Growing up fatherless is depressing as fukk
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BrokePhiBroke
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Ok and. They clearly bringing up stories from being kids.but adults post here. Not saying get over it, but people need to learn to deal with shyt. Being fatherless isn't the worst thing in the world to be. Play the hand you were dealt.
It may not be the worst thing in the world but it's still a "thing" that has horrific affects long after "childhood". If you don't understand that's one thing but like most things if it hasn't been dealt with it can reach adulthood as well.
Most men's ties to their children are tied to the woman he made them with. That goes for married and unmarried men. I think some men have such a shyt idea of what it means to be a good father and it's disheartening.
I get what you're saying and maybe in close friendships someone can expect the line not to be crossed, but on a message board? No one is going to tip-toe around their feelings.
Stop
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
I said this yesterday.
I know men (not by association) who will literally let their seed starve bc of the mother. Go get with a women who has 3 kids that isn't his and take care of them like it's his own.
Are you allowed to see your daughter?
DjBhaled
More chune for your headtop ehh
Not having kids no way after the shyt I done seen in this world would rather not drag another person through this bullshyt and my dad only came around like 10 times from the ages of 3-5 after that I didn't see him until I was 16 and I haven't seen him since. It sucks when you think about it but you learn to accept it especially when he a lying ass nikka giving promises he know he can't live up to ex: I'ma give you some money this week
Gully Bull
Love Sponge
I live in a different part of the country so I have to fly out there to see her. I try to Skype her every weekend.
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Gully Bull
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What percentage would you say out in the total amount of men you know?
Tryna Makit
High plains drifter
Take it from a guy who's Pop is a Piece of shyt......Having a Dad is a lil overrated breh....I mean if you luck up and get Cliff Huxtable or some shyt...lucky you....
BrokePhiBroke
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I can't lie alotta people dusty where I live.What percentage would you say out in the total amount of men you know?
BUT...
Alotta men also try as well and get shut down from the courts and child's mother.
I don't have a percentage for you because I said not by association. These are stories I know. But if it helps my Dad would be one of those people.
If anyone saw the miniseries "The Corner" on HBO, essentially Gary in many ways was like my Father, though I can't reveal all that he did publicly, but the damage he did, I feel nothing until this day. Since I can't feel emotions (but I can imitate them), it is difficult to make friends and stay in touch with family. He can still never get over the fact that what he did was wrong and never take accountability. The level of dysfunction I've endured is beyond belief and unfortunately it has led me down a very dark path in parts of my life. I present well, but on the inside it is pretty empty....