It doesn’t matter that he hit her. I’m sure it’s for good reason. Doubt he’s hitting her for fuccking up his food or some trivial sh1t like that. It boils down to how u were raised and who u are as a man. I’m pretty sure that woman gave hints and clues she was scandalous long before this happened. Dude just ignored it. It’s better to be alone than to enter in a deal with the devil. Companionship ain’t that important.
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Yikes because him being a serial abuser does throw a wrench in the whole story.
If it was mutual that's different of course
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Yeah. We forget that even though women tend to be on the "submissive" side of relationship dynamics... there is still a lot of power in this role.
You can literally have a man pay for your house, car, etc. And when you decide you are done, you can still keep said possessions. It's an investment. (Provided he isn't abusive)
There's a reason why some women are conservative.
This is why as a man, you gotta be:
A) cutthroat with your selection.I'm not saying all women are like this, but it is very easy for a woman to use you
Make sure you're that guy for her. Otherwise, she'll have no problem collecting child support.
facts. That’s what it boils down to. Her baby father was her type. That’s who she chose in her prime. Only reason they didn’t work was because he was locked.
Stepfather was who she settled for. That’s why it was so easy for her to run back to him
Nah make sure she knows u will leave her ass with the quickness if she misbehaves. None of that why did u do that? Just straight Bush her. Women ain’t stupid man. The way a woman can tell if she’s got u wrapped around her finger is first by trying to make u jealous. If u end the relationship over this from day one, shell learn very quickly. And if y’all do break up, stay broken up and treat her with hostility. Talk down to her. When she comes back she’ll come back submissive.
Women know the exact type of men to try that fucck sh1t with.
Yeah a woman always has options to get dikk but doesn't always have options to be in a committed relationship and get married. If a woman is just looking for dikk she can play the field for the rest of her life, if she's looking for man who is going to commit to her, she has limited window.
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My issue with the situation has been the kids because people falll out of love and cheat/ get divorced everyday. But it is fukked up when you abandon the person who raised you because of conflict with the other parent. That’s always been my position you can find another wife but you can’t replace your kids.
This that red flag shyt that is all too common
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My pops dealt with being a step father came into my then step sister and step brothers lives when they were 9 and 13.
Treated them like his own, gave them money, literally treated the step daughter like a princess bought her whatever it is she wanted, even worked 16 hour days to provide for them and his other kids.
Until 7 years later when he found out his wife was cheating on him and he left her, you’d think they would at bare minimum have respect for him but no they trashed his house stole his ps4 and games.
And the daughter left numerous voicemails cussing him out and telling him he was never her father and she never liked him.
Never ever raise another mans kids because you will always be expendable and 9/10 the kids deep down resent you.
Treated them like his own, gave them money, literally treated the step daughter like a princess bought her whatever it is she wanted, even worked 16 hour days to provide for them and his other kids.
Until 7 years later when he found out his wife was cheating on him and he left her, you’d think they would at bare minimum have respect for him but no they trashed his house stole his ps4 and games.
And the daughter left numerous voicemails cussing him out and telling him he was never her father and she never liked him.
Never ever raise another mans kids because you will always be expendable and 9/10 the kids deep down resent you.
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you didn't say much about the family dynamics other than he raised them and provided. it could have been toxic and they would know that better than you.
i know a few step dads that provide but there is still tension.
even with biological fathers that provide, there can still be tension.
i know a few step dads that provide but there is still tension.
even with biological fathers that provide, there can still be tension.
My Mother's bio father was a straight dead beat, he literally didn't show up for anything although he only lived 20 minutes away (no birthdays, graduations, child birth, etc). Well out of no where he wants a relationship, my mother was all excited and upset with me because I wanted nothing to do with him.
Well my mother was getting married and thought it would be a good idea to have this dead beat mother fukker walk her down the aisle even though her step-father did everything for her since she was 10. Well this caused a huge mess in the family. My mother gets a call from her bio fathers wife pretty much saying her father planned on standing her up at her wedding because my mother didn't call him when he was sick ( my mother had no idea he was sick). She had to swallow her pride and ask her step dad who was already pissed about the situation to walk her down the aisle.
If I ever see her bio father in public I legit might put hands on him I dont give a fukk if he is in his 70s
Well my mother was getting married and thought it would be a good idea to have this dead beat mother fukker walk her down the aisle even though her step-father did everything for her since she was 10. Well this caused a huge mess in the family. My mother gets a call from her bio fathers wife pretty much saying her father planned on standing her up at her wedding because my mother didn't call him when he was sick ( my mother had no idea he was sick). She had to swallow her pride and ask her step dad who was already pissed about the situation to walk her down the aisle.
If I ever see her bio father in public I legit might put hands on him I dont give a fukk if he is in his 70s
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Honestly he needs to body the ex wife and jailbird nikka
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yep. I know it wasn’t all peaches and cream with the family. He was raising four girls and dealing with his wife. That’s a lot of estrogen in one house
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Lookahere mayne...
Facts!
It’s a manipulative tactic so she can have her way.
women throw that word around when they want to do whatever it is that they want, but expect for you to accept their questionable/bad behavior.
another one is the silent treatment or her telling you that you don’t control her.
