Get married brehs...seriously

[Henri Christophe]

"She gets sexier"
Until she stops caring 1 year into the relationship and gets fat and disgusting

Hahahahhahahah

Awwwwwwww man.

All my OGs got this problem.

Even my mama got flabby on my pops.


Meanwhile all the men still looking young & still in shape but their wives are fat


My girl thick as hell, I already know she gonna get fat after a couple years

 

[MaxPain]

quoted for emphasis! As a man love/sex shouldn't have shyt to do with the reason you're marrying this woman. How does this broad enhance your life or get you closer to your mission or goals? If she can't do that then leave her ass where she at or just keep it as a fukk buddy situation. If you legit out here with a dream of building a successful business, she better be able to show you how she can help in that dream. If you know you tryna have kids, how would she fare as a mother

Im just sayng...

Im #GMB for me PERSONALLY , BUT If someone else wants to get married then hey have at it...

But if ur gonna do it, do it cuz u WANT to not cuz u feel u NEED to...

Dude sounds like he just wants to be emotionally codependent on a female. Which is an L in the making as woman want the man to be the rock.

Then he’s talking about going back to his ex even tho he has a girl now. So u already see he’s emotionally sporadic and impulsive.

If he gets married thats just an L waiting to happen...

Im js if u get married do it with logic not pure emotion...thats why so many dudes taking Ls and GMB almost never loses these days...

 

[Bolzmark]

Decent in what way? There are plenty of sexy fine ass women that are 30 but are they worth anything outside of that? They're there, but few and far between. There's no other reason she'd not married by that age if she was fukking wonderful.

I’m sorry but this is crap. Especially when you are talking about professional women. And believe it or not, many women are not always that anxious to lock themselves down to one guy for life at an early age, start having kids, potentially wreck their bodies, and all the other sh!t that comes with being married.

 

[GnauzBookOfRhymes]

True

So if a woman did get married before 30 she was definitely marriage material?

 

[MaxPain]

Hahahahhahahah

Awwwwwwww man.

All my OGs got this problem.

Even my mama got flabby on my pops.


Meanwhile all the men still looking young & still in shape but their wives are fat


My girl thick as hell, I already know she gonna get fat after a couple years

Get them petite joints with bubble butts...they just get thick as they get older...& just have thickums on the side...

Them one funnel cake away hoes dont make it past 23 without getting King Sized...

 

[Benefited]

13 pages & still no convincing arguments or benefits

I sit in meetings everyday and pitch/sell products and advertisement

& All I see in this thread is a bunch of emotional manipulation tactics and empty statements. I know the game.

"She hold you down"

"When its real, you just know"

nikkas out here sounding like my aunties... And most of yall older than me.

Yall too grown to be sounding like my sisters & aunties.

No one can give me any actual real benefits that I'm not already getting in my current relationship. Yall basically encourage marriage because its "normal" like working a 9-5

Yall just encourage it for no reason LOL

Yall arent very good salesmen..... Keep your day jobs. Seriously.

Do you waste your time selling your products to bums in the street who can't afford them?
We've already refused to sell you because you are still bankrupt of empathy and a conscience.
Once you are no longer bankrupt in that department nobody will need to sell you,it will sell itself

 

[Henri Christophe]

Do you waste your time selling your products to bums in the street who can't afford them
We've already refused to sell you because you are still bankrupt of empathy and a conscience.
Once you are no longer bankrupt in that department nobody will need to sell you,it will sell itself

Yup.

Sounding like my 50 year old auntie again

"Have a heart... Have some feelings... Have some empathy"

Breh..... That's the game you supposed to run on bytches..... That emotional game.

Dont run that game on me. Have some respect.

I'm not even against the concept of marriage.... I'm already getting the same benefits as married men.

But what will change after?

Let me educate you....

When youre trying to sell something to someone you have to highlight the benefits that they're not already receiving so they can feel inclined to take the next step

You're basically trying to sell me a product that I already received for free and you're trying to get me to pay for it without any added benefits

In fact, I'm losing benefits... So I'm basically going backwards.

I look at all scenarios in life from a standpoint of logic and zero emotion

Emotion is for the bytch.

Yall supposed to be OGs and I feel like I got more game than all y'all nikkas.

If me & my girl last forever.... Its a win.

If we dont.... I can leave with no headache.

Still a win.

Marriage is not needed.

 

[CrushedGroove]

All jokes aside OP ur probably the last person that should be getting married. U seem really into ur feelings like something tragic just happened. Did u just get finished watchin a Romantic Comedy? LOL

I aint hear not once about getting a woman with a stable career that u can build an empire with or a list of tangible qualities. I see u the type to get married for love. They take the most L’s tryna be Hitch. And if u cant be happy by urself depending on a woman to make a woman u happy is a surefire way to get disrespected and dogged out by a woman.

Everything u have said is all emotion, no logic. Some womem seem to get it right by marrying good providers but dudes marry bum bytches all the time “cuz they love her”.

Just say u wanna get married cuz u cant pull anymore and u hate being alone. Which is not the same as getting married cuz u want to on ur clock, and I suspect why so many people have miserable marriages.

I was one that got married off of love, but I was really young. Good thing she's a real one though, cuz we were on our own and looked at the world with clear eyes and ensured we approached our relationship with love, respect, and with a determination to hold one another accountable when it comes to finances, personal, and career growth.

It's ok to get with her for the looks and sex, but if that's all the other person has to offer then you need to know they ain't the one.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Once again can someone tell me why and when did successful relationships necessitate Marriage? Am I missing something? Are you getting married because it guarantees the woman will commit long-term? Are married couples getting taxed less? Does the affection of a married woman triple? I've heard men & women state they have no intention for children. Yet, when you question marriage, everyone gets tight. WTF is Marriage going to do to boost me as a person? As it stands I can give you 10 reasons why it's negative and not one positive.

I think the answer to your question has 3 sides:
1. Societal pressure and expectations
Many people feel a pressure to get married. To check that off the list of 'things adult people have to do' besides: get a job you hate, buy a house that puts you in you debt for life, have some kids you don't really want yet and buy a horrific family-friendly car no man wants be caught dead in. Basically this comes down to keeping up with the Joneses even though the joneses hate each other and their lives.

2. Family and friend perception
'Where is this relationship going? Karin's pregnant with her SECOND child and they've been married for 2 years. For 2 years!! We're not even engaged' said many, many, many, many, many women. Also 'When are you going to give me some grandchildren huh? Stop partying. You'll never find a good man like this!'. If you're unlucky - which you statistically speaking are - you won't have understanding parents who want you to be you. I got lucky af, my mom asked me when I would give her some grandchildren and I told her I'm really interested in saving up for a Porsche and she was totally cool with that. I'm lucky, most people are not.

3. Financial
There are - depending on your state and your country if you're not living in the US - significant advantages to being married, also it affects your children in case on of the parents dies. So yes - people do get married for tax benefits and legal advantages.

When you want to get married, there's only 1 good reason really: it's one of the ways, one of the traditionally speaking more powerful ways, to signal to everybody, your partner, your loved ones and society as a whole that you are fully committed and that you want to find the highest level of commitment to your relationship you can which is in the western world marriage. This is basically marrying for love and for being in love. Is this the wisest thing to do? Can this backfire? Sure. But if you're going to pick from this reason and the 3 above, I'd say this is the one that makes sense - while the other ones (1 and 2) make zero sense and 3 yes I guess it makes some sense but going through an entire wedding.. to get a tax cut. It sounds nuts.

Hope this answers your question, this is what it is imho at least

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Yup.

Sounding like my 50 year old auntie again

"Have a heart... Have some feelings... Have some empathy"

Breh..... That's the game you supposed to run on bytches..... That emotional game.

Dont run that game on me. Have some respect.

I'm not even against the concept of marriage.... I'm already getting the same benefits as married men.

But what will change after?

Let me educate you....

When youre trying to sell something to someone you have to highlight the benefits that they're not already receiving so they can feel inclined to take the next step

You're basically trying to sell me a product that I already received for free and you're trying to get me to pay for it without any added benefits

In fact, I'm losing benefits... So I'm basically going backwards.

I look at all scenarios in life from a standpoint of logic and zero emotion

Emotion is for the bytch.

Yall supposed to be OGs and I feel like I got more game than all y'all nikkas.

If me & my girl last forever.... Its a win.

If we dont.... I can leave with no headache.

Still a win.

Marriage is not needed.

Gotta agree with the Trapper here

If emotionally you feel like there's absolutely zero additional benefit to getting married, you'd be nuts to do it because SHE pushes you (if she pushes you, she ain't the one anyway) or because society expects this shyt (fukk society, society doesn't pay your bills or help you when there are problems).

So people who are like 'yes but you should' actually no you should not because statistically there's a higher chance you'll end up breaking up/divorcing if you get married. There are pressures that come with a wedding and a marriage that are simply not there in a relationship. You hear stories of people being happy 10 years, they get married and boom it's a wrap after 1-2 years. Think about that.

 

[Benefited]

Yup.

Sounding like my 50 year old auntie again

"Have a heart... Have some feelings... Have some empathy"

Breh..... That's the game you supposed to run on bytches..... That emotional game.

Dont run that game on me. Have some respect.

I'm not even against the concept of marriage.... I'm already getting the same benefits as married men.

But what will change after?

Let me educate you....

When youre trying to sell something to someone you have to highlight the benefits that they're not already receiving so they can feel inclined to take the next step

You're basically trying to sell me a product that I already received for free and you're trying to get me to pay for it without any added benefits

In fact, I'm losing benefits... So I'm basically going backwards.

I look at all scenarios in life from a standpoint of logic and zero emotion

Emotion is for the bytch.

Yall supposed to be OGs and I feel like I got more game than all y'all nikkas.

If me & my girl last forever.... Its a win.

If we dont.... I can leave with no headache.

Still a win.

Marriage is not needed.

I already refused to sell to you.
But If I were trying to sell you,you have allowed the tables to be turned,and at this point are trying to sell me. Thats a basic sales no no,lucky for you I'm not selling.
You definitely don't have more game than me,I already said I get your view point because it was my viewpoint,but I'm no longer a devient or want my woman and mother of my child to be in the same boat with the random "Lost and found" women like your girl is currently,the unclaimables.

You just don't have the experience to feel what we feel,or too understand. At this point I couldn't imagine some random chick who I don't want to claim,laying up in my crib,eating my shyt,wasting my time with her stories,learning my lessons. Once you have a accident baby,or trap babies with one of these girls you refuse to marry,then maybe you will understand.

You can't even argue this or sell against it,becaue you wouldn't know until you have one. Hopefully you will have just chosen the right woman to go raw in,tell all your business too,allowed to waste your time and money. And the mother of your children will just happen to be a righteous woman,since you will be bound to her financially and time wise anyway.

Men who don't think about their future with the woman they allow in their space,or setting themselves up to ruin their future,and in some cases lessening their chances of even living to see a future. Theres a clear danger in your mindset.

 

[Benefited]

^No disrespect to your girl by the way,she is one of the unclaimables by your hand. Even though its mostly her fault too for sticking around to be entertainment,a mattress and a counselor without a commitment. Many women are damaged and think that is acceptable,I'd say she is not wife material with this line of thinking. She lacks knowledge of self,or doesn't value herself. Therefore, no wonder you are here downplaying her value even after the good things you said about her

 

[-deleted-]

^No disrespect to your girl by the way,she is one of the unclaimables by your hand. Even though its mostly her fault too for sticking around to be entertainment,a mattress and a counselor without a commitment. Many women are damaged and think that is acceptable,I'd say she is not wife material with this line of thinking. She lacks knowledge of self,or doesn't value herself. Therefore, no wonder you are here downplaying her value even after the good things you said about her

Women do dumb things but they aren’t dumb. She clearly doesn’t mind the situation.

 

[GPBear]

Really in my fukking feelings right now.

Lol breh busted out Satie

 

[Benefited]

Women do dumb things but they aren’t dumb. She clearly doesn’t mind the situation.

Possibly,but they can be dumb and do dumb things,thats if he's lucky. Your mistake is assuming they "clearly" don't mind.
A woman who is not dumb,will clearly the see the benefits of putting up with it especially when its financially beneficial, and put on a fake smile. Then take matters into their own hands when the time is right. With trap babys,setting nikkas up for robberies etc,definitely trap babies.

Having a unnatached woman who doesn't live with you come in and out of your house for decades is not a good look. And if she does live with you,she will be your common law wife after a while in certain places anyway.

so lets see,trap babies,an unclaimable coming in and out of your house for years wasting your time and money,a forced common law wife. Might as well be thinking in terms of wifing a woman if you are going to have a girlfriend.