GMB..... raise ungrateful step kids

KidJSoul

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this has to be fake
Yall only say this when it puts women in a negative light

I'm not even saying this in a bitter women hate way.
Why do y'all think the story is fake , females do cheat
Because we assume that women are angels, because of both social conditioning, and because they are physically smaller and weaker, so we assume their vulnerability means they'll act altruistically
 

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Sad situation all around. I refuse to date a woman with kids. Raising someone else's off spring is insane to me. No baby fathers, separated ex husband's or any of that shyt. I've learned that any man that's in the background can come thru whenever. Its best to try to get someone that is officially single and kid free. Then hope for the best.
 

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The woman and the bm… eh, they got a history and the homeboy should’ve known that from the jump and either solidified his bond with the mom or got out before it got messy :francis:

Them stank ass acting kids are the real problem, raising them as babies and they don’t even offer a shoulder to cry on. That’s an everlasting burn :francis:
 

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So much to unpack here. Where to begin?

  • Don't wife a single mom. You never know if she still has feelings for the baby daddy that are unresolved. As soon he enters the picture... it's free fall :francis:
  • Don't wife a single mom. Just because you raised her kids, that doesn't mean they won't play the "you're not my real dad :damn:" card as soon as you upset them or act stern
  • Don't wife a single mom! It automically lowers you're value. Here's the sad truth: despite all the mumbo jumbo about not shaming single moms and thots, etc. Women themselves think less of you if you date a single mom - especially if THEY are the single mom you're dating. Because why would a high value man spend money dating a single mom and raise some other guys kids? You are dating someone that doesn't respect you.
Additionally, don't simp.

Just because women have shorter than you, weaker than you, and have soft faces and curves... that doesn't mean they are more angelic and nice. A woman can still be a cheating scumbag like any man. They can still do you dirty - especially since the law is on their side when it comes to abuse. NEVER forget that :ufdup:

Women barely think much of regular good, egalitarian men, let alone simps :ufdup: (PDF) Reactions to gender egalitarian men: Perceived feminization due to stigma-by-association
 

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I assure you it’s not. The domestic violence issue is what broke the camels back. Apparently it wasn’t the first time he put hands on her too.

How you just going to leave something so pivotal to the story like this out? They seen this nikka hit their mom multiple times...they have every right to feel some type of way.

Because men pursue and women are pursued, women are often put in the precarious situation of deciding who is the better man. One man is always going to leave hurt.

It’s fukked up, but those are the breaks. A man is only as loyal as his options. That shyt goes for women too.

If your woman doesn’t see you as top dog, you’re gonna have a rough time.

This is not true as everyone does not think like this and playing that game will end up with women losing time and time again. As men age, our value grows...we typically make more money, have more assets, more wisdom, more stability, greater ability to upgrade the women we're dating...the things women like in men: provider, protector, and leader all get better over time.

The same is not true when it comes to how the average man sees the average women. Over time your value declines because your body is not as tight, hair not as fly, you're stuck in your ways and not willing to listen, and come 40 you can't kids anymore so you end up find a lot of dudes willing to have sex with you but not willing to commit resources.

The worse advice you can give ladies is hypergamy because she is gonna be the one hurt in the end. She gonna make that one last jump from the last nikka to commit to her to the more successful dude who just wants to fukk and that's gonna be a wrap for her.
 

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Because men pursue and women are pursued, women are often put in the precarious situation of deciding who is the better man. One man is always going to leave hurt.

It’s fukked up, but those are the breaks. A man is only as loyal as his options. That shyt goes for women too.

If your woman doesn’t see you as top dog, you’re gonna have a rough time.

Yeah. We forget that even though women tend to be on the "submissive" side of relationship dynamics... there is still a lot of power in this role.

You can literally have a man pay for your house, car, etc. And when you decide you are done, you can still keep said possessions. It's an investment. (Provided he isn't abusive)

There's a reason why some women are conservative. :yeshrug:


This is why as a man, you gotta be:
A) cutthroat with your selection. :ufdup: I'm not saying all women are like this, but it is very easy for a woman to use you :ufdup:. And B) Make sure that chick is REALLY into you. As in, your her type, she actually gets turned on by you, you're fukking her the best she's been fukked, and she respects you as a man. In this case, this woman clearly did not see the step husband that way, hence why she had no qualm leaving him once the baby daddy entered the picture.

Make sure you're that guy for her. Otherwise, she'll have no problem collecting child support.
 

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How you just going to leave something so pivotal to the story like this out? They seen this nikka hit their mom multiple times...they have every right to feel some type of way.



This is not true as everyone does not think like this and playing that game will end up with women losing time and time again. As men age, our value grows...we typically make more money, have more assets, more wisdom, more stability, greater ability to upgrade the women we're dating...the things women like in men: provider, protector, and leader all get better over time.

The same is not true when it comes to how the average man sees the average women. Over time your value declines because your body is not as tight, hair not as fly, you're stuck in your ways and not willing to listen, and come 40 you can't kids anymore so you end up find a lot of dudes willing to have sex with you but not willing to commit resources.

The worse advice you can give ladies is hypergamy because she is gonna be the one hurt in the end. She gonna make that one last jump from the last nikka to commit to her to the more successful dude who just wants to fukk and that's gonna be a wrap for her.

Only reason i didn’t expand the DV is because I the only situation I know of for a fact is when he threw her. I was told they had violent arguments but idk if he was beating her ass constantly or just yelling.
 

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I know too many people who have turned their backs on the same people who stepped up to raise them, telling the world sob stories
while romanticizing about their biological families that abandoned them.
This is one of the reason I did not want to pursue a relationship with this beautiful girl with kids, in the end
now matter how hard you work for them, if their bio dad is alive, they will seek them as soon as they become adults.
 

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I’m sorry but the “women’s value declines with time” theory doesn’t stop hypergamy because men naturally compete for women regardless.

Even crackhead men be fighting each other for the affection of a crackhead woman. Women will always have options, even in the nursing home. Just make sure you’re option A and not option B for her.


How you just going to leave something so pivotal to the story like this out? They seen this nikka hit their mom multiple times...they have every right to feel some type of way.



This is not true as everyone does not think like this and playing that game will end up with women losing time and time again. As men age, our value grows...we typically make more money, have more assets, more wisdom, more stability, greater ability to upgrade the women we're dating...the things women like in men: provider, protector, and leader all get better over time.

The same is not true when it comes to how the average man sees the average women. Over time your value declines because your body is not as tight, hair not as fly, you're stuck in your ways and not willing to listen, and come 40 you can't kids anymore so you end up find a lot of dudes willing to have sex with you but not willing to commit resources.

The worse advice you can give ladies is hypergamy because she is gonna be the one hurt in the end. She gonna make that one last jump from the last nikka to commit to her to the more successful dude who just wants to fukk and that's gonna be a wrap for her.
 
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