree with? What do white women have to do with the particular issues of black women and why should I expect them to cape for us?

Define the principles you agree with...once you have, I'll have enough to engage you.
 

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Define the principles you agree with...once you have, I'll have enough to engage you.

Feminism is divided in radical and liberal feminism. What each one of them believes sometimes varies, but there are certain traits that are easy to pick up. There are radical feminists that believe women can't be happy as housewives, for example. There are even some to consider penetration as a form of submission/oppression. Liberal feminism acknowledges that each women is an individual and that we should not restrict ourselves to customary gender roles if it's not in our best interest. Whether we are nuns, whores, business women or housewives, we should be making our personal choices by being reminded of our autonomy.

I'm not a great liberal feminist because I'm a little judgmental of submission kinks, as I think they open doors for bigger problems (such as the objectification said women, etc.) but I'm not against it either, so to speak.

So in summary, I agree with such principles:

- There is male privilege, since males occupy most positions power.
- Gender roles should not be promoted because:
- Every woman is an individual. And if they're simple/non-ambitious it's probably because they were raised in environments that conditioned them to be confined in their own gender. Much like some blacks are ghetto because... Well, they live in ghettos.
 

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So because white women in general are not inclusive of black women in "their" feminism I should disregard and ignore the principles I agree with? What do white women have to do with the particular issues of black women and why should I expect them to cape for us?

Because feminists use black women to fulfill their agenda then throw you to the garbage once they're done with you. Feminism is a movement for white women, by white women. The only reason they wanted black women to join was to use your numbers.

Despite this strong support for woman’s suffrage, black women sometimes faced discrimination within the suffrage movement itself. From the end of the Civil War onwards, some white suffragists argued that enfranchising women would serve to cancel out the “Negro” vote, as there would be more white women voters than black men and women voters combined. Although some black clubwomen participated actively in the National American Woman Suffrage Association (NAWSA), the NAWSA did not always welcome them with open arms. In the 20th century, the NAWSA leadership sometimes discouraged black women’s clubs from attempting to affiliate with the NAWSA. Some Southern members of NAWSA argued for the enfranchisement of white women only. In addition, in the suffrage parade of 1913 organized by Alice Paul’s Congressional Union, black women were asked to march in a segregated unit. Ida B. Wells refused to do so, and slipped into her state’s delegation after the start of the parade.

When the 19th Amendment was passed in 1920, it legally enfranchised all women, white and black. However, within a decade, state laws and vigilante practices effectively disenfranchised most black women in the South. It would take another major movement for voting rights – the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960s – before black women in the South would be effectively enfranchised.

There's volumes of evidence proving the feminist movement has gone out of its way to disenfranchise black women. And instead of black women coming together and creating something of your own created for black women by black women, you'd rather adapt the ideology of the women who have worked to ensure the destruction of your people.
 

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My gf is a self proclaimed intersectional feminist, but I swear all that feminist shyt goes out the window once a woman actually gets the man she wants and he won't put up with it.

It's actually fun to me for her to bring up a feminist/leftwing talking point and I pick it apart. The :ohhh::francis::dwillhuh: faces she makes are funny

The Feminism is an attractive ideology to bitter hurt women though.
 
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