Found my bio "father's" Facebook (rant)

[Mazino]

Reach out to your sis breh speaking as a big bro myself it's so important to be there for your younger siblings

As for your father nothing can quite replace a good father figure but I wish you the best in surpassing him and being a better man

 

[spaceships]

You obviously didn't move on. You went back there and stole from them. If they called you a crack baby, which is fukked up, what do you think you're giving them when you prove yourself to be a low level thief?

I stole from her two years ago. I don't have to prove shyt to them. Home girl could be dead right now for all I know. I have no contact with any members of y family. Unless my father dies and left me some cash, then I honestly don't want to see them.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

want me to adopt you brah

 

[ORDER_66]

My daddy been dead if he was still alive I would ask him many things... Ha OP reached out yet?!

 

[Umoja]

I stole from her two years ago. I don't have to prove shyt to them. Home girl could be dead right now for all I know. I have no contact with any members of y family. Unless my father dies and left me some cash, then I honestly don't want to see them.

You can keep telling yourself that you don't care about what they think of you but it will never stop your actions being a reflection of who you are, an unprincipled thief.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Cut your losses. You're your own person. Live your life and keep it moving. You don't owe anybody anything. If they love you they'll support you.

My entire family could die right now and I wouldn't blink. fukk everyone of them. I have no love for anyone who had no love for me.

I ain't bitter I'm just being real. fukk I look like longing to have a relationship with someone who put me in the trash, abandoned me, and expect me to be grateful for surviving 25 years of abuse.

Naw, I'll pass on family and continue to be a self sustaining island.

 

[Mars Blackmon]

fukk your dad
Reach out to your siblings and make an effort as the big brother

Send it to him
He deserves to feel that burn a lil bit

Also reach out to lil sis, shell prob luv to kno she got a big bro of her own

Best of luck family

Reach out to your sister and have evidence on hand.

Sending good thoughts and prayers for you op.im glad you got it off your chest.

Reach out to your sister and your paternal side of your family if you'd like.

I wouldn't say shyt to your bio dad and I'm speaking from experience. He's nothing but a random man to you.

I am sure you will be an amazing dad.

fukk that dude, but get in contact with your siblings, thats your real family

I don't agree with reaching out to your sister if you have built up resentment towards your father. I've seen this first hand, it will be incredibly awkward and your sister that's had him in her entire life will vehemently defend him if it comes down to it. Think about it, you have a deep seeded hatred for that girl's father. Also, if and when you have a sit down with your bio father you may find out that your mother had a bigger part in this situation than she's led on. That in itself can open up a bigger can of worms.

Great post. Some parents, worried their child, who is now their sole companion on this new crazy world, will judge or blame them, will make up stories and narratives and feed them to the child. It doesn't excuse abandonement but ready yourself.

The can of worms could only have a few stragglers in it or it could spill over because it's full as soon as you open it. Be prepared.

Exactly, well said.

 

[Guile]

Black people really need to think before having kids.

 

[Black Cher]

I'm not interested in back child support. Interestedly enough, when I was 19, he reached out to my aunt to give me his phone number. I never called him but use his phone number to find his Facebook page. This is tripping me out because this whole time he could've have easily reached out to me but I think he waited until I was 19 so he didn't have to pay child support.

To answer your question, My mom said he just dipped out when I was a few months old. Guess he wasn't ready for the responsibility then.

Don't sleep on this. Some states while pay you the back child support and then pursue the money from your father to repay them.

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

This is why deadbeat parents will always be worse than the single parents doing all the work. Idgaf what the coli says. Father could have least put the kids in contact. When parents die, siblings are everything you ever need in life. It is imperative that parents raise siblings to be close and to have each other's back from day 1. My siblings and I will turn on our parents before we'd turn on each other and our parents wouldnt have it any other way.

 

[spaceships]

You can keep telling yourself that you don't care about what they think of you but it will never stop your actions being a reflection of who you are, an unprincipled thief.

I don't really don't care about them. I only care about the opinions of people I respect. fukk a olive branch, I wasn't about celebrate a simp and a hoe getting married when I needed books and a laptop for college. I hit a lick and moved on.

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

at the females dapping up my post bashing a black man but no where to be found when I go in on wenches

 

[Umoja]

I don't really don't care about them. I only care about the opinions of people I respect. fukk a olive branch, I wasn't about celebrate a simp and a hoe getting married when I needed books and a laptop for college. I hit a lick and moved on.

Is that the only thing you can rely on? "I don't care on!"

Right is and wrong is not decided based on what you feel about a person. If someone snatched your purse at night, you're not going to turn around and think that they are a good person because you were just some next bytch to them.

You could have kept your dignity and declined the offer. Instead you used the olive branch extended to you as a means of stealing from them. If you valued yourself, you would feel ashamed.

 

[Arianne Martell]

Is that the only thing you can rely on? "I don't care on!"

Right is and wrong is not decided based on what you feel about a person. If someone snatched your purse at night, you're not going to turn around and think that they are a good person because you were just some next bytch to them.

You could have kept your dignity and declined the offer. Instead you used the olive branch extended to you as a means of stealing from them. If you valued yourself, you would feel ashamed.

STFU! You are not in her shoes

Ol' high and mighty in the ass

 

[Umoja]

STFU! You are not in her shoes

Ol' high and mighty in the ass

She's not going to suck your dikk bruh.