Guy Explains Why Men and Women Can't Be Friends

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ehh I remember you saying you had or have a guy friend but he's really a friend of your husband/bf whatever and you said you don't chill with him outside of the group. People have different definitions of what a friend is.

I wouldn't call that a friendship but that's me, we have a different view on that.
Idk what you are talking about. One of my best friends is a man. He is my friend. He has a wife and all. I do respect his relationship because that is what friends do. It's been strictly platonic for 10+ years.

Ya'll keep confusing being sidelined for friendship...which is odd
 

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testosterone.


women are JUST as immature, but with different traits ( for lack of a better word). Plus lets be really real... If it weren't for men "pretending to want friendship in order to get sex" a lot of you mothafukkas wouldn't exist. Yes I said it... some men had/have to manipulate women into sex and relationships.

Unless I'm definitely not attracted to her or I view her as a sister. I have to put her in either of those categories

This is just nature....(the ugly parts) but still nature.

Always keep i mind, the only true variance in human beings that exist is not race/ethnicity . It's male/female.
Women really don't get the power of testosterone. That shyt got men feeling uncontrollable at times. Imma keep it 100, no way I can be friends with women at 25 years old. At 40 years old most likely, but not at 25. Way too difficult.

But at least I'm honest with it, I'm not going to go around acting like a friend or whatever. Nah.
 
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I feel like there's a lot of women that genuinely just want to be friends with some men, like I've had it happen quite a few times, I guess to help them understand men and vice versa, also just to enjoy company with another person.

People have to understand that, in general, it's pretty difficult to become friends in adulthood regardless of the person's gender, when we become adults everything becomes transactions, people want shyt in return. Also the way in which men and women communicate in of itself can be a big barrier.

I think a lot can be gained from being friends with women, in theory, but in practice... I think I'm good. I have sisters and cousins if anything. With that being said I do know guys with lady friends, usually they've been friends since childhood, highschool or something
 
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Lol. Many women say they want guy friends but a lot just want everything they get from a boyfriend but no sex. If she is willing to do something for you that is not convenient for her and it doesn’t benefit her in anyway then she’s definitely a friend. (Helping you with a presentation, picking you up from the airport, advice, etc.)

But if she just wants a dude to give her advice, attention, and someone to go to movies with without giving anything in return she’s no different than dudes who pretend to be friends.
:yeshrug:
 

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We all this is true but only a idiot will tell every woman he’s trying to smash that’s he’s trying to only smash. That’s where having rosters come into play and just play the we cool role and if you’re not a totally lame you will be able to hit:yeshrug:
Nah. Gotta value our time and energy more to just waste being cool with females.
 

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Lol. Many women say they want guy friends but a lot just want everything they get from a boyfriend but no sex. If she is willing to do something for you that is not convenient for her and it doesn’t benefit her in anyway then she’s definitely a friend. (Helping you with a presentation, picking you up from the airport, advice, etc.)

But if she just wants a dude to give her advice, attention, and someone to go to movies with without giving anything in return she’s no different than dudes who pretend to be friends.
:yeshrug:
Yeah this is what I was trying to get at in my earlier post, bare people just trying to use one another
 

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Nah. Gotta value our time and energy more to just waste being cool with females.
You don’t have to be a simp and change the bytches oil and do each other’s nails. Just be cool with the chick and fukk when it’s your turn
 
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