I think you're on to something.
Woman's mind = I gave up the "p" to Tyrone because he was just some dude and it didn't mean anything. I'm making you wait because I want this to work long-term.
What she's really saying is that she wanted Tyrone to be her long-term boo, but he had too many character flaws. He was physically her ideal but was lacking in other areas. She's willing to wait for sex with you because you're NOT her physical ideal. She's had better so she can wait you out and use sex as leverage for resources. A woman doesn't consciously think this way but you'll never see a woman make a (what she considers) "hot" breh wait. She'll fukk him and then regret it later before fukking him again. Women only have self-discipline with average-looking, average income men.
Men's mind = so I have to go out on multiple dates, commit to you and all this shyt but you let these other nikkas hit ASAP?
You got it breh, remember this is in addition to men who CAN'T get women, being removed from the pool. Men who can but aren't first choice are becoming increasingly reluctant to commit to women, because they know they're second choice/a placeholder.
Simultaneously there are incel dudes with no social skills, and simps being pumped out by subpar parents and single mothers who can't get buns. This leaves only well adjusted, well earning, and or good looking men getting all the p*ssy (EASILY/without effort). As we know a large chunk of these men aren't interested in committing to the bulk share of these women as they are in attraction scale fukking down, they won't double down on the fukk that's below rank and commit. Leads to a feedback loop of women only being able to fukk the men they desire, and being mad at all men for not being the men the desire, and the men they desire seeing them as sex objects at best.
Male feminists and simps on here are already cueing up the "woman-hater" ad hominems, but the dating scene os largely controlled by women, in addition to being skewed in favor of women. Dating is a precursor to marriage. So if less and less people are getting married, at the root of the isssue it ITS WOMENS FAULT. They can raise/change standards, but if men don't see them as worth the hassle, there'll just be less men to pair of with in the pool, hence why women are pushing polyamory.
As funny as it sounds women when given genuine power are just as, and if we're being honest more uncompromising than men.
I tell dudes you might as well only ATTEMPT fukk what you
genuinely want, and if you can't fukk what you want, level up till you can, or beat your meat, but placating women you don't truly desire is a waste of everyone's time and only makes the aggregate situation worse.
Frankly a whole lot of people who are average will be alone in the next few decades on both sides. The difference is men are conditioned to be alone/not held down through their formative years (20s), while women have someone (family, fwb, bf, simps) to lean on up until the 30s, when it withers down to family again.